[JayJuanGee]

(08-14-2014 04:17 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

This was one aspect of game that grossed me out.

I don't tell a woman how many women i've slept with. Why should I hear hers? No need to talk about it.

I think hearing the expression "grossed me out" from a man grosses me out. hehehhe.. First time i used that expression, except making fun of a situation.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Women crave acceptance of their sexual past from anyone they're attracted to in any context. It's basically a shit test: say "I understand" and make your judgements privately.

[xxMarco]

Last weekend I got done banging out a girl in my rotation. She starts to spill the beans about everything. Her past marriage, her ex who used to beat her, that date she went on with a guy in a trench coat and long hair.

Its happened numerous times. Logically I think to myself. Why would someone tell you their not so good secrets if they want to keep you around. Doesn't make sense.

Now that's my logic. The saying goes don't logic women. Emotionally I have no idea what they're thinking.
I usually let them go on and hear all the red flags then I kick myself later. (Told myself not to fuck with that crazy bitch)

[jariel]

(08-15-2014 05:55 AM)xxMarco Wrote:  

Last weekend I got done banging out a girl in my rotation. She starts to spill the beans about everything. Her past marriage, her ex who used to beat her, that date she went on with a guy in a trench coat and long hair.

My chicks tend to pass out after it's over.

If you just fucked that bitch good, and in the process she dumped her fluids all over your balls, and yet she finds herself compelled to tell you about completely irrelevant shit that has to do with other men who aren't you, who didn't just serve her up, then that should be the last time she has such the pleasure.

Don't have any further communication with that chick.

[Beyond Borders]

To me, this is just like when women constantly talk about other guys who hit on them, people saying how beautiful they are, and guys who are into them, etc. Another pet peeve of mine.

They're just trying to build themselves as desirable to you, and I think it's done out of a place of insecurity.

To me, it's a real turn-off and only has the effect of making me look down on them more. I'm not sure why women don't get it - feminism has really screwed up their perception of what makes a woman desirable, I guess.

[JayJuanGee]

(08-15-2014 06:30 AM)jariel Wrote:  

(08-15-2014 05:55 AM)xxMarco Wrote:  

Last weekend I got done banging out a girl in my rotation. She starts to spill the beans about everything. Her past marriage, her ex who used to beat her, that date she went on with a guy in a trench coat and long hair.

My chicks tend to pass out after it's over.

If you just fucked that bitch good, and in the process she dumped her fluids all over your balls, and yet she finds herself compelled to tell you about completely irrelevant shit that has to do with other men who aren't you, who didn't just serve her up, then that should be the last time she has such the pleasure.

Don't have any further communication with that chick.

- classically funny... The only thing that could possibly improve this post would be a picture of the "passed out" lizard...

[Sombro]

   

[Grit]

Why are you asking ONS girls intimate questions? Get in there, bang her, and get out.

[Akula]

(08-14-2014 03:15 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(08-14-2014 02:31 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I come off as extremely non judgemental which I am sure helps get quick bangs.

I've had the desire for mini relationships lately and am wondering if this listener non-judgemental strategy puts me too far in the "this guy is just dick" zone.

Them damn near virginal bitches (20 dicks or less) will be disappointing in some other way.

ha ha - funny that girls who've banged up to 20 guys are considered 'near virginal' in the US of A but I guess that's where we are at these days.

Several recent girls have 'spilled their guts' to me recently and they've all been damaged one way or another.

The EE variant of this is along the lines of "my ex boyfriend promised to marry me and I moved to XYZ city to be with him then he dumped me" etc. (bc these girls actually want to be in relationships and get married). I heard this 2x recently actually and both times that was essentially the last bang I had with them.

[Vaun]

This could be a poll, how many men does this happen too? I would say many given how much its happened to me, almost exactly like this.

My theory is that young women are so dumb these days that they don't understand that this is a complete slap in the face and totally disrespectful. They equate conversation with you, to those with their girlfriends.

Nothing but disrespect. Let the bitch corral cats.

[Nostromo]

I have had this happen when I wasn't sexualizing enough on dates and this was their way of doing it. Other times I have heard unabashed NYC girls using it to prove their value. Either way I have found that its a good thing in the short term that they are sexualizing the conversation themselves.

[reaper23]

just remember they are telling you whatever they are telling you for a reason. they want you to think something about them, which is why they are telling you.

i've had chicks lie about their sexual experiences (over stated!) because they were afraid I would think they were not experienced or knowledgable enough for me.

only think about "why is she telling me this, what does she want me to think" -

[Oswaldo Guimaraens]

This is an important point. Her motivation in spilling is not really relevant, and if you don't let it affect your attitude about the woman you just banged, then this can be useful information. She has let her guard down and engaged in that rare moment of female honesty.

Her reflections should give the listener a tidbit more information about how the female brain works -- more information to file away in your game database for future girls.

[poutsara]

(08-13-2014 10:18 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I've encountered this enough times that now I wonder what it means as far as how I am perceived by girls after having sex with them.
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I can't figure out how they are so comfortable spilling their pasts with lost love, hook ups, love for complete assholes.

Is this because I come off as purely a guy for sex and not BF material?
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Do chicks just not give a shit about the image they project to the guy they are fucking?

The truth is, we are both sometimes the alpha asshole whom girls throw themselves on and we laugh about, and we are sometimes the beta provider they are trying to lock-in. It's just a difference in degree, timing, and girl.

[blacknwhitespade]

Bitches crave drama and like to ramble about all the drama in their lives. It releases some sort of chemical in their brain and makes them feel good. My ex used to bring up her ex-boyfriends to me and it was always the negative stuff: "he was angry, he was violent, he damaged things around the house,...". Women get some sort of high off of talking to you about this stuff.