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Hey new to PUA
11-23-2008, 11:15 PM
Hey guys just wanted to introduce myself with my first post. 21 y/o college student looking to learn about how to meet girls better in public.
quick question though real quick what is the main thought process for you guys is it just to get into a girls pants as quick as possible or do you really want to have a meaningful relationship with them? I'm not judging I'm just wondering to see the main views.
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Hey new to PUA
11-23-2008, 11:39 PM
Well I'm sure everyone is different somewhat. I'm not looking for something meaningful. I just want a sexified girlfriend whom I can have fun with. I don't intend to marry an american girl unless I see a paternity test that says I'm responsible for stuff. Just fun for now.
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11-24-2008, 01:21 PM
Personally, my desire to learn "PUA" stuff, is to improve on myself socially - in every aspect.
My 14 year relationship ended in divorce -- the entire thing was a nightmare, I was needy & desperate & settled for the first woman to come to me.
Now I use the material to better myself as a whole - in every social setting. If I get some amazing sexual encounters great, if I come across someone amazing for an LTR, well, I'll consider that too.
I have standards, and the more I learn, the more fussy I get. All while being so much more happy with my social self, being more comfortable in social settings of all types. _and_ not beeing 'needy/desperate'... I can look at 'hot' women once or twice, flash a smile/raise an eyebrow and then turn away instead of staring. Those women with confidence then approach me... its great having a woman tap me on the shoulder wanting to talk to me for a change, instead of me cowering in a corner wanting women, but never approaching.
Still so much to learn, so much to do though...
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Hey new to PUA
11-26-2008, 04:55 AM
You have to ask yourself what you want. Not just what other people want for you.
I personally am still at this stage. I believe I am making progress of this question. Its a big one.
Take a few days to think about it. You won't get a good answer in 5 mins.
be honest with yourself.
"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"
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12-22-2008, 01:26 AM
I'm after a real connection that kind of does alot of stuff other than gets my biological urge sorted. I love sex, but I also love the company of a woman who knows how to thrill me. I find it hard to get hard for someone I'm not interested in at the personality level.
"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"