[Frostbite]

We've never met before. Only briefly talked by text / exchanged pics.

I've been pretty asshole / aloof towards her and it seems to have had the opposite effect ?

[M.D.Douche]

Not all techniques work on all women. You have to modify your game for each person.

[JayJuanGee]

So I take it that you are interested in following through, potentially? I think that the fact that she is still communicating with you potentially means that she is still interested - unless she just wanted to get the last word... but it seems like she may still be open to you... especially since she is using positive descriptors.... Girls say that they are interested in personality, but that is usually a long term relationship criticism and does NOT really apply to short-term, unless she is just shit testing you.

How come she has negative impression of your personality? Asshole game or aloof game?

You may consider responding something like this: "you mean that my personality did NOT come thru those pics?"

I am having a hard time coming up with any other follow-up suggestions because it seems that she is coming to her conclusion about your personality based on your previous text, of course NOT your pictures.

I personally think that any response would strive NOT to put you on any kind of defense, but to demonstrate some aspect of personality that she may have overlooked.. potentially making adjustments to your previous style or provide some plausible explanation, like: "my cousins been visiting for the last two weeks, so I have been somewhat distracted my various texts."

or you may say something like: "well how about we go out for a drink at__________ and at least we could talk about our planned scuba diving trip" or some other topic that you believe may pique her interest.

[germanico]

Explain what?

Make your thread titles more compelling.

[Atlantic]

That's not aloof. You played straight into her frame.

There are multiple text/tinder/fb/online threads on here.