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Keeping a Girl Hooked for Later
07-12-2014, 10:03 AM
I'm a beginner when it comes to game and need some help on a situation. I have a girl who is digging me, but due to my job she is off limits for another 3 weeks, or else I will kill my career before it even starts. The best way to describe it would be a T.A. and student relationship. Even after the 3 weeks, any developing relationship would be long-distance for the time being.
The dilemma I have is that this girl passes every qualification I have to get consideration for main chick status, so I'd rather not write it off as hopeless. What do I do to keep her on the hook until the time is right, or do I just have to accept that it won't happen?
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07-12-2014, 10:15 AM
I think given that the relationship is "taboo," you can slow-play this and easily string it out for the 3 weeks.
Spending time together, having conversations, etc, without escalating things. Make it obvious that you're developing feelings but present yourself in such a manner that you seem to be purposely controlling yourself and showing restraint.
These restricted types of situations have a lot of potential for building a great deal of passion. Just be careful to not oversell her to yourself, as we often project exaggerated value into the things we covet.
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07-12-2014, 12:25 PM
Nowadays there is a universal answer to the majority of questions on the newbie forum: Abundance
Once you see yourself resorting to starting a thread about how to get a particular woman, odds are you won't get her. That's the truth, no bullshit
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07-12-2014, 12:27 PM
Quote: (07-12-2014 12:25 PM)SydneyD Wrote:
Nowadays there is a universal answer to the majority of questions on the newbie forum: Abundance
Once you see yourself resorting to starting a thread about how to get a particular woman, odds are you won't get her. That's the truth, no bullshit
Yeah, half the threads I consider starting are demolished by, "go talk to more girls." I don't say that facetiously either. If you approach more girls, then this one won't be an issue. It'll naturally string itself out because you'll be too busy going after real (available) prospects and not wondering about this one.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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07-12-2014, 01:49 PM
Don't neglect your own self improvement.
Improve your own situation, she can choose to follow when the time is right.