[RasCharlamagne]

Alright guys, I've got a problem. I'm terrible with women, and I mean terrible. I took the red pill this summer and read a lot about games, and I've put a little bit into practice, but I'm to far from what I should be. I'm a 6'8 black male at St. John's U, the world should be my playground. Yet I'm struggling horribly. Just my first day back after break, I didn't approach any girls, and the two girls that approached me (one needed help finding a building, and the other was blatantly flirting with me) managed to sleep away without number closes. I need help man. Im not sure how to use my height as an advantage to close numbers and I'm just flat out not approaching. Also:I've noticed that sometimes I don't appear open for girls to approach. How can I seem more welcoming? Thanks for any advice guys!

[Nomad77]

Find a guy on your campus who seem to be good with girls and beg him to help you out. You might have a self-confidence issue and that's hard to fix remotely.

[Cobra]

What is your dressing style like. It's something that you can fix to get our of your comfort zone consistently.

For example wear something that stands out and makes you uncomfortable (eg. Pocket square, big watch, belt buckle, jewelry). Walk upright like Denzel. It won't seep in soon, but over time you will feel different which will make your approaches more natural.

Logically:
-Girls like attractive men..
-Attractive men dress well and have open body language..
-YOU dress well and..

It takes a while for your subconscious mind to connect these but you get the drift.

[Dalaran1991]

(09-10-2014 05:28 PM)RasCharlamagne Wrote:  

Alright guys, I've got a problem. I'm terrible with women, and I mean terrible. I took the red pill this summer and read a lot about games, and I've put a little bit into practice, but I'm to far from what I should be. I'm a 6'8 black male at St. John's U, the world should be my playground. Yet I'm struggling horribly. Just my first day back after break, I didn't approach any girls, and the two girls that approached me (one needed help finding a building, and the other was blatantly flirting with me) managed to sleep away without number closes. I need help man. Im not sure how to use my height as an advantage to close numbers and I'm just flat out not approaching. Also:I've noticed that sometimes I don't appear open for girls to approach. How can I seem more welcoming? Thanks for any advice guys!

At least you got the good attitude. Show the girls that.

Dont capitalize on your height. It gives you advantage but if you care too much it will shift your focus away. Other than that, what Nomad said.

[RasCharlamagne]

I actually don't have a lot of friends on campus so that's something I'm gonna try-minus the begging part.