[fiber-optics]

I'm Asian, 5'8", muscular but not cut, virgin but not for long.

I moved into my dorm today in NYC. There was an event that required people to gather and I approached mostly during the event. My openers was some variation of this: "Hi, I'm fiber-optics on floor x. What's your name?" Add a smile and I had literally no failures with this one because everyone is anxious to meet new people. From then on it was a simple matter of driving the conversation and kino if I had the opportunity. I had the most enthusiastic responses from girls by themselves in a group (speak directly to her) and from two girls walking together (most likely roommates).

Total of 4 approaches:
- one girl (international student, 7/10, cute face, forgot to number close)
- one girl (????, 8/10, girl next door-type, forgot to number close)
- two girls (roommates, on my floor, 7/10 and 8/10, number closed both)
- one girl (had betas surrounding her, slim body, 8/10, number closed)

Notes:
I need to scope out the party scene in the area, acquire some connections to get weed.

I welcome any opinions, criticism, comments.

[SydneyD]

Haha "virgin but not for long"...that's a classic!

Anyway, on a more serious note, in each and every approach you execute you must have your 'end-game' in mind.

And by that I mean don't carried away by the chitter chatter. Your intention should always be to close your targets either by getting the number or by escalating and pushing the interaction as far as humanly possible. You can't afford to just 'forget' about getting the number!

Best of luck though.

I'll be going to university this thursday so i'll be watching this thread very closely, learning from your mistakes and getting more poosy

[Virtus]

Find weed and make fast friends with decently put together guys around your dorm. Make friends with ra's so they are more lenient when you get caught smoking. Also find a bjj/mma team. Mma guys smash and keep training all through college so you make friends with guys much older and more connected than you right then and there. Think of it as a frat of sorts. If you hurry up and join mma team you can leverage you approaching and meeting girls into a "promoter" of sorts situation. Where you drag gaggles of girls to parties and you get hooked up with vip access to same parties because of you dragging gaggles of girls around. Dont worry about banging any particular girl at first. Invite many and be their go to guy for access and you also get access to their friends. Also preselection. If its not your persona, well nobody knows you yet so you can be anyone to anyone. Also there are a few college game threads here

Also these two

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2011/05/the...-time.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/08/gre...-time.html

[fiber-optics]

All right, sorry for the delay. Moving in was a bitch.

From 8-25 'till 9-11...

I'd say around 40 approaches, over half of which were personal and the rest through mutual friends that introduced us. I've categorized my approaches into a few categories:
- FRESHMAN (easy to talk to since it's early in the year and these girls are still adjusting) /20
- UPPERCLASSMEN (I play the innocent lost freshman that has no idea where he's going) /15
- OUTSIDERS (girls in my dorm that don't go to my school) /5

A few major events that were huge for me include being invited to go have dinner by a fraternity on campus, being invited by that same fraternity to a mixer that involved a different school, and then attending rush events hosted by a DIFFERENT fraternity. I was given this advice by a lot of my friends: "go to the first meeting of many clubs and drop the ones I'm not interested." I'd like to put a spin on this advice and say: "go to the first meeting of many clubs, flirt with the pretty girls there, get their numbers, drop the clubs I'm not interested in, and talk to those girls anyway." I noticed that I am getting very good with being in many different conversations at the same time with multiple people in front of me - it allows me to keep the pace of the huge group chat and think of jokes for person 2 while I'm speaking with person 1. The only problem I have is not approaching the pretty ones I see walking around, mainly because I'm not prepared. I'll need a way to fix this. Another problem is not being able to pair numbers and names in my phone to faces, so I usually jot down some quick features about every girl in my phone. (nice tits, nice ass, cute face, likeable personality, etc...)

When I'm in a conversation I try to nonchalantly talk about what I do outside of classes, which involve dance (not the pussy type) and writing articles for start-ups and businesses. I do this to gauge their interest - and also to say "I could show you how to dance some time..." which locks in the number close.

Unfortunately, I'm having difficulty with kiss-closing because the environment I'm in almost guarantees that the female of interest and I are not alone. Any ideas, guys? Don't tell me to try to get her alone - I've tried, but this school has people every-fucking-where.

[fiber-optics]

(08-25-2014 12:33 AM)SydneyD Wrote:  

Haha "virgin but not for long"...that's a classic!

Anyway, on a more serious note, in each and every approach you execute you must have your 'end-game' in mind.

And by that I mean don't carried away by the chitter chatter. Your intention should always be to close your targets either by getting the number or by escalating and pushing the interaction as far as humanly possible. You can't afford to just 'forget' about getting the number!

Best of luck though.

I'll be going to university this thursday so i'll be watching this thread very closely, learning from your mistakes and getting more poosy

Took this to heart - thanks.