This is one of the most interesting experiences I've ever had although I would not want to repeat one minute of it.
This past weekend, I decided to stay home and really think things through. Usually on weekends I drive to my parent's house. While it bores me to no end, it makes it feel like I at least did something with the time.
This time I decided to simply stay home and think to myself. I wanted to do something valuable with my time... even something simple like going sight seeing in the city but the voice in my head told me that I would not like it since I would be alone and I'd leave pretty soon anyways.
I had recurring thoughts of self disappointment and generally not being happy with where my life is now.
It got to the point where all I wanted to do was go for a drive or go biking so that I could escape my own head. I pushed on and it was misery as all the thought of the things I didn't accomplish came gushing in. All the thoughts of self hate was almost unbearable.
I got through it finally.
If I had to guess I would venture that I really pushed myself in the past with good results... until I allowed myself to get really hurt. Now there's a divide between my internal monologue and my subconscious thoughts. I stopped trusting that voice inside my head to make good decisions.
My subconscious hates the part of me that forces me to avoid basic desires (sex - I can't do one night stands, don't even know how) and pushes me to do things I don't want to do (study for gmat).
Has anyone felt such a way before? Any way that you got over it?
Thanks for listening guys.
This past weekend, I decided to stay home and really think things through. Usually on weekends I drive to my parent's house. While it bores me to no end, it makes it feel like I at least did something with the time.
This time I decided to simply stay home and think to myself. I wanted to do something valuable with my time... even something simple like going sight seeing in the city but the voice in my head told me that I would not like it since I would be alone and I'd leave pretty soon anyways.
I had recurring thoughts of self disappointment and generally not being happy with where my life is now.
It got to the point where all I wanted to do was go for a drive or go biking so that I could escape my own head. I pushed on and it was misery as all the thought of the things I didn't accomplish came gushing in. All the thoughts of self hate was almost unbearable.
I got through it finally.
If I had to guess I would venture that I really pushed myself in the past with good results... until I allowed myself to get really hurt. Now there's a divide between my internal monologue and my subconscious thoughts. I stopped trusting that voice inside my head to make good decisions.
My subconscious hates the part of me that forces me to avoid basic desires (sex - I can't do one night stands, don't even know how) and pushes me to do things I don't want to do (study for gmat).
Has anyone felt such a way before? Any way that you got over it?
Thanks for listening guys.