I'm in brazil right now and Ive finally been able to meet a lot of people my age(in the town im at for this trip). I know you guys are aware non-americans are different, brazilian girls you can use caveman game, are nicer etc. but I feel like delving into this aspect a bit more. Im om my ipad and its hard to type so sorry for a lack of organization and depth, if on computer I'll add more.
So to begin, Ive noticed that brazilian girls can make great friends. Never in the usa have I seen guys being so close to girls, non-sexually, like watching horror movies with them as friends at night, but not in the sense of being the gay kid or friendzoned. You can actually have intelligent conversations with them, be genuine, honest, and have a great time. Theres a lot of girls now who are my friends that I literally prefer to be friends with rather than bang. In the usa my mentality has always been not to be friends or close if were not banging. You can talk about gross crap like taking a shit and they dont care, theyre mature about all of that. Despite many of them beung religious, theyre very open to atheists and all religions. Ive only been myself and noticed that douchebag game doesnt really work here. It does in the sense that you still need to be very alpha, and some rules still apply, but overall youcan make clever jokes without them thinking youre weird or not understanding. ALMOST NO FUCKING MAKEUP at school, theyre natural showing pimples whatever but they still look hot, and you know theyre real, theyre not fucking fakes, some are but most no Theyre way more open and touchy, even just as friends, and its all really positive. Ive never had such a good time just hanging out with girls as friends in my life. I didnt feel friendzoned (they didnt friendzone me either, its just that you can establish what type of girl you want to be your friend and assume friendship, although i wouldnt be surprised if they liked me). It was a mix of girle and guys too, we make a lot of sexual jokes and the girls will laugh and its not awkward. One chick was putting her foot all over a guys ass when he was standing and she was sitting as a joke, and it wasnt a sexual attraction but more just fucking around. Theyre not unnaturally reserved. The teachers act in a similar fashion, they touch you hug you, even split a chair with you and no issues. People are open to criticsm as well in the sense that calling a friend fat wont offend them (in some cases yes, but generally no). I visited a private christian school here, a kid drew a dick on the board with the teacher's name and the teacher laughed and left it there. One kid came past the teacher when teaching and totally shoulder bumped the teacher knocking him to the side and everyone just laughed. Its a new experience and it's given me so much hope for women and my social life overall. All the negativity on rok and here is 100% valid in the usa, but here, no.
So to begin, Ive noticed that brazilian girls can make great friends. Never in the usa have I seen guys being so close to girls, non-sexually, like watching horror movies with them as friends at night, but not in the sense of being the gay kid or friendzoned. You can actually have intelligent conversations with them, be genuine, honest, and have a great time. Theres a lot of girls now who are my friends that I literally prefer to be friends with rather than bang. In the usa my mentality has always been not to be friends or close if were not banging. You can talk about gross crap like taking a shit and they dont care, theyre mature about all of that. Despite many of them beung religious, theyre very open to atheists and all religions. Ive only been myself and noticed that douchebag game doesnt really work here. It does in the sense that you still need to be very alpha, and some rules still apply, but overall youcan make clever jokes without them thinking youre weird or not understanding. ALMOST NO FUCKING MAKEUP at school, theyre natural showing pimples whatever but they still look hot, and you know theyre real, theyre not fucking fakes, some are but most no Theyre way more open and touchy, even just as friends, and its all really positive. Ive never had such a good time just hanging out with girls as friends in my life. I didnt feel friendzoned (they didnt friendzone me either, its just that you can establish what type of girl you want to be your friend and assume friendship, although i wouldnt be surprised if they liked me). It was a mix of girle and guys too, we make a lot of sexual jokes and the girls will laugh and its not awkward. One chick was putting her foot all over a guys ass when he was standing and she was sitting as a joke, and it wasnt a sexual attraction but more just fucking around. Theyre not unnaturally reserved. The teachers act in a similar fashion, they touch you hug you, even split a chair with you and no issues. People are open to criticsm as well in the sense that calling a friend fat wont offend them (in some cases yes, but generally no). I visited a private christian school here, a kid drew a dick on the board with the teacher's name and the teacher laughed and left it there. One kid came past the teacher when teaching and totally shoulder bumped the teacher knocking him to the side and everyone just laughed. Its a new experience and it's given me so much hope for women and my social life overall. All the negativity on rok and here is 100% valid in the usa, but here, no.