[Basil Ransom]

Girls also feel like tequila is this divine license to act drunk and slutty.

Damn that soda and bitters idea is terrific, ha! Ginger beer is good too, but not available everywhere and there's a higher chance she'll realize its nonalcoholic.

Also with making your drinks at home, it's super easy to water yours down... Or literally drink water instead of clear tequila/vodka shots. Keep a bottle of water handy.

Fuck I need to stop dicking around with wine.

I forgot to mention that trick of ordering by yourself at the bar and getting yourself something non alcoholic. Trouble is the big glass usually gives it away that you're just drinking soda water.

[shotgun]

My dates always involve a lot of alcohol with small food intake. Usually wine bars. So basically you order a bottle of wine or champagne -one of the cheapest in the menu, she most likely won't know the difference between cheap and expensive wine. And some appetizers to go with it. You will "share" them with the girl, but you will eat most of it. Make sure you have had dinner before, so you can absorb your alcohol intake and not get too sloppy.

Out of all drinks, wine and champagne seem to have the most power of opening up girls to you physically. They love it and most times they will get drunk without noticing, unlike when they have stronger drinks with distilled alcohol on them. There's a limit though. When girls drink a lot of wine, they get past the point of horniness and start feeling real sleepy. If you notice she's getting near that point, jokingly push the bottle from her with a smirk, don't say anything.

[Basil Ransom]

I didn't really realize it until now but BYOB restaurants are a great value. Instead of spending $40+ on drinks, bring a $5-10 bottle of wine, and spend your money on food instead, and get more drunk!

I just found a great local option, going to exploit it soon. I've also used the sushi formula to great effect as well, but it only works if the girl likes sake - many don't. Wine is a lot more versatile. Haha, I might even try rolling into a shitty BYOB Mexican spot with a handle of tequila pre-mixed margarita, would be great for a tatted up hipster hoe that digs dive bars.

(09-06-2014 06:56 PM)shotgun Wrote:  

Out of all drinks, wine and champagne seem to have the most power of opening up girls to you physically. They love it and most times they will get drunk without noticing, unlike when they have stronger drinks with distilled alcohol on them. There's a limit though. When girls drink a lot of wine, they get past the point of horniness and start feeling real sleepy. If you notice she's getting near that point, jokingly push the bottle from her with a smirk, don't say anything.

The drawback with wine is that most girls drink it fairly slowly, they nurse it. People don't nurse cocktails nearly as much. Plus the sugar in cocktails gives an energy boost that masks the depressant effects of alcohol. However, having a bottle at the table to constantly refill your glasses remediates the 'nursing your glass' effect.

[DVY]

No wine ever. Its the worse drink for getting plowed. Girls are pros at sipping wine and drinking it for 3-4 hours (1 glass). You need to introduce elements of instability ie confuse them on how much they drink.

That why sake and mixed drinks are so good.

El Mech's vodka +crystal geyser mix is another one that springs to mind

[Noir]

(09-05-2014 02:32 PM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  

"c) Low investment over a long period of time rather than high investment over a short period of time. "

I think this is the only one of yours that may work, but usually you don't have this option unless you know her from social circle. A and B are standard game fare that I readily use - effective usually, but not enough so for this group.

Yeah girls in SoCal and America in general have a little bit of this, but occasionally it's very extreme - like a girl being weird about kissing despite having two drinks and being kino-ed all night. And having a slutty past of course. In my limited experience, it seems a lot more pronounced among British chicks.

Fair enough Basil, I am currently experiencing something similar so I am experimenting to see what kind of environments have what kind of effect i.e us being alone vs. us being in a setting where we are recognized etc.

The problem with low investment over time is that despite you avoiding the friend-zone, a few other guys may swoop in during that time-period and for reasons such as social circle or whatever, you may lose out. DVY touched upon this and I have experienced it too.

Tight game is supposed to overcome it but these girls are usually freaks for their own reasons.

Let us know how it pans out. I would fuck with her mind and take her to places where there are girls I know/have hooked up with in the past but I can be sadistic at times.

[Dr. Howard]

Just adding a daygame option for this. Mimosa and Bloody Mary brunches, here are the plusses I see of them.

