[dads]

Background: Saw this girl in line last Saturday morning, asked her about an accessory. Made the classic mistake of ejecting too early, and ended the conversation quick when she was giving IOI's. Saw her this morning, reignited conversation and basically just had to run "don't fuck up" game. She never let a pause happen in the conversation, always kept it going, and I didn't say much. Talked for about 15 minutes, and I ask her what she's doing tomorrow, and she says recovering from her hangover. I say recover with me at the coffee shop, and she's down. Give her my phone and she puts her number in (I don't call the number) and I tell her I'll call her tomorrow afternoon.

So a couple of questions: my venue change options are EXTREMELY limited (almost nonexistent) so assuming there's comfortable seating, should I be attempting to escalate and go for smooches during the date, in the middle of the day? There's no chance for a lay because of logistics, but she is moving to my hometown, where I will be visiting for a month in September. I'd obviously love to have a piece for that time so I don't care too much that a bang isn't possible. What's my best course of action here, long term and short term?

[WestIndianArchie]

Game is how do I speed up the process of getting her into bed.

What you need is dating advice.

In this case
- go on the date
- run your material
- break the touch barrier while you're in the coffee shop
- walk her back to her car, bus stop, train station
- continue the vein of conversation
- kiss her/standard Hollywood ending. (to be more explicit, hug her, don't let go, lean back, hands around her hips, crotch pointed directly into hers, then do the triangular gaze - google it - and kiss her)

If you wanted to run some game, you need to at least have a sex location in mind, and a way to build attraction and rapport for a sufficient time before you get to bed.

The model is typically meet the chick, run your material, and then bounce to different places, increasing the tension verbally and physically, but not providing her with a release opportunity until you get to a spot where she "let her hair down"

WIA

[dads]

Thanks for the words. Yeah I know the ultimate goal is to get her to bed, and the rules on ladies in the dorm makes it close to impossible to get lays without resorting to some freaky PDA.

Along the lines of the kiss, I thought the general notion was that end of date kisses < during date kisses?

[WestIndianArchie]

(08-02-2014 11:15 AM)dads Wrote:  

Thanks for the words. Yeah I know the ultimate goal is to get her to bed, but I'm currently in technical training in the military, and the rules on ladies in the dorm makes it close to impossible to get lays without resorting to some freaky PDA.

Along the lines of the kiss, I thought the general notion was that end of date kisses < during date kisses?

See, we don't do dates here.

But typically a date
- happens at night
- involves some sort of activity
- there's plenty of time
- you can involve alcohol to lubricate the social activities

For a guy w/o game
- trying to kiss can be seen as thirsty
- actually kissing can relieve the sexual tension prematurely, and possibly end the date
- on the other hand, kissing mid date can ramp up the tension
- kissing at the end of the date, before separation is traditional

For a guy with game
- he's pushing her verbally and physically
- he's going to get her to the "breaking point"
- then he's going to suggest they watch a movie at his place, or come see his pet terrapin,
- when she crosses the threshold, takes her shoes off

That's when he can kiss her, and she can really kiss back. Plus her obvious next move is to not get in her car, call a cab, hit the bus stop, or catch a train.

There's no PDA issues, no backlash, et cetera.

And who's to say that a make out session might not progress further?

WIA

[Goldmund]

Don't you have a park or some forest where you are?

Go for a walk in the trees. Tell her how nature is an aphrodisiac...the leaves emitting oxygen open up blood vessels in the body...aren't flowers such sexy works of art.

Touch her, get her flower blooming. Bang in the nature.