[tboz]

I get fucking sick and tired when foreign girls (especially from Asia) say they're "leaving tomorrow" either when they volunteer that info or when I ask them how long they're staying in NYC. They say this because they don't want to be hit on. First of all, I know it's bullshit; they're NOT leaving the next day. Second, I'd like to know what to say to counter this to make them look stupid or flip the script.

[Stun]

^ I'm not trying to be glib here but become a man they want to talk to in the first place.

[Windom Earle]

(09-21-2014 02:48 AM)tboz Wrote:  

They say this because they don't want to be hit on.

Take it as code for time is of the essence and you should run game and escalate as quickly as possible.

In fact, do this despite what they say - i.e. hold frame.

If you don't get anywhere, or you genuinely believe that she is a "no" girl, then eject and find someone else, of which there are no shortage of options.

This thread may be helpful for you also.

[redbeard]

It's a shit test.

They want an alpha male who will bang them once and then leave. Beta males want relationships and anything but a ONS because it secures their reproduction.

Fuck it. When a girl says she leaves tomorrow just ignore it.

In fact, I just banged a girl who's only in town for a night. I showed her a good time around town, took her home, shared a J and a drink, and hit the sheets. I may never see her again.

[Noir]

(09-21-2014 03:12 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

It's a shit test.

They want an alpha male who will bang them once and then leave. Beta males want relationships and anything but a ONS because it secures their reproduction.

Fuck it. When a girl says she leaves tomorrow just ignore it.

In fact, I just banged a girl who's only in town for a night. I showed her a good time around town, took her home, shared a J and a drink, and hit the sheets. I may never see her again.

This. I treat every woman as if I probably won't see her again.

The Noir Show is on for a finale.

[Stun]

(09-21-2014 03:12 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

It's a shit test.

They want an alpha male who will bang them once and then leave. Beta males want relationships and anything but a ONS because it secures their reproduction.

Fuck it. When a girl says she leaves tomorrow just ignore it.

In fact, I just banged a girl who's only in town for a night. I showed her a good time around town, took her home, shared a J and a drink, and hit the sheets. I may never see her again.

I like this line of thinking. I feel like every girl, even non slutty, bangs at least one random guy per year. It's just a matter of being there and being that guy.

[redbeard]

People who know me know that I don't like discussing sexual strategy/hypergamy/all of that shit. Why should the everything else forum be littered with complaints about how the nature of women? Accept it and move it. But that's a whole 'nother discussion....

In cases like this it's best to accept female hypergamy. When a girl is leaving the next day and you still push for sex, she's immediately signaled that you are part of the secret society and that you should have sex that night. She knows that you are a lover not a provider.

Gmanifesto also has a post where he talks about how every woman will sleep with a playboy at one point. I try to embody this, especially with girls who leave the next day.


Lastly Roosh has a great post about "being that guy."

All of the above articles are some of my favorites and definitely help motivate my game.

[HawkWrites]

"That's unfortunate; I'm only here today."

[germanico]

If you dont want that information, why do you ask for it in the first place?

[Stun]

^ He's figuring out logistics. But still, I stand by my statement that a guy doing day game shouldn't be hearing that a lot. You want to be a guy that she wants to talk to in the first place.

[germanico]

If you dont want that information, why do you ask for it in the first place?

[tboz]

(09-21-2014 02:58 AM)Windom Earle Wrote:  

Take it as code for time is of the essence and you should run game and escalate as quickly as possible.

In fact, do this despite what they say - i.e. hold frame.

If you don't get anywhere, or you genuinely believe that she is a "no" girl, then eject and find someone else, of which there are no shortage of options.

This thread may be helpful for you also.

Physically escalating on the street with a girl you just met after they said this may get you arrested. I don't think that's a good idea.

(09-21-2014 03:12 AM)redbeard Wrote:  

It's a shit test.

They want an alpha male who will bang them once and then leave. Beta males want relationships and anything but a ONS because it secures their reproduction.

Fuck it. When a girl says she leaves tomorrow just ignore it.

I hope it is just that. But I'll definitely ignore it and flip the script around. Maybe I can say, "Yeah I'm leaving tomorrow too.. and, what a coincidence, I'm traveling to your country too.. that's amazing!" Just to make them look stupid.