A little rusty on the game front. Maybe someone can suggest how i could have done better?
Today I was in a shoe repair store. Met a stunning young woman, late 20's or early 30s (I'm mid-40s, but fit and attractive). Did a lot of quick-witted banter about how I wanted the shoe repair guy to make my high-end italian shoes look like her simple flats. We had a lot of great back and forth for 2 minutes and I got lots of IOIs. The problem is, I didn't know how to number close in such a time-constrained situation: She or I was going to walk out of that store in two minutes. So I just opened up my phone and said "put your number in here". But it came off a little rushed as we hadn't yet built much rapport. She declined. Not sure what approach would have had better luck. None, maybe, given the time constraint.
I find this situation a lot, actually: I live in a large city and find a lot of quick interactions with hot young women. But they are often in passing - the subway, etc. Need some game for time-constrained interactions.
Today I was in a shoe repair store. Met a stunning young woman, late 20's or early 30s (I'm mid-40s, but fit and attractive). Did a lot of quick-witted banter about how I wanted the shoe repair guy to make my high-end italian shoes look like her simple flats. We had a lot of great back and forth for 2 minutes and I got lots of IOIs. The problem is, I didn't know how to number close in such a time-constrained situation: She or I was going to walk out of that store in two minutes. So I just opened up my phone and said "put your number in here". But it came off a little rushed as we hadn't yet built much rapport. She declined. Not sure what approach would have had better luck. None, maybe, given the time constraint.
I find this situation a lot, actually: I live in a large city and find a lot of quick interactions with hot young women. But they are often in passing - the subway, etc. Need some game for time-constrained interactions.