[dog24]

(05-31-2014 04:14 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Just expect to get the, "What are you, gay?" question. At least in the US.

If a girl calls you that i wouldnt say that you are particularly effeminate or something like that, it means that she thinks that youre so down the totem pole that she thinks she can get away with pretty much the worst insult you can get as a man. Might have to check what kind of vibe you guys are giving to these girls.

Whenever a girls "shit tests me" like that (that just sounds like plain old disrespect to me) i just look her straight in the eyes like im about to beat her up, (cause thats what im really thinking about) they usually avoid eye contact after that and dont engage me anymore. Just one of example of how i cant stand bullshit.

(06-01-2014 02:17 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Immediately reframe. You need to make their statement irrelevant and not engage with it at all.

Like i said girls seem to be very traditional around here, i think it was roosh that wrote that article about logical vs emotional sex, girls in here only want to fuck when they have decided already that they want you as their boyfriend.
Reframing it just makes girls think that i think they are stupid, theyre not, they know whats going on.

(06-01-2014 02:33 PM)Sugar Wrote:  

For a guy who has so much experience with women, you are painfully unobservant of them. You want to gain 10 lbs of muscle so that you're so hot more women will approach you? That is the most ass backward way of getting good with women I've ever heard of. You will NEVER improve that way, and not only that your results will go downhill as you get older and less good looking.

Not once have i said that i have plenty of experience with women, i always say the opposite in fact.
http://www.dangerandplay.com/2013/12/23/...it-to-big/
http://www.dangerandplay.com/2013/09/12/...proaching/
Quoting from danger and play "I’ve been fit and big. I know what women find attractive. I know how to read what the nerds call indicators of interest.
You simply get more IOIs from women. That’s just the way it is".

Im pretty observant just went out yesterday, same shit everytime, tons of ugly dudes dancing around while the girls ignore them, until at 3 am or so the guys theyre already fucking (usually from social circle) show up, and leave with them.

[Cobra]

^^^ Agree about the muscle bit. Women won't approach you especially if you EXPECT them to. For example I will dress sharp but won't get compliments unless I OPEN myself up to it and take the initiative. I'll elaborate my thoughts.

My best friend: He's not bad with women but he doesn't cold approach that much. When E&Y does cold approach it's usually a certain demographic because the other ones make him nervous. The other ones are, you guessed it, white girls. He's a good looking guy I would say.

We're both planning a London trip soon. He works out a lot and sees that as the most contributing factor in our ability to get laid in te UK. He tells me that I need to work out as hardcore as him.

I do work out but my routine could be more intense. What I do in addition is game. I cold approach as much I can albeit dealing with some anxiety. I also approach girls outside of my comfort zone, even sets of 2+ girls. My ego has been getting busted.

However I think my chances of getting laid in the UK increase at a higher rate with each approach than for my friend with each rep instead that he pumps out at the gym. I guess we'll find out if I'm delusional.

Again this is a broad statement as he does in fact game and I do in fact hit the gym.

[RexImperator]

(06-01-2014 04:26 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

(05-31-2014 04:14 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Just expect to get the, "What are you, gay?" question. At least in the US.

If a girl calls you that i wouldnt say that you are particularly effeminate or something like that, it means that she thinks that youre so down the totem pole that she thinks she can get away with pretty much the worst insult you can get as a man. Might have to check what kind of vibe you guys are giving to these girls.

Whenever a girls "shit tests me" like that (that just sounds like plain old disrespect to me) i just look her straight in the eyes like im about to beat her up, (cause thats what im really thinking about) they usually avoid eye contact after that and dont engage me anymore. Just one of example of how i cant stand bullshit.

Well here's how I dealt with that one the last time I heard it. I was chatting with my friend in a bar about some nerdy stuff, like weightlifting. We were kind of absorbed on the conversation. And this woman (30's, former party girl, I'd guess, who felt like trolling us for old times' sake) was standing next to us, overheard some of the conversation and said, "What are you guys gay?" My friend, who is married actually, got defensive and said, "What???" With rising intonation. Obviously the worst thing to do. I just laughed at her and said, "Awwww..." and patted her on the head like a little kid. She turned bright red and shut up after that.

[xxMarco]

Girls shit test me all the time about me being a player. Usually this means they like you and you're real smooth but its their LMR. I usually joke around about it or turn it around to make them feel like they are projecting their own slutty behaviors.

Her: "I bet you get girls all the time"
Me: Nah, its been a slow week.

Her: "How many girls have you brought home?"
Me: "A few, only one cute one with (something specific about her)...."

This used to annoy me as well but with practice I've learned to get over these shit tests and seal the deal. I'll tell you if you can be playful and aloof you can really win girls over. It will open a lot more lays for you.

As far as girls asking if you're gay. That happens sometimes. It usually means they're down to bang but they want to neg you in their own little stupid way. 80% chance i'm banging a girl if she asks me if i'm gay. Her brain is thinking of me in a sexual way and what better way to prove to her that i'm not gay by going for the make out right there. Or while i'm choking her in bed.... "is that gay enough..."