Hello everyone,
First post on this board and looking forward to participating. Came here through ROK.. good lord I wish I found this place sooner...
Wanted to pick your brain on something.
Workplace situation with a girl who worked directly under me. 29 y.o. really cute and cool. I am 10 years older and a single, never married. If it matters, I'm pretty athletic and "alpha" looking (i.e. full head of hair, 6'4" /245 lbs/ 19in. arms, 34 in. waist..(I hope that did not come off as braggart-dbag).. it was just to give you an idea)
Anyway, we got along great. Since a) it was work and I was her boss, and b) I don't shit where I eat - I never pushed anything and I would say I was never a supplicating beta around her - although objectively, she's hot and smart.. basically my kinda girl. I was always controlled and super professional and never really got into her personal life - therefore I guess you could say we had a relaxed "workplace friends" vibe. She worked with us about six months, directly under me the last three. Her last day was almost two weeks ago, as she took a new job that offered her more money than we can manage right now. (we are a start-up, but she said that the only reason she was leaving was because she needed the extra money from the pay bump to pay her bills, and that once we got up and running to please look her up...)
This week, I get a really sweet thank you card from her in the mail on Monday, I note this because everyone got a thank you card, but mine was beyond the rote "thanks and it was great working with you" that the others got, mine was really personalized and heartfelt going on and on about how much she admires me and loves working with me and blah blah blah (basically for exhibiting red pill non-beta behavior) and how she hopes we are able to work again together in the future..basically she took up the whole damn card.
Yesterday I get a pretty thick Churchill biography from her in the mail. No one else got anything. Surprised to say the least.
So...what do you guys think? At the very least I should send her a reply thank you note, which to be honest, I like the idea of, as it's very old school, and let's face it, kinda masculine..depending on what you write...
Also, as to anything else...I'm loath to go right for it, as I have no idea what her level of attraction is for me (if any) and I have the additional concern, as far as pushing the relationship to something more intimate, as we just worked together and it could come off as kind of creepy...besides I've got 2 other girls in rotation that I'm working on...
So...what do you guys think? At the very least I want to write back to thank her, but how about the other stuff? I kinda want to.. but am thinking maybe I should wait and give her some time to miss me a bit, since I'm really in no rush.. Just curious and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
DOOM.
First post on this board and looking forward to participating. Came here through ROK.. good lord I wish I found this place sooner...
Wanted to pick your brain on something.
Workplace situation with a girl who worked directly under me. 29 y.o. really cute and cool. I am 10 years older and a single, never married. If it matters, I'm pretty athletic and "alpha" looking (i.e. full head of hair, 6'4" /245 lbs/ 19in. arms, 34 in. waist..(I hope that did not come off as braggart-dbag).. it was just to give you an idea)
Anyway, we got along great. Since a) it was work and I was her boss, and b) I don't shit where I eat - I never pushed anything and I would say I was never a supplicating beta around her - although objectively, she's hot and smart.. basically my kinda girl. I was always controlled and super professional and never really got into her personal life - therefore I guess you could say we had a relaxed "workplace friends" vibe. She worked with us about six months, directly under me the last three. Her last day was almost two weeks ago, as she took a new job that offered her more money than we can manage right now. (we are a start-up, but she said that the only reason she was leaving was because she needed the extra money from the pay bump to pay her bills, and that once we got up and running to please look her up...)
This week, I get a really sweet thank you card from her in the mail on Monday, I note this because everyone got a thank you card, but mine was beyond the rote "thanks and it was great working with you" that the others got, mine was really personalized and heartfelt going on and on about how much she admires me and loves working with me and blah blah blah (basically for exhibiting red pill non-beta behavior) and how she hopes we are able to work again together in the future..basically she took up the whole damn card.
Yesterday I get a pretty thick Churchill biography from her in the mail. No one else got anything. Surprised to say the least.
So...what do you guys think? At the very least I should send her a reply thank you note, which to be honest, I like the idea of, as it's very old school, and let's face it, kinda masculine..depending on what you write...
Also, as to anything else...I'm loath to go right for it, as I have no idea what her level of attraction is for me (if any) and I have the additional concern, as far as pushing the relationship to something more intimate, as we just worked together and it could come off as kind of creepy...besides I've got 2 other girls in rotation that I'm working on...
So...what do you guys think? At the very least I want to write back to thank her, but how about the other stuff? I kinda want to.. but am thinking maybe I should wait and give her some time to miss me a bit, since I'm really in no rush.. Just curious and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
DOOM.