[april6e]

Finally had a successful conversation with a woman I met where we both are interested in meeting up for sex.

Problem is, I am currently in the "faking it until I make it" mode of my sexual journey and don't really have a place to pull her to if the meet up goes well. My abode is a no-go. I could try to have her bring me home with her but that's always iffy and contradicts the leading frame I used to invite her out in the first place. I also have a roomy car but again, I have no experience making an invitation to my car natural.

Have some quick advice for me? Is the car my only option? And if so, how do I propose this as naturally as possible?

[germanico]

It much depends on the "why"...

Why is your own place not an option?

Distance: you place is very far away from meeting location. Just tell her "my place is kinda closer to Y (if you location is X), but ill promise ill get you home safe"

Neatness: your place is a mess. Just do a quick cleanup, open the windows and spray some Glade, scrub your toilet and bathroom, and make your own bed. As long as the beds made, the bathroom is clean, and it doesnt reeks, its allright.

You are faking it: you presented yourself as a big baller while in fact you live in a tiny broom closet. Irrelevant, just plow though your game as usual and pull her back yo yoour tiny bed in your tiny place. She wont mind.

You dont have a place of your own: you live with family or roomates. If its roommates and you got your own room, fuck them. You pay your share so you can do whatever the fuck you want. If you share a room or live with a trusted family member (brother, uncle, even dad sometimes) ask them to do you a favour and make themselves scarce for an hour or two. If asking that is not an option, then try to close the deal as silently as possible.

Taking her back to her own place. Just tell her that, say that out of town family is staying at your place if necessary, or just say "lets go to your place" and lead her there. ALWAYS BE LEADING. Dont ask, rather say, tell, show.

Or take her to a motel. If you cant afford to get a motel room for one afternoon, gaming should be the least of your concerns now.

[WestIndianArchie]

Her place,
hotel,
in public,
push till next meeting

Best option and most useful for game learning purposes is her place.

WIA

[Renberg]

I've hooked up with girls in my car by:
1. Hooking up at the bar beforehand
2. Saying I'll drive her home
3. Suggesting we listen to a song I have on CD

[Simeon_Strangelight]

For fuck's sake - the previous generations were doing that in the 50s already:

Take a drive and find a nice sweet romantic spot - nice view, lake, anything - and then do it. Most girls are not stupid and besides - you always have an excuse that you just want to have a romantic spot for a deep talk. I have been doing that on my dates since I was a teenager - all naturally.

"Let's take a drive, I want to show you something." Many many Babyboomers were conceived like that.

[BarryInSF]

Forget about this particular girl for a second. This is a long-term problem, so you need a long-term solution or you'll be posting the same question here every time you meet someone new. Stop asking yourself where you're going to bang this girl and starting asking yourself where you're going to bang, period. This will force you to think about getting your own place, finding a wingman who will let you use his place on a regular basis, or even finding a hotel in your price range.

Logistics require planning, my friend.