[mugen151]

Hey all, longtime lurker and first time poster, just thought I'd introduce myself.

Im just a newbie, but have already applied many simple attitude shifts that have already yielded results. However, as is the case with most newbies im sure, I'm not getting the quality and the quantity that I desire. Furthermore, the problem is compounded by me not being 21 and having to rely on houseparties at my university to meet new girls. The quality and the fact that social circles tend to overlap means that it is difficult to meet new girls. Not only that, but I have noticed a discrepancy between techniques advocated for nightclubs and bars and the typical houseparty. Nothing fundamentally different, but just some logistical differnces that need to be explored imo.

I think there needs to be a focus on the long game for college, or just putting in appearances and demonstrating alpha qualities over time, from party to party, to make steady progress. SNLs are doable, but rarer I think. Hookups are pretty party dependent. Bangin' party=high chance of hookup. Mellow get together= a night on redtube:/

Any thoughts about pre-21 game and how best to game with that constraint in mind? I assume that it must focus more heavily on daygame?

Would love to hear this forum's thoughts - Mugen

[jessup25]

U21 here as well. You're pretty much right that it has to rely more on day game. As you've said, house parties are tough. Besides the idea that social circles always overlap, most of the broads there were specifically asked to come, usually by someone who's already trying to bang them. Unless you have a particularly hoppin party, in which case somebody's going to spit out a 5-0 scare and freak everyone out. Stick to meeting chicks outside the party environment, but use those parties as a catalyst for the bang. Like I said above, be the guy bringing chicks (plus all your guy friends will love that your bringing sloots around). That said, try to throw some parties yourself. I have a house stocked with booze for a reason. Or network in some buddies with a pad to party at. Then you control the people showing up. Hope I helped a little here.

[Bergalerg]

In the same situation, jessup brings some good advice i.e. focus on day game. I have a friend whose day game is much better than mine and he introduced me to this forum. Your main focus needs to be meeting new people. If you live on campus find people that don't. Throw parties at their places and bring the girls you meet to said parties and escalate there. Maybe try some local clubs in town if possible. My friend who is a member here throws parties almost every week and we basically send out mass text/snapchat to anyone where the party is. People show up and we pull what we can. It works well but would not work if we had 0 day game to bring in fresh girls with fresh friends. Everyone likes to go out on a thursday/friday/saturday night be the person who gives them the option to have a good time and be the person to give them a good night

[mugen151]

(06-09-2014 05:02 PM)Bergalerg Wrote:  

In the same situation, jessup brings some good advice i.e. focus on day game. I have a friend whose day game is much better than mine and he introduced me to this forum. Your main focus needs to be meeting new people. If you live on campus find people that don't. Throw parties at their places and bring the girls you meet to said parties and escalate there. Maybe try some local clubs in town if possible. My friend who is a member here throws parties almost every week and we basically send out mass text/snapchat to anyone where the party is. People show up and we pull what we can. It works well but would not work if we had 0 day game to bring in fresh girls with fresh friends. Everyone likes to go out on a thursday/friday/saturday night be the person who gives them the option to have a good time and be the person to give them a good night

Shit man, both you and jessup are right on point, and I've been doing that. Focusing really hard on getting solid housing and trying to throw good parties. Everytime I host, I get a lay, but the quality is just not there. I feel like the really hot girls are out there, just not coming to my parties or to parties I frequent either.. As for gaming in the city, I'm in DC and it is fucking rough, although im trying to find some bookshops and coffeshops to try and branch out. Basically, I cant help but feel that I'm stuck in the middle of the social totem pole at the point where progression upwards is very difficult, and it doesnt help that I have virtually 0 red-pilled friends, instead almost exclusively beta nice guys ™ that I room with/ am forced to party with. But its not all bad, even with my horrendous lack of game I managed to score many times, its just I want to step it up, having imbibed three months worth of game haha

[WestIndianArchie]

If only I could be 20 years younger, or travel back in time 20 years ago knowing what I know now...

1) Frat Life - I wouldn't join a frat, but that's a sure fire way to get your #'s up. Also requires a fair amount of coin and asskissing

2) Join a scene - specifically a scene that girls are into - So running the Men against Cosplay collective won't do it, but getting into EDM or something along those lines might. Club sports....

2) a) join a music scene and become a promoter for said events. Cash and Hoes.

3) explore your artistic side - similar to joining a scene, but changing your whole approach to life brings in chicks. Visual Art, join a band, acting class, slam poetry, - bitches in tons.

4) Sell drugs - Ho's galore, and i'd say a whole lot of downside. But you only live once right?