1. I get tired out early at night, so drinking late is just bad news
2. You can eat a big time breakfast before going out, being a girl its unlikely she will have eaten before showing up to brunch so now you are full stomach vs. empty
3. Easier transition, you can use a line like "man, I really don't feel like doing anything today. I think I'm just going to sit on the couch, drink beer and watch netflix, what about you?"...no girl has plans on a sunday and so if she responds with 'I don't know, or that sounds awesome' you then invite her...You can't pull that at a bar without seeming antisocial or a rapist
4. Girls don't go out to brunch with friends
5. Easier to introduce booze. Ie, get her to 'come out for breakfast' and then after she agrees just go to a bloody mary place.
6. You have daylight on your side! No being duped by club lighting.
7. I have never seen white knighting or cock blocking at brunch.

[Basil Ransom]

Yeah, bottomless brunch is very solid. Better than a night date as long as she loves mimosas.

Does anyone have good drinking games for dates? Everybody drinks quicker when there is some drinking ritual or rule involved dictating when to drink.

I like never have I ever, just make sure you have enough privacy to play it...

Also, look for a BYOB spot.

[Noir]

(09-08-2014 11:40 AM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  

Yeah, bottomless brunch is very solid. Better than a night date as long as she loves mimosas.

Does anyone have good drinking games for dates? Everybody drinks quicker when there is some drinking ritual or rule involved dictating when to drink.

I like never have I ever, just make sure you have enough privacy to play it...

Also, look for a BYOB spot.

Yes, I personally play the 'flip the cigarette packet' game. It only needs two people and can be played anywhere. Required: booze, cigarettes and a table.

Create a 'progression ladder' for when her drink is up or yours is and make it competitive. Bonding and whatnot.

edit: Video is kinda retarded, here is a link too: http://www.drinkswap.com/games/toppers.htm

There are more games but they get boring as they require more participants.

[DVY]

If you have a group of people, you can play "Lower" for bottomless mimosa. Frat parties do this a lot.

Gist -
Everybody starts w/same full glass of mimosas. Some takes a sip and says lower. Everybody has to drink to slightly lower level. Repeat ad naseaum.

This is more fun when you have a big group, because somebody will sneakily drink their glass and then pop out "lower" as people just take a bite of food.

Don't be suprised if you get smashed. I had 12 mimosas w/my buddy and the girls stopped at 6-7 which is still insane.

The restaurant staff thought we were hysterical

[kaotic]

I need to read this:

I just got in contact with a girl on snapchat. She apparently still had my # and added me.

I found out who it was, it was this slutty chick from back in the day HB 8.

She came into my shop years back asked for an app, I finally got her number when she came back in with the app, she told she wanted me to get her number. Turns out she flaked....ended up banging a good friend of mine. (We had a good laugh about that.)

Fast forward to now, setup Tuesday to grab a drink, she gave me ALOT of resistance on "not drinking this month" and she doesn't drink that much.

I countered with bowling and she agreed.

I'm wondering if her slut defensive activate when a guy wants to grab a drink with her.

I'm honestly winging this and expecting a flake. Sober game is hard to deal with but it's been done before.

[la_mode]

Rubirosa's dinner philosophy: All drinks, no food.

Can't go wrong there.

[Dr. Howard]

(09-08-2014 02:14 PM)DVY Wrote:  

If you have a group of people, you can play "Lower" for bottomless mimosa. Frat parties do this a lot.

Gist -
Everybody starts w/same full glass of mimosas. Some takes a sip and says lower. Everybody has to drink to slightly lower level. Repeat ad naseaum.

This is more fun when you have a big group, because somebody will sneakily drink their glass and then pop out "lower" as people just take a bite of food.

Don't be suprised if you get smashed. I had 12 mimosas w/my buddy and the girls stopped at 6-7 which is still insane.

The restaurant staff thought we were hysterical

All of this talk of Mimosas...I can't do it, so much orange juice and so little booze that I'd have gut rot before being drunk. Are bloody mary's not a universal american thing? (see also ceasars if you are in Canada)...double or triple shots of vodka vs. splash of champagne.

[MrXY]

I can't do Mimosas either- all that OJ burns up my stomach. Besides, that's a girlie drink

A restaurant in my town does bottomless Mimosas and Bloodys for $15 every Sat and Sun

Would be a good first date for an online girl

[Basil Ransom]

When I do bottomless mimosas, I have her get the mimosas and I get the marys.

Unfortunately, it seems like the places around me only do bottomless mimosas, and not bottomless bloody marys.

[DVY]

Tell them to do champagne heavy/ OJ light. Complain that it hurts your stomach. I've never had somebody say no.