Hi guys,
as a foreign student living in Brazil now (Sao Paulo), I have a sometimes complicated life. I started approaching many girls 3-4 months ago. Got a lot of numbers or Facebook, few big rejections. Some of those approaches turned useful for sex, some others for social networking and/or preselection. Why avoid befriending a fat girl when she knows many cool events and more attracting females ?![[Image: angel.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/angel.gif)
My life is currently both cool and complicated. I have time to read, write, experiment many things and of course maintain some relationships. This last part creates some complexity, because I am sleeping with several girls and try to avoid almost each of them to know about the others.
One of those girls is a married, 23 years old student.
On the outside she's slightly sad and with low self esteem. Though, she is curious and has this typical Brazilian physique I love. Her openness and curiosity with me made possible some kind of deep dive in her, both psychologically and physically. It turned out she is a bipolar girl filled with insecurities. She both dreams of a better life (she lives in a little place not that close to Sao Paulo, near from a campus currently in construction) and fears a lot of things. She fears I would forget her or sleep with other girls.
I want to stick with her as an amante. In bed she is absolutely incredible. When we get past the door of my bedroom, her sad and insecure side almost disappears and she turns warm, passionate. We have intense moments and the bed makes a lot of noise hehe.
The problem is twofold.
First, her constant insecurities lead her to seek reassurance from me on Facebook almost every night (when we are not physically together) and I have already spent many hours doing projections, bold talk, telling about my past sufferings as a way to mirror hers... but all this makes me go to bed pretty late and I have no idea whether it can be efficient on the long term or not. It would be great if this reassuring side followed a decreasing trend, with less and less need of this stuff, to just keep the maximum of good moments.
Second, we started to plan some things (two little travels on cities in the state of Sao Paulo, with large spaces of wildlife and beaches), but her imagination is running too wildly and she says she would like to be only with me, not her husband. Our relation as something secret, hidden but intense, is perfect for me. But if I tell her straightly I just want this, couldn't it lead her to crash emotionally, blocking the good moments to come?
So, my question is essentially this: any idea of how such a girl can be manageable on the middle-term?
And also, do you think she could successfully ignore the other girls I sleep with as long as I remain discrete (and as long as she can't access my Facebook hehe)?
Thanks
as a foreign student living in Brazil now (Sao Paulo), I have a sometimes complicated life. I started approaching many girls 3-4 months ago. Got a lot of numbers or Facebook, few big rejections. Some of those approaches turned useful for sex, some others for social networking and/or preselection. Why avoid befriending a fat girl when she knows many cool events and more attracting females ?
My life is currently both cool and complicated. I have time to read, write, experiment many things and of course maintain some relationships. This last part creates some complexity, because I am sleeping with several girls and try to avoid almost each of them to know about the others.
One of those girls is a married, 23 years old student.
On the outside she's slightly sad and with low self esteem. Though, she is curious and has this typical Brazilian physique I love. Her openness and curiosity with me made possible some kind of deep dive in her, both psychologically and physically. It turned out she is a bipolar girl filled with insecurities. She both dreams of a better life (she lives in a little place not that close to Sao Paulo, near from a campus currently in construction) and fears a lot of things. She fears I would forget her or sleep with other girls.
I want to stick with her as an amante. In bed she is absolutely incredible. When we get past the door of my bedroom, her sad and insecure side almost disappears and she turns warm, passionate. We have intense moments and the bed makes a lot of noise hehe.
The problem is twofold.
First, her constant insecurities lead her to seek reassurance from me on Facebook almost every night (when we are not physically together) and I have already spent many hours doing projections, bold talk, telling about my past sufferings as a way to mirror hers... but all this makes me go to bed pretty late and I have no idea whether it can be efficient on the long term or not. It would be great if this reassuring side followed a decreasing trend, with less and less need of this stuff, to just keep the maximum of good moments.
Second, we started to plan some things (two little travels on cities in the state of Sao Paulo, with large spaces of wildlife and beaches), but her imagination is running too wildly and she says she would like to be only with me, not her husband. Our relation as something secret, hidden but intense, is perfect for me. But if I tell her straightly I just want this, couldn't it lead her to crash emotionally, blocking the good moments to come?
So, my question is essentially this: any idea of how such a girl can be manageable on the middle-term?
And also, do you think she could successfully ignore the other girls I sleep with as long as I remain discrete (and as long as she can't access my Facebook hehe)?
Thanks
