Most of the other assholes on this forum guard their formula for sending messages like it was the Colonels Secret Recipe! If I hadn’t been given specific, actionable intelligence by men more successful than I was, I wouldn’t be the asshole knee-deep in pussy that I am today. Take what I share and let me know how it works for you, and if you improved anything. More importantly, post the formula(s) that you have used successfully so that we can all benefit.
I modified and use a hack I read about HERE, and I do pinging to draw traffic. I deleted all my answers and only answered questions that were sexual, and only in the most extreme form. Women that match me at 80% or higher get messaged. What they don’t know, and what I will never tell them is that the reason I knew they were good prospects is because the only thing we had high matches on were sexual. Knowing that, I was able to move in specific directions with things I knew they preferred.
This is the EXACT message I sent to each and every woman I drop a line to on any dating site, I get 4 out of 10 to reply within 24 hours, and another 1-2 within the week, consistently. One or two become part of my team in one way or another. Some preferably for the long haul, others for quick fun.
"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see a woman into (INSERT VERB / SPECIFIC INTEREST TAKEN FROM HER PROFILE) here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. However/Remember/You Know (Insert clever twist of phrase taken from the last 1-2 parts of her profile, so she thinks I read it all)
Example, for a girl into the arts/theater I’d say:
"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see another film geek here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. Remember, sane is a relative term!"
All I need is to set the hook with my hello. My only goal is to get them to look at my profile, either she bites and replies, or she doesn’t. I don’t care. Once a week I send out 30 messages. This should take you no more than 15 minutes, max.
When they reply, I just say something fun and relevant, then I close with my (Google Voice) phone number and say “Call me tomorrow morning, we’ll get together for a snack sometime soon”. I DO NOT have long, drawn out message threads online, and while my primary goal is to get her interested enough to message me, I want to talk to her as soon as possible. Even then, I will only engage in banter for a few minutes before I say that I have a call from my office on the other line, and give her two times/dates as options to meet up at a café.
Dating sites are only to be used as a passive income stream. This is in no way to ever replace face-to-face grinding talking to women every day.
Reference: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.html/online...t-message/
BONUS:
I made the Hot List on OKC a long time ago.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/06/16...14149.html
http://mashable.com/2010/05/25/okcupid-dating/
http://www.blackdragon-blog.com/2011/11/...ks-im-hot/
https://onloveonline.wordpress.com/tag/you-are-hot/
I modified and use a hack I read about HERE, and I do pinging to draw traffic. I deleted all my answers and only answered questions that were sexual, and only in the most extreme form. Women that match me at 80% or higher get messaged. What they don’t know, and what I will never tell them is that the reason I knew they were good prospects is because the only thing we had high matches on were sexual. Knowing that, I was able to move in specific directions with things I knew they preferred.
This is the EXACT message I sent to each and every woman I drop a line to on any dating site, I get 4 out of 10 to reply within 24 hours, and another 1-2 within the week, consistently. One or two become part of my team in one way or another. Some preferably for the long haul, others for quick fun.
"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see a woman into (INSERT VERB / SPECIFIC INTEREST TAKEN FROM HER PROFILE) here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. However/Remember/You Know (Insert clever twist of phrase taken from the last 1-2 parts of her profile, so she thinks I read it all)
Example, for a girl into the arts/theater I’d say:
"How’s it going? It’s fascinating to see another film geek here. Profiles aren’t much to go on but from what I just read, I’m sure we have more than a few awesome things in common. Remember, sane is a relative term!"
All I need is to set the hook with my hello. My only goal is to get them to look at my profile, either she bites and replies, or she doesn’t. I don’t care. Once a week I send out 30 messages. This should take you no more than 15 minutes, max.
When they reply, I just say something fun and relevant, then I close with my (Google Voice) phone number and say “Call me tomorrow morning, we’ll get together for a snack sometime soon”. I DO NOT have long, drawn out message threads online, and while my primary goal is to get her interested enough to message me, I want to talk to her as soon as possible. Even then, I will only engage in banter for a few minutes before I say that I have a call from my office on the other line, and give her two times/dates as options to meet up at a café.
Dating sites are only to be used as a passive income stream. This is in no way to ever replace face-to-face grinding talking to women every day.
Reference: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.html/online...t-message/
BONUS:
I made the Hot List on OKC a long time ago.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/06/16...14149.html
http://mashable.com/2010/05/25/okcupid-dating/
http://www.blackdragon-blog.com/2011/11/...ks-im-hot/
https://onloveonline.wordpress.com/tag/you-are-hot/
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