[Savior]

Hey,

i've been chatting up a cute russian girl from my area lately. I'm doing some kind of german highschool diploma, but abroad.. and this is where i know her from ... (i study besides working basicly)

anyways, i was gaming her for quite abit and eventually asked her if she wants me to come to her place and teach her some school stuff

she said duo to work she only has time in June, that was 2 weeks ago back in may. I asked her couple days ago, and she simply repeated what she said...

I havent wrote her anything, should i wait for her responds or should i ask her a 2nd time or tell her a date when to meet? i dont wanna act too needy etc


any suggesstion on how to process? shall i just wait and drop her if she doesnt write me anymore?

[Renberg]

I saw the title and thought, "I have to get to the roof of my building and turn on the Christian-Mcqueen-Signal"

It may come across as a little needy to write her the first day of June. I would try to restart mid-week, whenever is most convenient for you, and if she's not interested, eject. But I wouldn't approach with the "Let me help you with school work" angle. If this is a non-boring chick, she's probably thinking, "This nerd has been pestering me to help me with homework for the past two weeks." Invite her out, to a bar or something..."I know you like studying, but let's meet at a bar instead. DAY, XYZ, at 9:30"

[Savior]

if i ask her to study at her place and shes ok with it i have her already isolated? i'm new to game and not very confident in going out to Bars, i wouldn't really know how to proceed to fuck her, and reflecting on the convo i also think i didnt manage to create enough atraction.. is it common to escalate in those text messages before fucking her?

[Max_Drake]

Maybe it's common to try to escalate in text messages, but I don't do it with new girls unless they start first. And even then I cut the thread short. Sexual escalation needs to be mental and physical the first few times. A woman can and will have (what they call an orgasm) from a text message, and then be satisfied enough to have absolutely no reason to see you. It's BS that women like sex as much as men. Ask most guys that have been married for more than a month. Don't give away your power over the phone/text. Initially, I only use text messages for light flirting and to set up face time. If you've been flirting a bit and she agrees to spend time with you alone, escalate with your words and actions and let her enjoy the magic that is you.

[Savior]

so married man are my ressource now for pickup advices?

but yeah, i dont understand how to create enough attractions/tension to increase my chances so that they accept and my innocent invitations :O. I guess internet dating mostly comes down to some witty copypasta and alot of spamming :/

anyways, will update on wednesday =)

[Max_Drake]

(06-03-2014 05:22 PM)DasTier Wrote:  

so married man are my ressource now for pickup advices?

but yeah, i dont understand how to create enough attractions/tension to increase my chances so that they accept and my innocent invitations :O. I guess internet dating mostly comes down to some witty copypasta and alot of spamming :/

Whaaaa? I don't think anyone can figure out what your comment means.

[Savior]

i was just chatting with her, we havent met before, thats why i said i feel like online dating game is harder to build attraction with the girl without her seeing you in person. I guess it mostly comes down to spamming some line to alot of profiles of women, OKcupid or what have you.. untill one responds to it

[Max_Drake]

(06-04-2014 04:29 PM)DasTier Wrote:  

I guess it mostly comes down to spamming some line to alot of profiles of women, OKcupid or what have you.. until one responds to it

Yeah, OK. If you hit up tons of women with a copy and paste message without regard to whether you're actually attracted to them or not, that would be spamming. But if you are hitting up lots of women because you are attracted to lots of women, that's not spamming. If you think any particular woman is very attractive, you might be wise to skim her profile and craft a subject line that gets your message opened and read. No trying to build comfort by liking what she likes either. Message something provocative, or antagonistic, or something with a twist on what she would find interesting.

[Savior]

(06-04-2014 10:21 PM)Max_Drake Wrote:  

(06-04-2014 04:29 PM)DasTier Wrote:  

I guess it mostly comes down to spamming some line to alot of profiles of women, OKcupid or what have you.. until one responds to it

Yeah, OK. If you hit up tons of women with a copy and paste message without regard to whether you're actually attracted to them or not, that would be spamming. But if you are hitting up lots of women because you are attracted to lots of women, that's not spamming. If you think any particular woman is very attractive, you might be wise to skim her profile and craft a subject line that gets your message opened and read. No trying to build comfort by liking what she likes either. Message something provocative, or antagonistic, or something with a twist on what she would find interesting.

exellent reframe haha!

yeah ich denke success depends on being dynamic, reading her profile and talking about things that others didnt talk about. What i find is also quite powerfull is creating a 2nd account and then ask her about shit that you use to game her later on with your real account

[Hazaer]

Hey guys, was wondering if emoticons and exclamation marks are advisable in text game.. especially after saying something that is meant to funny.

[robreke]

No... for the most part a man shouldn't use those. Leave that to the girls.