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Bait to Lure the Pussy Home
Food can be fantastic. I always keep some stuff in my fridge I can whip up in a hurry for when I need it. Also, keep your bar stocked. If you need to, replace a bottle of Gin with water if you're too fucked up to drink anymore and she still wants to. Nobody except for Pete from Manosphere Radio likes gin, and I'm sure as hell not bringing him home. If you're really worried about it, put it in a bottle of shitty gin and give her Tangeray or Bombay Sapphire if she ever asks.
Not a huge fan of the drugs personally, but I cannot deny that it works. Might have been able to rack up some more notches, but it's just not for me. If you're into that stuff, go for it.
Generally, there are two approaches to this. You either need something compelling, like alcohol or drugs or whatever, or just pretend to stop in for something ('oh I need cash', etc).
I'm going to try and drop a few things that I haven't seen already on this thread, but have worked for me.
In the category of "compelling things that we should go do at my place"
I lived in a house with some guys when I was younger that had a pool. Because it was a house and not an apartment, and everyone in the house I was pretty much best friends with, this worked wonders on hot summer nights. If you live in the mountains/ski town in the winter, "Come back to my hot tub" if you have one at your place also works wonders. Nothing like a skinny dip --> shower sex combination.
In the category of "I need to run back to my place for a second":
"I need to drop my bag off at home, lets swing by, drop it off, and grab a drink, on the way to X venue". This works particularly well at 'happy hour' after work type events if you have a centrally located apartment, and you've got your briefcase/bag from work still. If you've gotten her to stop by your house on the way to the next venue, you can often excalate as soon as you get in the door. I've done this and gotten them into bed at 8PM and never made it to the next venue. Worst comes to worst, drop your bag off at your apartment and go hit on other girls at the venue. Win-Win.
In the "Other" category that I've seen work pretty well:
"Hey, lets go on an adventure". Going to your place is an adventure. Run with it.
Venue switch to a bar that's near your house, that's closed. Works well during the week, claim you're new to the neighborhood and you love the place but didn't know it was closed on a Monday. Once you arrive and it's closed, drop the line "oh, my apartment is right around the corner. Let's go grab a drink anyways". That's worked well for me all the times I've pulled it.
Not a huge fan of the drugs personally, but I cannot deny that it works. Might have been able to rack up some more notches, but it's just not for me. If you're into that stuff, go for it.
Generally, there are two approaches to this. You either need something compelling, like alcohol or drugs or whatever, or just pretend to stop in for something ('oh I need cash', etc).
I'm going to try and drop a few things that I haven't seen already on this thread, but have worked for me.
In the category of "compelling things that we should go do at my place"
I lived in a house with some guys when I was younger that had a pool. Because it was a house and not an apartment, and everyone in the house I was pretty much best friends with, this worked wonders on hot summer nights. If you live in the mountains/ski town in the winter, "Come back to my hot tub" if you have one at your place also works wonders. Nothing like a skinny dip --> shower sex combination.
In the category of "I need to run back to my place for a second":
"I need to drop my bag off at home, lets swing by, drop it off, and grab a drink, on the way to X venue". This works particularly well at 'happy hour' after work type events if you have a centrally located apartment, and you've got your briefcase/bag from work still. If you've gotten her to stop by your house on the way to the next venue, you can often excalate as soon as you get in the door. I've done this and gotten them into bed at 8PM and never made it to the next venue. Worst comes to worst, drop your bag off at your apartment and go hit on other girls at the venue. Win-Win.
In the "Other" category that I've seen work pretty well:
"Hey, lets go on an adventure". Going to your place is an adventure. Run with it.
Venue switch to a bar that's near your house, that's closed. Works well during the week, claim you're new to the neighborhood and you love the place but didn't know it was closed on a Monday. Once you arrive and it's closed, drop the line "oh, my apartment is right around the corner. Let's go grab a drink anyways". That's worked well for me all the times I've pulled it.
