[Veloce]

Crazy how differently women age. I've met women older than her that look way better.

She could pass for 40s. Hard to tell by the lighting but it looks like she's working on her 3rd chin.

[Dusty]

(07-19-2014 04:35 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

She will continue to be switched by her docs from one "cocktail" to another and will probably be fucked over irreversibly and one day actually figure out a way to kill herself with more efficiency that she's ever done anything in her life. And none of that is necessary.

Her liver is probably shot too. I went to high school with this dude who is on death's door because his liver is shot from a lifetime of psychiatric meds cocktails.

[JohnKreese]

(07-19-2014 06:02 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 05:54 PM)JohnKreese Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 02:23 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 01:49 PM)Ziltoid Wrote:  

Seemingly not too horrendous looking, for 36. How the fuck do you not parlay that into a marriage, or even a serious (healthy) relationship, in 18 years time? Nature has blessed her with many more years of attractiveness than most women get, which she obviously completely squandered, and now has the nerve to present herself as a grade A cut for the dating market. I felt a little nauseated reading her cutesy description of her neurotic brain. Can practically hear her thinking "I have SO much baggage, what real man out there thinks they're ready to handle this? Teehee."

Shudder to think what lucky bachelor will get to settle down with this harridan.

Ew.

Dude, I was swiping through Tinder the other day and saw a BBW(yes she even referred to herself as a "BBW") with a couple kids, late 30s who claims to be picky and to not be surprised if she doesn't respond to you. This is the country we live in. Post-wall "BBWs" with kids can actually be arrogant and choosy. What more do you need to know about the dating market?

So....did she respond?

I didn't right-swipe her bro! My reaction was:

[The Lizard of Oz]

(07-19-2014 05:24 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 04:35 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

I feel bad for this creature, because what she is more than anything else is roadkill of the American epidemic of psychiatric overdiagnosis and overmedication.

Bingo. I'd argue that this just another in a long line consequences of the American culture devolving from self reliance, accountability and responsibility (do it for yourself) to consumerism and external-ism (buy it yourself). In her case she's most likely erroneously looking for the answer to her problems in a pill bottle when the solutions are quite possibly already within her. Her conditioning just makes her incapable of seeing that.

Well, it's not a matter of principle or morals as far as I'm concerned. If there was a pill that could solve a lot of even low-level mental problems with no adverse effects, I'd be all for it. And we'll get things like that some day, but that day is not now.

For now, the available psych drugs act in a harsh and indiscriminate manner, and their mode of action is not really understood. Some of these drugs are complete garbage, while others have their uses in the relatively rare cases of actual serious mental illness. Instead, disgustingly irresponsible psych docs are handing out prescriptions for these things like candy on Halloween. They are responsible for untold amounts of misery and many premature deaths by suicide.

It's one of the very worst things about contemporary American society and will one day be looked back on as the true horror that it is.

[Quintus Curtius]

I thought I'd dissect her statements and translate them into the language of the real world.

Quote: On one hand, I am the most self-confident I have ever been.

Translation: I have no self-confidence.


Quote: On the other hand, the tangle of depression, anxiety, OCD, and borderline personality disorder in my head came fairly close to talking me into a swan dive off of a fifth-floor Paris balcony last week.

Translation: I love drama, and it gives me endorphin highs like sex never can. I'm not giving it up for anything.


Quote: A boy I met in grad school lasted a year, but we were too hot-tempered to coexist in the same air....A good eight years were wasted on someone I dated briefly and became obsessed with once he ended it.


Translation: I refer to men as "boys" because I'm an arrogant, spoiled, useless bitch who refuses to show any respect for the opposite gender. I love beta orbiters and need their constant validation to bolster my flagging sense of self-worth. I am too vindictive and cruel to be honest with men for any reason, ever.


Quote: I belong in the Victorian age, when I could have carried out an epistolary courtship with a friend of my brother's, stationed abroad, and kept my secrets until we wed.

Translation: I regret that I bought into the American pop culture lie. I'm beginning to realize that previous eras might have been better.


Quote: So here I am, ready-ish to date. I feel time running out for a family, adding a charming dimension of desperation.

Translation: I'm not ready to date. I'm too bitter, used up, and batshit crazy. But I'm going to go through the motions anyway because I love drama and have a sadistic streak towards men, whom I blame for everything.


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[CRR]

(07-19-2014 02:23 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

Dude, I was swiping through Tinder the other day and saw a BBW(yes she even referred to herself as a "BBW") with a couple kids, late 30s who claims to be picky and to not be surprised if she doesn't respond to you. This is the country we live in. Post-wall "BBWs" with kids can actually be arrogant and choosy. What more do you need to know about the dating market?

It's because the one thing women are never taught is the word 'humility'. Of course they would consider it oppressive, but for fucks sake if anyone could use humility, it would be a BFP*, er, I mean a BBW.

*Big Fat Pig.

(07-19-2014 04:35 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

Here is the truth: she is not mentally ill. She is neurotic like half the females of her age and social class, but that's it.

Great post.

Only thing I could add is that all these overused medications and psychological jargon does is give these women an excuse. Acting like a bitch? Oh, well, I'm bipolar.

