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A good day (finally)

So it started off bad. My friend and I had made a deal that I would get 5 numbers or pay him $20. But like clockwork it started to rain and the only buildings nearby are not sarging hotbeds (libraries). So we called off the bet and I tried to get in the right state of mind for when the sun did come out because I had to be somewhere in about an hour and needed it all to count. I go up to table of girls in the library and tell them I'm going to out out looking for girls and if I should wear the tank top I was wearing or a different shirt I had. I had to whisper and also motion for them all to take their headphones off. It was four of them ranging from 6.5-8. A bunch of cute college girls, essentially.

Part of the idea was I had just hit the gym hard and had a good pump on. Also, being a skinny guy I wonder if it's worth it at all to show off what little I have. I'm defined after putting on about 5 pounds of muscle this summer, but I'll never be super jacked. So I wondered if chicks actually dig it or if I'm just a skinny dweeb.

The other part of the idea is I just wanted to be ridiculous, get blown out, and thus feel a lot better about picking up later in the day. This is what happened at the same library when I picked up the Trinidadian I mentioned.

So they actually react REALLY well to it. The one closest to me said I had good muscle definition and she liked the tank as a casual look. Then I put on the shirt and they said it's a great shirt - go with that. They seemed bummed when I ejected - 2/4 seemed like they would easily go on a date. I just didn't know how to isolate one. I wasn't really trying to pick them up anyway. So this put me in a great state.

My friend and I run over to the canteen to get lunch quickly, but run into a friend. While they are chatting/eating, I open an Indian 7 but she's clearly not interested. I think I just asked if she was in line - it wasn't clear.

The sun comes out and we really only have 15 minutes left so we head over to the main library. Nothing pops up on the radar until a blonde 6.5 starts coming our way. I ask my friend - would she count if we were still doing the contest. He says, definitely. She stops near us at a stoplight and I walk up from her side. She looks at me. I didn't have a plan AT ALL. Normally I do, but I think just being silly with the other girls left me in a looser mood.

I think a lot of my AA comes from being a perfectionist and wanting it to be a perfect approach or nothing at all. Which is stupid.

So she looks at me and the first thing that comes to mind is "Are you lost?"

She says something like OMG, no I'm just skipping class and not sure where I want to go. She's a fourth year undergrad, about 13 years my junior, but we banter. At some point my friend has to come over because she's seen him. He says he'll meet me later, but I somehow suck him into the conversation because it feels natural. We were talking about my job, which is the same as his.

Anyhow, we've been texting. In one she says why did you really text me. I said, "because I think you're cute" She says "I'm blushing. I think you're cute too"

Trying to set up a date for this weekend.

Later that day I had a first date. It was a girl a friend set me up with. I hadn't met her before but she's a cute brunette teacher (6ish). In her 30s, bored and DTF. We made out at the subway station - logistics were bad. I should have suggested I go over but I didn't want to push it. I think this will definitely happen. And she seems quite submissive.

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the undergrad wants to go out tonight (in an hour or so). also gave me saturday as an option. why is her schedule so open?

oh well, going out now will report later. seems a lay is on the table though.

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Horny and it's summer go smash that pussy to smitherines.

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Lots to report in the last couple of days.

Took that undergrad to a bar near her place that night. I live quite far from there, but figured given the age difference, better to come to her. Didn't want to freak her out.

She was cuter than expected, skinny and young with curves in the right places. She cleaned up nice.

The two drinks went well and she was sort of all over the place, telling stories about her life, telling me she is very "innocent." I didn't buy into that and just laughed it off. At some point she tells me her apartment is packed because her mom is staying with her for the week. This was bad news.

I walked her home and we made out in front of her house. No resistance as my hands were all over her. There was just no way I was getting up into her place. Not sure if there was anything I could do here, but I'm open to suggestions.

Got home around 3am and slept til 8am when I had an all-day bike ride to the country. There was a cute brunette (7) on the ride. A friend of a friend. Good job, good education. Probably around 26. GF material, possibly.

For a long time I thought she was with the guy she came with since they were very touchy feely. But she kept biking over to me to talk, asking my story, etc. Hard to get a good cadence going on a bike though. Still, she hung around a lot. Eventually I got the word from our mutual friend that she's just out of a relationship and not looking for anything serious. and she's had really bad luck with online dating. Sounded promising

on the way back i invite her to dinner and she says yes. no resistance. we have one drink with dinner. the lady comes around and asks if we want another and I say yes. She hesitates and then says yes. We get into a bit of a political conversation but eventually get out of it. She's a feminist.

I ask her what she's doing after and if she said nothing, I was going to suggest we go to mine for dessert. She says she's meeting some friends and I can come if I want. I say I'm exhausted from the ride. And she says yeah, me too, I'll probably not stay long.

I think I should have gone, or pushed my idea.

Anyway, we make out in front of her bike and she hesitates to leave but eventually does.

I think I really messed that one up.

Date 2 with the older girl I mentioned before tonight. Taking her somewhere very close to my place and really pushing for the bang. This no fap is killing me.

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so with regard to the biking brunette, i forgot to mention we talked about books and then this morning in a regret-fueled hail mary, i asked if i could come over to borrow a book. (i'm leaving tomorrow for 2 weeks, which is bad timing giving all these prospects i have, but i can't cancel).

well she finally replied and said yeah, come over now. the dinner with the older girl is at 7:30. wondering what my play is here. (it's 3 now)

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So you want to be more sexual? Just try this, while you are talking to the girl think sexual thoughts about her. Think about what it would be like to have sex with her or what she would look like naked. It's sort of hard to do and talk at the same time but you can do it while you are listening to her. This works best if you can get the girl talking most of the time. And then you can just sit there and look at her, in her eyes, while you are thinking your dirty thoughts. It's not a good idea to verbalize your sexuality until after you have had sex a few times with a girl. Express your sexuality with your eyes and how you touch her. Becoming sexual is lot more about becoming comfortable with feeling and expressing your own sexuality than anything else.