I have a FWB who has expressed interest in a FFM threesome with me and another woman. At the same time, I've been emailing with a woman I met online and trying to set up a sex date, but I haven't met her in person yet. To move thing along with the second woman, I brought up the idea of a threesome with me and my FWB, and she jumped at it, especially after seeing photos of her.
The problem is I'm having some trouble with the logistics. So far I've been communicating with both women separately and sharing information between them. Although they've seen each other's photos, they haven't chatted or emailed with each other. At first I thought this was for the best, but now I wonder. As well, I've been playing in VERY cool and moving ahead slowly, because I don't want to seem desperate.
1. Even though it seems to be going well, I'm still very concerned about flakiness. Any tips?
2. Should I introduce them to each other online to help coordinate logistics or should I keep them apart until they meet in person?
3. Am I playing it too cool? We've been talking about it for a month. So far they still seem into it but I don't want them to lose interest. On the other hand I cannot seem desperate.
This threesome is still far from a sure thing. I sure could use any advice, especially if you have experience in making them happen!
The problem is I'm having some trouble with the logistics. So far I've been communicating with both women separately and sharing information between them. Although they've seen each other's photos, they haven't chatted or emailed with each other. At first I thought this was for the best, but now I wonder. As well, I've been playing in VERY cool and moving ahead slowly, because I don't want to seem desperate.
1. Even though it seems to be going well, I'm still very concerned about flakiness. Any tips?
2. Should I introduce them to each other online to help coordinate logistics or should I keep them apart until they meet in person?
3. Am I playing it too cool? We've been talking about it for a month. So far they still seem into it but I don't want them to lose interest. On the other hand I cannot seem desperate.
This threesome is still far from a sure thing. I sure could use any advice, especially if you have experience in making them happen!
Barry