I was thinking about picking up a knockoff sybian. Figured have my girl bring sum friends over to try it and just thought a fun thing to keep around the house. Hottubs and pools are always good as well as weed and blow
Whenever I go to Mexico I bring back liquor that you can't buy in the U.S. I have some really exotic looking tequila bottles I have done this with and it works.
Even after you drink it all you can refill the bottles with American liquor and girls never know the difference.
Even after you drink it all you can refill the bottles with American liquor and girls never know the difference.
Oh yeah, a Nespresso machine works too, especially if a girl says that she's "getting tired".
I've thrown up some of my baits in the LA thread but here are the big ones
1) Food- I once told a girl after the club- "lets go get eggs". She was down w/it. I drove straight home (not dennys!!! suckers). Made her 1 fried egg then swooped her. <--- I need to start doing that again. It was straight fire for swooping women.
2) Afterparty/ Drugs- I like rolling Js or blunts
3) Afterlounge- I have a hookah bar that stays open till 5am near me. They serve dope guacamole too. I get the guacamole, share it w/her and bounce to my pad after 15 mins (no hookah and long drawn out sessions for me). But the vibe is good cause people are lounging.
4) Lets go make out- "Self explanatory, but somewhat limiting in her mind. " Great for plausible deniability.
1) Food- I once told a girl after the club- "lets go get eggs". She was down w/it. I drove straight home (not dennys!!! suckers). Made her 1 fried egg then swooped her. <--- I need to start doing that again. It was straight fire for swooping women.
2) Afterparty/ Drugs- I like rolling Js or blunts
3) Afterlounge- I have a hookah bar that stays open till 5am near me. They serve dope guacamole too. I get the guacamole, share it w/her and bounce to my pad after 15 mins (no hookah and long drawn out sessions for me). But the vibe is good cause people are lounging.
4) Lets go make out- "Self explanatory, but somewhat limiting in her mind. " Great for plausible deniability.
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Quote: (06-24-2014 04:20 PM)Drazen Wrote:
Oh yeah, a Nespresso machine works too, especially if a girl says that she's "getting tired".
Good idea. I had a 19yo "old soul" girl this year who loved real espresso more than almost any alcohol. And I had a 21yo a few years ago with an immigrant parent. Both were very old-school "times new roman in the streets but wingdings in the sheets" types.
If you are in shape you can tell her you need to take a protein shake during day dates. Bounce back to yours and swig down a shake, then give her a different kind of protein so she doesn't feel malnourished ![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)
If she drove, but you were in walking distance you can use the "you need to sober up" excuse before she drives home. Tell her she can down a coconut water or gatorade at your place and chill for a bit before she drives.
Mainly I just use wine and a photo or video, "Let's have a glass of wine at my place and I'll show you that video/photo/place/whatever before you head home."
If she drove, but you were in walking distance you can use the "you need to sober up" excuse before she drives home. Tell her she can down a coconut water or gatorade at your place and chill for a bit before she drives.
Mainly I just use wine and a photo or video, "Let's have a glass of wine at my place and I'll show you that video/photo/place/whatever before you head home."
Library, have bookshelf with alot of classics, poetry and philosophy. Attracts the smart girls, " have to come over and see the library."
Let's watch a movie or Californication.
Let me use the restroom
There shouldn't be too much convincing if she knows what you're about
Let me use the restroom
There shouldn't be too much convincing if she knows what you're about
Life is good
Pool table
Dart board
Anyone have any other suggestions for games?
These things are pretty cool... thinking of getting one for my coffee table:
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Portable Fire Place
Dart board
Anyone have any other suggestions for games?
These things are pretty cool... thinking of getting one for my coffee table:
Portable Fire Place
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I am Asian and I have a samurai sword in my apartent, and no kidding, it works as a good bait. I bought them off ebay but I tell girls it's from Japan.
Seriously, it works. I show them the samurai sword, then give them my samurai sword.
Seriously, it works. I show them the samurai sword, then give them my samurai sword.
