[WanderingSoul]

"Fuck least resistance macking."

WIA breaking it down to the most basic levels, like usual.

Internalize this one setence and watch your quality go way up.

I'm 100% guilty of taking easy notches as opposed to putting in the work for top quality.

[Mujeriego]

(09-29-2014 01:01 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

You need to work on your social skills.

[Ice]

(09-30-2014 12:02 PM)Mujeriego Wrote:  

(09-29-2014 01:01 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

You need to work on your social skills.

Well thanks for that comment - doesn't really help me though, unfortunately.

It's a bit like this t-shirt:

http://2013hoaxblog.s3.amazonaws.com/hilton_poor.jpg

[The Beast1]

(09-29-2014 03:05 PM)Ice Wrote:  

(09-29-2014 02:51 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

Hmm, I understand what you're saying.

I guess the solution is to... have just as dominant a personality if not more

Yeah I know. But the question is just how far do you escalate it. As I mentioned above, it can turn into a pissing contest very quickly. I personally have no problem taking it very far - if you don't know the people and never gonna see them again, whatever. But if they're friends of friends it can have negative consequences if you're escalating too far.

You're in college still right?

Just trust in your ability that you're better than they are. Guys like that tend to fall flat on their face once school ends.

Just make sure that your own shit is in order before you go and snub your nose at them.

[Ice]

(09-30-2014 01:01 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

(09-29-2014 03:05 PM)Ice Wrote:  

(09-29-2014 02:51 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

Hmm, I understand what you're saying.

I guess the solution is to... have just as dominant a personality if not more

Yeah I know. But the question is just how far do you escalate it. As I mentioned above, it can turn into a pissing contest very quickly. I personally have no problem taking it very far - if you don't know the people and never gonna see them again, whatever. But if they're friends of friends it can have negative consequences if you're escalating too far.

You're in college still right?

Just trust in your ability that you're better than they are. Guys like that tend to fall flat on their face once school ends.

Just make sure that your own shit is in order before you go and snub your nose at them.

No I'm not in college.

Yeah as I said, those guys I was referring to are pretty well connected socially, but apart from that they don't have much going for them.

And yeah def, working on getting my shit in order - I'm not in a bad position though.