[Nomad77]

With all of the talking we do on here sometimes I re-read something Roosh has written years ago and laugh because it just reminds me that we already know and have read everything that is really important. This is what he said:

"Game isn't about displaying a caricature of yourself to the opposite sex, it's about showing you're a balanced, unique man who knows how to do two things: connect with her and then offer seamless logistics to have sex at the moment she wants it most."

The parts in bold pretty much sums it up. Now if only it was easy to achieve those "two" things. And as much as I hate it, at least initially, sex is always about when SHE wants it.

[soup]

If you access to a lot of women, what one girl wants becomes less and less important.

In thar sense, it's not about what she wants because if she doesn't want dick, you have many other options that might want it.

It's really about what you want.

[Nomad77]

I think for most guys, including myself, the getting a lot of women appears to be the tricky part.

[soup]

If you want to get one woman you pretty much need to dealing with a lot of women these days. No use complaining about it.

[TheFinalEpic]

(05-15-2014 11:08 AM)soup Wrote:  

If you want to get one woman you pretty much need to dealing with a lot of women these days. No use complaining about it.

Exactly, its still a numbers game regardless of how you look at it. She will value you much more if she thinks you can get any other girl, and the moment you invest into her and forget about talking to others is the moment her respect dwindles.

Even in long term game it is efficient to have other women you are speaking to, to keep her on her toes. And if there is a breakup, you have another few options in the back pocket.

My favourite quote about this is "When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love, and the wise already have one in reserve" -Oscar Wilde

[internet alpha]

According to SkyyJohn on Youtube, Game is about treating hot chicks like ugly chicks. Indifferent, take it or leave it attitude and not treating them like goddesses.

[Akula]

(05-15-2014 11:36 AM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:  

(05-15-2014 11:08 AM)soup Wrote:  

If you want to get one woman you pretty much need to dealing with a lot of women these days. No use complaining about it.

Exactly, its still a numbers game regardless of how you look at it. She will value you much more if she thinks you can get any other girl, and the moment you invest into her and forget about talking to others is the moment her respect dwindles.

Even in long term game it is efficient to have other women you are speaking to, to keep her on her toes. And if there is a breakup, you have another few options in the back pocket.

My favourite quote about this is "When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love, and the wise already have one in reserve" -Oscar Wilde

Bold part is also key. But my view is that it's a numbers game more than anything else. Providing yourself with tons of options just makes your game better and gives you that "IDGAF" viewpoint towards women.

As Epic wrote, you also can't let your skills atrophy while being out of the game from time to time or in (ahem) marriage. I'm just opening up everyone I bump into on elevators, in the street, at the mall etc. while in exile here in DC

[Checkmat]

This is why I'm keeping two fuck buddies on retainer even though they don't excite me anymore.

I was talking to a friend about this today and he told me not to dump them, as I complained that they were in their 30's and I felt I could do better. Keep them, he said, because then you won't be desperate for sex from new women. You can get it when you want now so keep they dynamic in play and leverage it in your interactions with new women.

[simondice]

(05-15-2014 11:36 AM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:  

My favourite quote about this is "When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love, and the wise already have one in reserve" -Oscar Wilde

Man, Oscar Wilde is such a pimp. Sometimes, I sneer at people when they say he was sexless. I tell them, look at his quotes about life, fame and his IDGAF attitude, does that sound like someone who doesn't get laid?

[Cccc]

I agree that to some extent it is a numbers game but as you find what works for you your win rate will continue to improve. Do it enough and it will feel much easier and not so much like a numbers game. Running the numbers if no substitute for refining your game and sticking to works for you. In my opinion if you are not getting a result better than one in ten then you are putting too much emphasis on the quantity and not enough on the quality. I am sure there are many that will disagree with this

[TheFinalEpic]

(05-15-2014 03:27 PM)Cccc Wrote:  

I agree that to some extent it is a numbers game but as you find what works for you your win rate will continue to improve. Do it enough and it will feel much easier and not so much like a numbers game. Running the numbers if no substitute for refining your game and sticking to works for you. In my opinion if you are not getting a result better than one in ten then you are putting too much emphasis on the quantity and not enough on the quality. I am sure there are many that will disagree with this

Of course your win percentage will increase, but in the end, approaching girls is a numbers play, the men that approach the most get laid the most. If you're getting a return of one in ten, you're doing pretty well, considering most of us will approach far in excess of ten girls a night. All that matters is if you're taking a girl home/get a number that translates to sex.