[CarlosTheJ]

After a first date bang:

--How far out should I set the second date.

--Should it be a true date with an activity, or can I go directly to her place for sex (we banged after 30 minutes on the first date)?

[joshbar]

(08-04-2014 10:52 PM)CarlosTheJ Wrote:  

After a first date bang:

--How far out should I set the second date.

--Should it be a true date with an activity, or can I go directly to her place for sex (we banged after 30 minutes on the first date)?

How did you guys meet?
What are you tying to do with her? Are you trying to have her as a GF or a fuck buddy?
Is she a party girl that always down to party or does she want something more serious?

It really depends on what your trying to do. If you like her and want to hang out take her on a date with an activity. If you just want to fuck go to her place and watch "netflex" as one things leads to another.

[CarlosTheJ]

(08-04-2014 11:26 PM)joshbar Wrote:  

How did you guys meet?
What are you tying to do with her? Are you trying to have her as a GF or a fuck buddy?
Is she a party girl that always down to party or does she want something more serious?

It really depends on what your trying to do. If you like her and want to hang out take her on a date with an activity. If you just want to fuck go to her place and watch "netflex" as one things leads to another.

Thanks. We met on OKC. I haven't decided whether I want her as a GF. She seems to want a committed Dom/sub relationship. She likes sex with me and wants to do it again. I haven't hung out with her much, so I'm not sure how fun that would be, but probably it would be because she asked if I wanted to go to the shooting range with her. I'm on parole and didn't tell her this (though out of the blue she asked a very specific question about a type of crime I've done, so I briefly answered), so I changed the subject because I am not sure if the range she mentioned (or ranges in general) run background checks. I like to shoot though, so that would be cool.

Any additional thoughts?

[LaserBear]

Second date after first date bang?
Netflix and drinks. And ask her to bring the drinks.

If you wanna go out and do something fun, do something fun.
Don't worry about her opinion here... make yourself happy. If you genuinely like having her around.... then go do whatever you'll enjoy doing with her.
Be it Netflix and anal, or hiking the Appalachian Trail.

[CarlosTheJ]

(08-05-2014 12:23 AM)LaserBear Wrote:  

Second date after first date bang?
Netflix and drinks. And ask her to bring the drinks.

If you wanna go out and do something fun, do something fun.
Don't worry about her opinion here... make yourself happy. If you genuinely like having her around.... then go do whatever you'll enjoy doing with her.
Be it Netflix and anal, or hiking the Appalachian Trail.

Thanks. I think my preference would be to just have sex at her place and not do drinks, a movie, or anything else. Is this feasible?

[LaserBear]

Of course.

Though....
If its her house you lose a little control there man.
Get yourself invited over, play it by ear. If she's inviting you in... sex is implied.
You may have to give her a hamster reason for the first few times till it becomes an established tradition in her mind.

Had a girl who would invite me over just to fuck and sleep... I'd wake up to my clothes folded and everything I brought tucked in my shoes.
That was nice.

Its less skill, more just lucking into a girl who's looking for someome for just that... I know her boyfriend wasn't getting that treatment.

Can't know till you try. You're gonna have to go gather some data in the field ha
Good luck man.