Quote: (07-16-2014 05:37 PM)jariel Wrote:
Wasn't trying to diss you or anything, I understand your plight, but how things are in your mind and how they are for real are two different things.
That's why it's imperative Black American men travel to other places, you'll find that other people don't go out of their way to make you feel insecure about who you are, if anything, they value you a little more because you're different to them, there's nothing exotic about being Black in the U.S., but you show up in Mérida, Mexico or Guayaquil, Ecuador, and all of a sudden you have people treating you like a human being, like something that's worth being explored, and getting to know.
When dealing with most non-Black women, especially ones who view themselves as "White", the best play is to not be the stereotype.
If you talk like you have some sense, have a job, and present yourself in a classy way, you can really step to anybody, otherwise you're relegated to Black women and low-class non-Black women.
As far as Latin women go, I've said it here for years, the easiest latinas for Black men are boricuas, all day, every day.
Mexican women love to fuck, I'm glad I got the opportunity to find that out first-hand, and unfortunately, their men seem to be coming up short in the meat department, so this girl will probably appreciate what you're bringing to the table, in your interactions with women, keep in mind that you have something that you can contribute to her life, and in the case of Latin women, they are not the same as White American women, they actually want men in their lives, they want men to fuck, take care of, etc.
So now it's on you, do your job, and attempt to pull her, you can't do anything at all with her if you don't talk to her.
You're a man, you have to go out and get yours, whatever it is that you desire, you gotta go get it, you're not a chick who has the luxury of just living and breathing and finding shit fall into her lap.
That's the challenge before you, you can do it.
Guayaquil?
"I'm not afraid of dying, I'm afraid of not trying. Everyday hit every wave, like I'm Hawaiian"
