[charmer]

how to deal with a woman who comes to you as a problem...and she like to discuss her problems all the time wtih you.

iam currently talking to a girl with above traits....what i did is applied tactis from mystery...he said if a girl comes with problem then you must divert her.

so when i was talking to her and she was discussing her problems with me...i said her 'Hey wait,do you think iam your mum or your female friend that you are talking like this to me?' ..she laughed and said no sorry...(she kinda liked it).

but what i need to ask....if i divert her all the time like this....she wont feel close to me..as she says she needs a friend to whom she can discuss all these shits.

so how to avoid this.

[Basil Ransom]

follow the diversion with kino, flirtatious banter, and then a kiss.

[Bravo22]

(11-17-2008 02:08 AM)charmer Wrote:  

how to deal with a woman who comes to you as a problem...and she like to discuss her problems all the time wtih you.

iam currently talking to a girl with above traits....what i did is applied tactis from mystery...he said if a girl comes with problem then you must divert her.

so when i was talking to her and she was discussing her problems with me...i said her 'Hey wait,do you think iam your mum or your female friend that you are talking like this to me?' ..she laughed and said no sorry...(she kinda liked it).

but what i need to ask....if i divert her all the time like this....she wont feel close to me..as she says she needs a friend to whom she can discuss all these shits.

so how to avoid this.

So she starts to poor her heart out. She’s dumping her mental garbage into your yard. Take both of her hands and stare intently into her eyes. Let her go on for a few seconds, then interrupt with, "I can tell you are really stressed and in need of mind blowing sex." Then go for the kiss. If she pulls back, Pause, look intently. "Don't hold back, (insert name) ...let the flood gates open." Then go for it again. If she hesitates, "You really need this, I have seen this once before... and the poor girl exploded." Go for it again. Make sure throughout you use a serious face and a calm even tone. After the third time, if she demonstrates frustration, I go with my hail marry, "Shall I go down on you?" If this doesn’t work move on, she's a waste of time.

[broken]

(11-18-2008 11:24 PM)Bravo22 Wrote:  

(11-17-2008 02:08 AM)charmer Wrote:  

how to deal with a woman who comes to you as a problem...and she like to discuss her problems all the time wtih you.

iam currently talking to a girl with above traits....what i did is applied tactis from mystery...he said if a girl comes with problem then you must divert her.

so when i was talking to her and she was discussing her problems with me...i said her 'Hey wait,do you think iam your mum or your female friend that you are talking like this to me?' ..she laughed and said no sorry...(she kinda liked it).

but what i need to ask....if i divert her all the time like this....she wont feel close to me..as she says she needs a friend to whom she can discuss all these shits.

so how to avoid this.

So she starts to poor her heart out. She’s dumping her mental garbage into your yard. Take both of her hands and stare intently into her eyes. Let her go on for a few seconds, then interrupt with, "I can tell you are really stressed and in need of mind blowing sex." Then go for the kiss. If she pulls back, Pause, look intently. "Don't hold back, (insert name) ...let the flood gates open." Then go for it again. If she hesitates, "You really need this, I have seen this once before... and the poor girl exploded." Go for it again. Make sure throughout you use a serious face and a calm even tone. After the third time, if she demonstrates frustration, I go with my hail marry, "Shall I go down on you?" If this doesn’t work move on, she's a waste of time.

*starts clapping*
*rises from seat*
*yells bravo*

I'm seriously using this.

[Roosh]

I think we're going to have to do an intervention for charmer soon

[twigman]

This thread is hilarious.