5) work the fuck out, eat right, and day game like a mf'er

6) Get popular - sounds like every College movie there is, but you want the best chicks, you have to get popular.

7) Semester Abroad - might ruin American women for you, but coming back with some foreign notches and speaking another tongue....

8) Get your social media game solid.

WIA

[mugen151]

(06-09-2014 09:37 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

If only I could be 20 years younger, or travel back in time 20 years ago knowing what I know now...

1) Frat Life - I wouldn't join a frat, but that's a sure fire way to get your #'s up. Also requires a fair amount of coin and asskissing

2) Join a scene - specifically a scene that girls are into - So running the Men against Cosplay collective won't do it, but getting into EDM or something along those lines might. Club sports....

2) a) join a music scene and become a promoter for said events. Cash and Hoes.

3) explore your artistic side - similar to joining a scene, but changing your whole approach to life brings in chicks. Visual Art, join a band, acting class, slam poetry, - bitches in tons.

4) Sell drugs - Ho's galore, and i'd say a whole lot of downside. But you only live once right?

5) work the fuck out, eat right, and day game like a mf'er

6) Get popular - sounds like every College movie there is, but you want the best chicks, you have to get popular.

7) Semester Abroad - might ruin American women for you, but coming back with some foreign notches and speaking another tongue....

8) Get your social media game solid.

WIA

Lets see,

No real frat life here, a couple of fake frats, and I'm already really tight with one of them, and get in to all their shit already, its just not very frequent and so-so quality.

Im already in solid shape, but always training to get better. Highly recommend "Convict Conditioning" by Paul Wade btw.

In several clubs, but once I hook up with one chick in them, I feel the need to run for the hills to avoid the awkwardness.

Did boxing, and was pretty good/had a good time, but it turned into SJW central with all the lesbian chicks and white knights trying to get tougher joining up. Also got into a fight with the captain and got a deviated septum (nose fracture) for it.

How do you join a music scene? That's intruiging to me because ive been working on my guitar for a year now and am making solid progress.

Minus the drugs, solid advice haha

[mugen151]

One more thing, can you elaborate on tight social media game?

[WestIndianArchie]

(06-09-2014 09:45 PM)mugen151 Wrote:  

One more thing, can you elaborate on tight social media game?

I have no idea, i'm an old man. But you kids seem to be real good with Tinder, OKCupid, POF, Twitter, Instagram. Whatever kids are doing to hook up with those services, is something i'd learn.

As for the music thing, everyone starts a band in college.

WIA

[mugen151]

(06-09-2014 09:49 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

[quote='mugen151' pid='750670' dateline='1402368315']
One more thing, can you elaborate on tight social media game?

I have no idea, i'm an old man. But you kids seem to be real good with Tinder, OKCupid, POF, Twitter, Instagram. Whatever kids are doing to hook up with those services, is something i'd learn.

As for the music thing, everyone starts a band in college.


..Yeah, its not really sex, drugs, and rock and roll anymore pops. More like sex, drugs, and djing. Most bands are going for the indie vibe and attract the indie crowd which, admittedly has a couple of cute girls, but mostly just ugly feministers..

OKCupid, i feel might be for an older crowd, but maybe Tinder is worth my time. I just dont think a hot girl that gets attention would need to resort to online dating? Isnt adverse selection at play with these services?

[Sombro]

Quote:

1) Frat Life - I wouldn't join a frat, but that's a sure fire way to get your #'s up. Also requires a fair amount of coin and asskissing

2) Join a scene - specifically a scene that girls are into - So running the Men against Cosplay collective won't do it, but getting into EDM or something along those lines might. Club sports....

2) a) join a music scene and become a promoter for said events. Cash and Hoes.

3) explore your artistic side - similar to joining a scene, but changing your whole approach to life brings in chicks. Visual Art, join a band, acting class, slam poetry, - bitches in tons.

Played bands, did visual arts on side. Chicks can't tell good from shit. (Not speaking of myself per se, just seeing what animates them.) They just know what tingles them.

Being in bands puts your foot in the door of frats, & all that come$ with it. (Also tutored frat boys on the side, another foot in the door to their chicks.)

Also, college radio gets girls wet if you have a decent voice.

No one single approach -- you have to go Renaissance Man. Which you should anyway, regardless of chicks.

This alone gave me a +40 notch count at the time. ymmv

[Blackliter]

If there's 1 book you read other than Bang and Day Bang its: Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman

Take the time to read those 3 books..you're in college, you have the time. and the subject is definitely interesting to you haha or you wouldn't be here.

