Typically it goes like this. I go to dance/art/martial art/gym and meet girls. We talk and things go so well. Like their eyes light up when they see me coming. They would fight to do dance or train with me. Shit when the teacher/sensei announces partner change some girls would be like "no don't go" and make that cute kitten face.
They would be looking across the room and eye fuck me the whole time.
Teasing is involved. I joke one girl after I gave her a dirty dancing style air lift, about how she is obese. Like a kitten. And watch her mouth drop and the textbook "I hate you" with punching my arm. Or another girl calls me her instructor and her my student.
THEN, when I escalate by asking them out "come let's go grab a drink, we're both thirsty" or "you are cool, come to xyz with me" it always come down to this:
1. I can't today, can we go next time please? Yeah I've been in the game long enough to know that next time her cat will drown and she won't be able to come.
2. Can we get other in the group to come with us? I used to say sure why not, but this usually leads to gaming the whole group and potential cockblocker. When I tell her no, just you and me (in a playful way "what do you need a gang to kidnap me or something?"), she goes dark.
I did have a few times when I can isolate the girls and pull off a lay, but that's like 1/20.
So what am I lacking? Am I lacking attraction, and they dont want to go because they are not attracted enough? If so I need to stop giving these attention whores the privileges of being my partner in class and soak up in my fun. All that flirting and kino just for attention whoring and floating their ego.
Or am I lacking comfort? Especially in case 2. Are they attracted but not comfortable enough to go on a separate date? If so what am I to do.
Or is it simply the number game? If so I'm having horrible close rate 1/20.
Thanks guys.
They would be looking across the room and eye fuck me the whole time.
Teasing is involved. I joke one girl after I gave her a dirty dancing style air lift, about how she is obese. Like a kitten. And watch her mouth drop and the textbook "I hate you" with punching my arm. Or another girl calls me her instructor and her my student.
THEN, when I escalate by asking them out "come let's go grab a drink, we're both thirsty" or "you are cool, come to xyz with me" it always come down to this:
1. I can't today, can we go next time please? Yeah I've been in the game long enough to know that next time her cat will drown and she won't be able to come.
2. Can we get other in the group to come with us? I used to say sure why not, but this usually leads to gaming the whole group and potential cockblocker. When I tell her no, just you and me (in a playful way "what do you need a gang to kidnap me or something?"), she goes dark.
I did have a few times when I can isolate the girls and pull off a lay, but that's like 1/20.
So what am I lacking? Am I lacking attraction, and they dont want to go because they are not attracted enough? If so I need to stop giving these attention whores the privileges of being my partner in class and soak up in my fun. All that flirting and kino just for attention whoring and floating their ego.
Or am I lacking comfort? Especially in case 2. Are they attracted but not comfortable enough to go on a separate date? If so what am I to do.
Or is it simply the number game? If so I'm having horrible close rate 1/20.
Thanks guys.
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