I posted this over on the sosuave forums, but curious if anyone else here has experienced this type of thing.
I have noticed this phenomenon that has happened with every single F-close I have had since getting out of my 7 year LTR. There has been 3 different girls, 3 very different situations, same thing happened for all three.
In the morning I cannot really remember how I went from beginning the interaction to actually closing the deal. I remember details here and there, but a lot of it is a mystery.
I usually remember every word of every interaction I have on a daily basis. Some people have told me I have a photographic memory.
With a girl I had sex with in the Dominican Republic, my first clear memory is of her riding my c0ck and thinking, "wow this girls black skin looks so funny against my extreme pale skin."
The next girl I met in a bar, she was a friend of a friend. I remember being immediately drawn to her firey eyes and telling her just that. I remember snippets of the night, and I remember walking to her house. But how did I get her to leave with me? I don't know!
Now, I know what you are thinking..."Mtnman, you were drunk, this happens all the time" True I had been drinking in both of those instances, but I have never blacked out of lost time from drinking in my life. Also, I was not wasted by any means either of these times.
I still suspected the alcohol combined with animal instinct was causing my memory loss.
Now enter the latest scenario:
I meet a girl from match.com on a Sunday. We go to a local dive, play two games of pool. She cant drink so I have one beer and chat her up and flirt with her. I remember asking her a bunch about her violin playing and I remember her offering to play for me since her apt was close. However, after that things get fuzzy. I remember taking her hand on the way back to her place, but that is about it. It is very fuzzy, even though I had basically zero booze in my system. I'm a pretty big dude, and a single beer has zero effect on me. In the morning I wasn't even sure how to get back to the main street from her apartment.
Anyways, not sure what the point of this post is. I wish I could remember what I did or said better so I could learn from it. Apparently I am pretty good at closing the deal, I think its the opening that I need to work on.
Is this unique to me, or has anyone else experienced something like this?
I have noticed this phenomenon that has happened with every single F-close I have had since getting out of my 7 year LTR. There has been 3 different girls, 3 very different situations, same thing happened for all three.
In the morning I cannot really remember how I went from beginning the interaction to actually closing the deal. I remember details here and there, but a lot of it is a mystery.
I usually remember every word of every interaction I have on a daily basis. Some people have told me I have a photographic memory.
With a girl I had sex with in the Dominican Republic, my first clear memory is of her riding my c0ck and thinking, "wow this girls black skin looks so funny against my extreme pale skin."
The next girl I met in a bar, she was a friend of a friend. I remember being immediately drawn to her firey eyes and telling her just that. I remember snippets of the night, and I remember walking to her house. But how did I get her to leave with me? I don't know!
Now, I know what you are thinking..."Mtnman, you were drunk, this happens all the time" True I had been drinking in both of those instances, but I have never blacked out of lost time from drinking in my life. Also, I was not wasted by any means either of these times.
I still suspected the alcohol combined with animal instinct was causing my memory loss.
Now enter the latest scenario:
I meet a girl from match.com on a Sunday. We go to a local dive, play two games of pool. She cant drink so I have one beer and chat her up and flirt with her. I remember asking her a bunch about her violin playing and I remember her offering to play for me since her apt was close. However, after that things get fuzzy. I remember taking her hand on the way back to her place, but that is about it. It is very fuzzy, even though I had basically zero booze in my system. I'm a pretty big dude, and a single beer has zero effect on me. In the morning I wasn't even sure how to get back to the main street from her apartment.
Anyways, not sure what the point of this post is. I wish I could remember what I did or said better so I could learn from it. Apparently I am pretty good at closing the deal, I think its the opening that I need to work on.
Is this unique to me, or has anyone else experienced something like this?
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