[flashbang]

Hey everyone,

As I travel throughout Europe I often get asked "how long are you staying in XYZ country?" Do you think I´m better off saying I´m here for a short while, or for the long haul? Cheers!

[emh]

(03-08-2011 03:59 PM)flashbang Wrote:  

Hey everyone,

As I travel throughout Europe I often get asked "how long are you staying in XYZ country?" Do you think I´m better off saying I´m here for a short while, or for the long haul? Cheers!

Hmm....I struggle with that question as well. Hope someone more knowledgeable comes along with a good answer. BTW, this probably belongs in the travel thread so hopefully it will get moved.

[flashbang]

(03-09-2011 12:28 PM)emh Wrote:  

(03-08-2011 03:59 PM)flashbang Wrote:  

Hey everyone,

As I travel throughout Europe I often get asked "how long are you staying in XYZ country?" Do you think I´m better off saying I´m here for a short while, or for the long haul? Cheers!

Hmm....I struggle with that question as well. Hope someone more knowledgeable comes along with a good answer. BTW, this probably belongs in the travel thread so hopefully it will get moved.

Thanks emh. On the one hand saying you´re there for a long time shows that you appreciate the country and dispels any fear she may have that you´re just gonna fuck her and leave. On the other hand a short stay creates a sense of urgency and gives you the excuse to be more aggressive in the game. I would really like to know how others here feel about this because girls tend to ask me this question with predictable frequency. What I´ve been doing is casually hinting that I may in the country as long as I choose to be.Thanks for pointing out that I should post this in the travel thread. Will do so next time.

[BB_Jenkins]

Funny. I think a lot of us may struggle with this. I feel like when I tell them that I'll be there for a long period of time of the panties drop pretty quickly. All the worries in her mind go flying out the door and she dives in head first. I always get negative feedback when I inform them that I'll be leaving soon. BUT this is MY experience and it's quite possible that I just so happen to run into the ones that are just not down for the quick fuck. Also I LOVE to brain wash women too so..

[emh]

(03-09-2011 01:26 PM)flashbang Wrote:  

(03-09-2011 12:28 PM)emh Wrote:  

(03-08-2011 03:59 PM)flashbang Wrote:  

Hey everyone,

As I travel throughout Europe I often get asked "how long are you staying in XYZ country?" Do you think I´m better off saying I´m here for a short while, or for the long haul? Cheers!

Hmm....I struggle with that question as well. Hope someone more knowledgeable comes along with a good answer. BTW, this probably belongs in the travel thread so hopefully it will get moved.

Thanks emh. On the one hand saying you´re there for a long time shows that you appreciate the country and dispels any fear she may have that you´re just gonna fuck her and leave. On the other hand a short stay creates a sense of urgency and gives you the excuse to be more aggressive in the game. I would really like to know how others here feel about this because girls tend to ask me this question with predictable frequency. What I´ve been doing is casually hinting that I may in the country as long as I choose to be.Thanks for pointing out that I should post this in the travel thread. Will do so next time.

Yeah, it's a bit of a catch-22. Another thing I've found is that even when I repeatedly tell them that I'm planning on staying for a while, they don't believe me. Maybe cause I'm not working so I don't have any long-term ties to the area.