I am 48 and started dating a woman of 32. During a conversation about sex she said she was still a virgin, and when she has told that to guys in the past they disappeared. Why would they do that? Am I missing something/ignorant?
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Quote: (05-01-2014 07:17 PM)Max_Drake Wrote:
I am 48 and started dating a woman of 32. During a conversation about sex she said she was still a virgin, and when she has told that to guys in the past they disappeared. Why would they do that? Am I missing something/ignorant?
Quote: (05-02-2014 04:08 AM)eradicator Wrote:
My first thought is that she is probably lying.
Quote: (05-13-2014 12:55 AM)Max_Drake Wrote:You allready got this far. Just stay the weekend there, bring a bottle of wine, slowly get her in the mood by drinking/kissing/escalating.
After a couple of days of touching and sexual innuendo, we made plans that I would spend the weekend at her house. This evening she texts me and informs me that she wants me to spend the weekend but doesn't plan on spreading her legs. --I don't respond.
Of course I'm moving "on to the next one."
I've seen her several times, even spent the night at her house before. Should I just go ghost from here or is an explanation to her in order?
Quote: (05-13-2014 12:55 AM)Max_Drake Wrote:
After a couple of days of touching and sexual innuendo, we made plans that I would spend the weekend at her house. This evening she texts me and informs me that she wants me to spend the weekend but doesn't plan on spreading her legs. --I don't respond.
Of course I'm moving "on to the next one."
I've seen her several times, even spent the night at her house before. Should I just go ghost from here or is an explanation to her in order?
Quote: (05-13-2014 02:27 AM)casio Wrote:
You allready got this far. Just stay the weekend there, bring a bottle of wine, slowly get her in the mood by drinking/kissing/escalating.
If you play it right she'll be all over you. Don't listen to what she says, act on your instincts.
Quote: (05-23-2014 02:18 PM)Max_Drake Wrote:
Quote: (05-13-2014 02:27 AM)casio Wrote:
You allready got this far. Just stay the weekend there, bring a bottle of wine, slowly get her in the mood by drinking/kissing/escalating.
If you play it right she'll be all over you. Don't listen to what she says, act on your instincts.
I decided to take this advice last week, but did NOT push for intercourse because I didn't want to seem like I cared very much about HER PARTICULAR p*ssy. A couple of weeks ago (before she informed me that we weren't going to have sex as quickly as I wanted) I felt in control of our interactions because I was definitely the one being chased. Now that she knows I want sex (obviously before she did - big mistake); what should I say or do to change the frame back to one where I'm in control and being chased for time, attention, affection, sexy situations, etc. I don't want her to think her vagina is made of gold and I'm waiting for a the chance to be rewarded. Should I say something like, "I'm glad we are waiting." or what?
Thanks. I appreciate the feedback.
Quote: (05-27-2014 06:58 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:
It sounds like a huge waste of time to me, especially since you're ignoring advice. If you'd not tried for sex and gone for getting a BJ or anal or something, I'd understand, but why are you continuing to ask for advice then promptly ignoring it?