Most of your initial questions will be answered, come back after to fine tune

[Bergalerg]

(06-09-2014 09:45 PM)mugen151 Wrote:  

One more thing, can you elaborate on tight social media game?

I use social media for one thing and that is getting access to girls I don't know. Mine personally isn't that tight because I haven't taken a selfie since high school and don't update my profile often. I have a friend is really about it he uses tinder to talk to new girls. There is a good forum on tinder here http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-19115.html. The main one's I use in order of most used snap chat, tinder, Instagram, twitter, facebook.

This will depend on your area on which to use but I love snap chat for starting a conversation and, like I said earlier, getting people to meet up. I probably snap chat more than I text I feel that it is more personal and girls like it. I use Instagram to creep a girls interests and like girls' photos to get my name in their head (might be rethinking this one but has worked in the past). I use twitter to setup my playful asshole vibe to girls who don't know me. I usually only post alpha things so any girl who looks at it will get her pussy wet. I usually only use facebook to creep I never send friend requests it is honestly dead in my area and if someone told me to add them on facebook everyone who heard them would laugh at them. The biggest thing is to see what girls use the most in my area it is snap chat, tinder, and instagram. So i use those to find new girls and setup the best alpha view of myself to girls.

[From Vegas to Tokyo]

You've got all the right ideas and you're looking in the right directions, you just need to pull everything together.

You're throwing parties and doing non-bar stuff that's fun. That's good.

You're hitting the gym, getting big. That's good.

You've gotten into day game. That's good.

Try to leverage every social situation you're in. Pipeline it so that you get to know hot girls in your classes/other university related activities, invite the to your parties, and bang them. Everything should be in efforts to bring the girls to the party, and show them that you're fun. Having a party at your house is by far the easiest way to bang girls. Logistics fall right into your lap.

Keep working, the fruits will come

[mugen151]

(06-10-2014 07:33 PM)From Vegas to Tokyo Wrote:  

You've got all the right ideas and you're looking in the right directions, you just need to pull everything together.

You're throwing parties and doing non-bar stuff that's fun. That's good.

You're hitting the gym, getting big. That's good.

You've gotten into day game. That's good.

Try to leverage every social situation you're in. Pipeline it so that you get to know hot girls in your classes/other university related activities, invite the to your parties, and bang them. Everything should be in efforts to bring the girls to the party, and show them that you're fun. Having a party at your house is by far the easiest way to bang girls. Logistics fall right into your lap.

Keep working, the fruits will come

Heres a question about day game though, I feel that because of the odds of seeing that person again, you can skip the whole GALMUNC phase and the overt sexuality of Krausher's Daygame Nitro. Just display some alpha traits (but dont overdo it, i find college girls are more insecure?), and bounce, assuming that you will see her again. Am I right in modifying my day game like this?

[mugen151]

Just read through half of campus code and the points that he raises about tribalism are golden in my opinion. It seems that just like in highschool, whatever sub-tribe you belong in matters quite a bit in the quality of girls you can collect. But the question that I have are, if being in a sub par group is better than being on your own? If everything is niche oriented (ie. jocks, hipsters, etc) , is there any room for a renaissance man? And would there be any role for the sigma male in a college environment?

[Sombro]

(06-10-2014 08:03 PM)mugen151 Wrote:  

Just read through half of campus code and the points that he raises about tribalism are golden in my opinion. It seems that just like in highschool, whatever sub-tribe you belong in matters quite a bit in the quality of girls you can collect. But the question that I have are, if being in a sub par group is better than being on your own? If everything is niche oriented (ie. jocks, hipsters, etc) , is there any room for a renaissance man? And would there be any role for the sigma male in a college environment?

Like I said, 'renaissance man' is the way to go about it. (not that it was a conscious plan, i'm just naturally curious.)
I've always leaned sigma, and in a college environment it means casting a wide social umbrella, even if you are an natural introvert. Hang with different social circles. Jocks, punks, artists, squares, etc. Stay aloof, but offer value when you can from the sidelines. Come to think of it, I fell into this pattern in high school, so I don't carry the usual bitter HS baggage that niche/clique sticklers sadly drag into their twenties.

[puckerman]

I always crack up when I read these threads. For god sakes, you're in college. Unless you're at a school with a poor ratio of females to males, pussy is everyplace. It's in the halls, it's in the dorms, it's on the sidewalks, and it's on the grass fields. It's in your classroom, it's in the library, it's in the lab, and it's in the cafeteria.

You should approach anywhere and everywhere. If you get invited to parties, go and have fun. But if you can't find pussy on a college campus, you won't find it anywhere else.