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Am I wasting my time in Scandinavia?
11-14-2011, 11:35 PM
Hi guys,
It's my first post on this forum. I was checking out your views and couldn't resist sharing my own. I lived for 4 years in Denmark and traveled to Sweden / Iceland.
In my view, in Denmark it works like this:
Status is 90% of what a Danish woman sees in a guy. Status is socially pre-defined and everyone agrees on what is cool and what is uncool. You might be a great talker and she might feel extremely attracted, but she won't make out with you because it would be EMBARASSING and her image is all she cares about.
Now about coolness and travelers visiting Denmark:
Rich countries are cool (US on top). Poor countries are uncool.
Countries they consider vitimized are cool (so African countries are very cool, even if they are poor). Countries that they associate with machism are uncool.
Middle eastern muslim countries are extremely uncool.
So, if you look middle eastern, you need to:
a) Show them you are not middle eastern (marroquinian guys in Denmark claim to be French, others claim to be brazilian, etc..). Preferably wear something that shows them that. If you are from the US, just talk a lot so they notice it. But NEVER SAY YOU ARE FROM WHATEVER MIDDLE EASTERN DESCENT, even if you are from the US.
b) Avoid looking in any way middle eastern (having a beard is an obvious no-go).
c) Specifically look for girls who are into the non-danish, black-haired guys (of non middle eastern background, of course!). They are a clear minority, but you have so much better chances than just randomly try girls.
d) Specifically look for foreign girls while you are in Denmark. They are all depressed as no guy approaches them without being drunk. Danes are so different from most people that you and the girls will immediately bond. For foreign girls, it is as there are no other guys around but yourself. Seize that chance!
I can tell you a quick story to illustrate this: I was in a venue and approached a group with danes and poles. The polish girls wanted to talk to me; the danish girls literally pushed me away. Not only from them, but from the polish girls as well. As the polish girls looked surprised, the danes said "trust us, we know". Later that night I made out with the best looking polish girl in the group, and everyone in the venue looked surprised and disgusted.
Yes, I look middle-eastern ;-)
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Am I wasting my time in Scandinavia?
12-05-2011, 08:32 AM
Danish girls look much worse than swedish or norwegian girls.They really like guys from us Balkans as far as looks are regarded.I had women grab my ass in Copenhagen clubs.But danish men who look very ugly compared to swedish or even norwegian do not allow danish girls to get foreigners except Scandinavians and guys from Anglosaxon countries to whom they are compatible basically UK.It is matter of national pride.
In some cases danish men tried to ridicule me but they really do not stand a chance against Balkan power.In fact you can create domination there although they protest.Norway is different guys there are really tough Danes are soft and pussy like never resisted really.
Danish girls when they go abroad and are away from danish men tend to fuck foreigners with madness.They are among the easiest because they have not experienced good pick up approaches due to being protected by Danes.It is opposite of Swedish who know more or less what is going on in Europe and have experienced almost everything so more difficult to impress.
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Am I wasting my time in Scandinavia?
12-05-2011, 01:02 PM
Interesting because I got laid three times in a week in Sweden and had an immense time in the top clubs absolutely surrounded by stunners. It was the promised land in my opinion.
Girls are DESPERATE for alpha guys who can approach and escalate, scandi guys are fun and social but have absolutely no killer instinct, escalation, sexuality, etc. I lead strong and got sexual, and man the girls were wild for it. Verbally yes they have the standard over-entitlement-bullshit, but once I got escalating they turned into horny 16 yr old boys in a girls body, lol (weird? yes it is heh)
And they are hot as hell. They are skittish and yes somewhat aggressive verbally... scandi girls are definitely "odd" and abit crazy personality wise... but man, are they hot and into foreigners. And this was Stockholm, I imagine Gothenburg is even better.
Is it really that different in Denmark? I find it hard to believe... but I havent been so I'll reserve judgement.