19 year old college student who is largely still a noob to the game--been at it for about 4 or 5 weeks--but wow, my life has been improving in great strides. I have finally began approaching and have had great progress so far, however, I've noticed one sticking point I've encountered over and over.
I continually measure up my own physical attractiveness to women I'm talking too, and my game will begin to slide if I don't see myself as better looking. Do I just need a paradigm shift with respect to my attitude to overcome this barrier?
I've been told I'm attractive by girls I like, and I don't think I'm an ugly dude by any means, but I seem to be focusing on this far too much.
I continually measure up my own physical attractiveness to women I'm talking too, and my game will begin to slide if I don't see myself as better looking. Do I just need a paradigm shift with respect to my attitude to overcome this barrier?
I've been told I'm attractive by girls I like, and I don't think I'm an ugly dude by any means, but I seem to be focusing on this far too much.