I truly do have empathy for people with actual mental issues. However, these women don't have mental issues. They are just entitled morons who when the world didn't give them what they were promised (a husband of their choosing, a great career) because they are all beautiful and perfect, well they can't take any responsibility.

[DetlefMourning]

Hey, at least she's upfront about her problems and flaws, and is self-aware enough to concede that from an objective perspective most men would not consider her a good bet for marriage and kids.

From what I have observed due to previous ill-considered attempts to date SWPL bachelorette women in their mid to late thirties, a lot of them get even more set in their ways, become even more irrational and difficult to get along with, become even more entitled and selfish, and don't really develop any humility or self-awareness. This isn't even a woman thing, because plenty of guys reach this age range and don't grow up either. But in the case of the women, while some in this age range might become more pleasant to be around, too many never really shed Precious Princess Syndrome, and it's also not uncommon for a lot of them to sort of become lushes when it comes to alcohol. They are damaged goods, but still want the options and respect they commanded in their younger and prettier days. How does a woman reach her mid to late thirties and not get a man to commit? Either because she's fat, she's ugly, she's crazy, or she's a bitch. If she's a single mom, then she couldn't find enough common ground with the father of her kid/s to stay together, either because she's a poor judge of character and chose a bum to procreate with, or she can't contribute to a healthy, functioning relationship.

I wouldn't date this chick, but I can't hate on her too much considering she has enough humility to admit that due to her past and her ongoing mental issues she realizes that she's not exactly the best relationship material. She's still human to want companionship and I can't fault her for that. Most women with these kinds of issues do not do you the courtesy of letting you know up front what you might be getting involved in.

[roberto]

2/10 WNB. That thing is hideous.

On-point commentary from so many members. This thread should be compulsory reading for every 18 year old male.

To be honest, I feel sick about the state of our society just reading it.

[Redwood]

Man, it crazy how society changes in just 5-10 years.

Fucking smartphones, man.

[Celtic]

They say in real etsate there is a market for everything, you just got to price it correctly.

If she were willing to date an older dude, such as late 40s/ early 50s, that guy might put up with the crazy to date someone younger.

Or, if she were going to date some really nerdy beta guy her own age who is hard up for pussy, he might put with crazy in exchange for regular sex with a non-fat woman.

But if she wants to date a guy her own age who has a lot of options, that is going to be a very tough sell, because that guy would choose a non-crazy chick instead.

[PapayaTapper]

(07-19-2014 07:46 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 05:24 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(07-19-2014 04:35 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

I feel bad for this creature, because what she is more than anything else is roadkill of the American epidemic of psychiatric overdiagnosis and overmedication.

Bingo. I'd argue that this just another in a long line consequences of the American culture devolving from self reliance, accountability and responsibility (do it for yourself) to consumerism and external-ism (buy it yourself). In her case she's most likely erroneously looking for the answer to her problems in a pill bottle when the solutions are quite possibly already within her. Her conditioning just makes her incapable of seeing that.

Well, it's not a matter of principle or morals as far as I'm concerned. If there was a pill that could solve a lot of even low-level mental problems with no adverse effects, I'd be all for it. And we'll get things like that some day, but that day is not now.

For now, the available psych drugs act in a harsh and indiscriminate manner, and their mode of action is not really understood. Some of these drugs are complete garbage, while others have their uses in the relatively rare cases of actual serious mental illness. Instead, disgustingly irresponsible psych docs are handing out prescriptions for these things like candy on Halloween. They are responsible for untold amounts of misery and many premature deaths by suicide.

It's one of the very worst things about contemporary American society and will one day be looked back on as the true horror that it is.

I'm agreeing with you actually. What I'm suggesting and what I believe is big pharma (and the health care industry, but that's another topic altogether) are capitalizing on western culture's "buy-it" propensity. Our society in general is looking for "quick fixes" for everything.

[El Chinito loco]

(07-20-2014 11:38 AM)Celtic Wrote:  

They say in real etsate there is a market for everything, you just got to price it correctly.

If she were willing to date an older dude, such as late 40s/ early 50s, that guy might put up with the crazy to date someone younger.

Or, if she were going to date some really nerdy beta guy her own age who is hard up for pussy, he might put with crazy in exchange for regular sex with a non-fat woman.

But if she wants to date a guy her own age who has a lot of options, that is going to be a very tough sell, because that guy would choose a non-crazy chick instead.

The problem with bi-polar chicks is that it's basically like taking care of a pissy toddler. Their emotions are hair trigger and they have a real problem with instant gratification whether it's emotional or material. Apparently it gets better after menopause but i'll certainly never find out.

Bipolar girls are fun to bang but the drama and irrational shit that happens in the course of dating them is most definitely not worth it. An attractive bipolar girl would absolutely destroy a beta's life. If you sucuumb to their whims they will look at you with serious contempt that goes beyond even standard American girl attitude problems.

The meds for treating bipolar also have the unwanted side effect of making them gain weight unless they take other meds to prevent weight gain.

It's pretty easy to spot a woman who is bipolar if you've ever dated one. The crazy eyes and weird aggressive temperment is a sure sign.