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Bounce back to yours and swig down a shake, then give her a different kind of protein so she doesn't feel malnourished Wink
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Seriously, it works. I show them the samurai sword, then give them my samurai sword.
Loving the innuendos in this thread ;D
Cats. Pussy to snare the pussy.
I was there the day feminism fell...
My place is somewhat unique and full of different stuff so once a girl comes over it's hard to make her wanna leave.
However I never use any of that as bait.
What I usually do is a nobrainer with very big success rate.
I think I stole this method from the Naughty Nomad.
Can't be any easier than this.
- You like pizza? Yes.
- How about red wine? Of course.
- Okay. Pizza and red wine at my place at 8?
almost every girl like pizza and red wine.
After dinner I lit a fire in the fireplace and put on some movie and proceed to my black leather couch.
Another glass of wine and things will start to happen.
However I never use any of that as bait.
What I usually do is a nobrainer with very big success rate.
I think I stole this method from the Naughty Nomad.
Can't be any easier than this.
- You like pizza? Yes.
- How about red wine? Of course.
- Okay. Pizza and red wine at my place at 8?
almost every girl like pizza and red wine.
After dinner I lit a fire in the fireplace and put on some movie and proceed to my black leather couch.
Another glass of wine and things will start to happen.
Stupid thread.
If you're thinking of it as "bait", you're going about it all the wrong way. It should already be implicitly understood what's going to happen. You just need to be able to invite her back in a way that isn't so direct as to seem classless.
If you're thinking of it as "bait", you're going about it all the wrong way. It should already be implicitly understood what's going to happen. You just need to be able to invite her back in a way that isn't so direct as to seem classless.
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by bait what he means is something to both interest the girl in to coming over and giving her plausible deniability so she doesn't feel like a Ho once the deed is done.
what would a girl rather gossip to her friends.
"yeah I went to his place to watch a movie and it just happened"
or
"yeah so I fucked some random within an hour of meeting him."
by bait what he means is something to both interest the girl in to coming over and giving her plausible deniability so she doesn't feel like a Ho once the deed is done.
what would a girl rather gossip to her friends.
"yeah I went to his place to watch a movie and it just happened"
or
"yeah so I fucked some random within an hour of meeting him."
Quote: (01-02-2015 10:26 AM)Chaos Wrote:
My place is somewhat unique and full of different stuff so once a girl comes over it's hard to make her wanna leave.
However I never use any of that as bait.
What I usually do is a nobrainer with very big success rate.
I think I stole this method from the Naughty Nomad.
Can't be any easier than this.
- You like pizza? Yes.
- How about red wine? Of course.
- Okay. Pizza and red wine at my place at 8?
almost every girl like pizza and red wine.
After dinner I lit a fire in the fireplace and put on some movie and proceed to my black leather couch.
Another glass of wine and things will start to happen.
I like this, but it's more of a no-date bang recipe or a date at your house. You are not with her and trying to get her back. So it's a bit different...
Food works good to get the girl to meet at your place, but not necessarily to bring her back once you're out and about with her in my opinion.
How would you guys handle it if you live very far away from let's say a club? It takes 40 minutes in day time to get to the city but after 2 pm it can take 2 hours if i miss the buss or train. If i match everything it can take 1 hour.
Yeah its on my list things to do ^^
Quote: (01-02-2015 02:17 PM)KC4 Wrote:
How would you guys handle it if you live very far away from let's say a club? It takes 40 minutes in day time to get to the city but after 2 pm it can take 2 hours if i miss the buss or train. If i match everything it can take 1 hour.
If nightlife is important to you, either move or be prepared to get a hotel room near the clubs.
You can either get a hotel room or airbnb apartment for the weekend and schedule a few dates, or go out to clubs and have hotel phone numbers ready in case your need a room. Another option is to accumulate hotel loyalty points (Marriott, SPG, etc) and then use an app on your phone to get a room for points if you need one.
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