Quote: (07-31-2014 09:07 PM)zaqan Wrote:
I forgot about this thread and didnt think anyone would reply.
The shifts kinda sucked. The woman junior manager who requested me to do the overnight is so childish, its ridiculous. You can just hear it in her voice and see it in her eyes. And when shes pissed off, she throws tantrums. But now I know how she operates and love messing with her. Anyway, I did it, and also threatened to quit. A short while later, I was tracked for a promotion. I really should quit, but I do like it here. I can get paid more in lots of places, but I really know this store well and can get away with so much. Ive built up a huge presence. A friend saw me there the other day and said I looked like I manage the place and am really comfortable. Im loathe to lose that confidence and zone/frame right now. Ill move on soon, but for now I think I should stay a bit more and continue to build job and game experience.
If you are #winning as it were, there is no reason to move on. However, I think that we can all agree that you don't want to be working retail in five years. The real question is, how can this paycheck and job be exploited to get you what you really want?
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Quote: (07-08-2014 03:08 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:
Some of my most clear, fun moments was working the graveyard shift in a cinema with one other person and a manager.
If you're friendly with a girl you're working with and she likes you there is no better time to mess around than then. Granted you know where all the CCTV is but cinema screens offer good privacy.
Incidentally, this actually happened to me. There was one girl on the overnight, kinda tough, but also kinda feminine when she wanted to. When I started, I took no interest in her and didnt want to get involved in a workplace relationship. Everyone else talked about how they wanted to get with her. To me, she was just there and I barely noticed her. Lo and behold, a year into it, she started poking and touching me. I caught on quick, but I had absolutely no idea what to do when that happened. I half-asked her out once and she made a stupid excuse. Later, I confronted her about it and she "friendzoned" me. And then went right back to her increasing assaults. Before long, she discovered I am ticklish. After one bout of that, I rammed her ass, and she giggled. Later, she said only her mom knows where she is ticklish, which I later realized might have been a ploy to touch her down below.
One night, the two other top guys werent there, so it was just her, me, and the juniors of the crew. I had to go do computer training in the office, and she stayed to watch and started drawing on me and then took away and teased me with the hand sanitizer. I ended up basically on top of her and it didnt even occur to me to do anything. Tried asking her a few more times, she got another job, and being rebuffed again and "friendzoned", I just told her she was a liar and to go to hell basically. Never felt better after a romance/sexual experience.
I know now what shouldve happened in that office, but I was so naive and unprepared. I think I was just starting to "wake up" then and a few weeks later took the red pill as it were. I had so much feminist brainwashing that I didnt know a girl might want to be thrown against a wall in the backroom and destroyed, so to speak. Sigh. Well, it was a learning experience and that wont happen again. *wink*
Ya, she definitely wanted to be banged. I've found that "asking out" girls has a tendency to be a losing strategy. It downgrades your value and puts the reigns in her hands, something that turns women off.
Women with a domination fantasy do not want to be engaged by a rational discussion on the merits of a relationship.
You get major man points for just reaching out and taking what you want and that is the type of man they are looking for.
On a related noted, I find that the "three second pause" is a safe bet if you are with a coworker or another high liability woman.
If she's tickling you and you are playfighting or are getting close for any other "suspicious" reason, get your face about three inches from hers and look into her eyes. If she doesn't look away, brush her hair behind her ear and kiss her.
This gives her time to back out (three seconds is a long time when you are eye to eye), but never specifically invites her to shoot you down.
When we are talking about girls that you don't work with and don't represent a real liability, especially in cases where failure to escalate to at least a kiss will lead to either never seeing her again or a series of dates that just waste your time, just kiss her no matter what.
If you've already had your arm around her or held hands, you are practically obligated to try to lock lips, even if at the moment of truth, she looks away or doesn't kiss back right away.
I've had shy girls where I literally had to grab their chin and move it to the correct angle, but once my lips were on theirs, there was no going back and they absolutely wanted my tongue in their mouths.
By the second or third date you haven't kissed a girl, you're beginning to waste your own time, so at that point if a girl rejects your efforts to kiss her, she's actually doing you a favour because it'll give you ever reason to use your time to track down women who aren't just pulling your chain.
