[DimeBait]

Man, I have certainly been there. Usually, in my experience, women who just want to text back n forth are in relationships just looking for attention. I usually push the for the meet and if they're not comfortable enough for that then phuck em. I don't have time to coddle some bish. It's 2017 and online dating has become ubiquitous, either sh!t or get off the pot.

[Mess O.]

I've since been "quad-banned" from OKC, and well, I reckon I've had my fill on that one. I've recently launched a major offensive on Match.com, and so far, decent results for a start. I don't think we have a dedicated thread on here for that site yet . . .

[Remington]

I barely check OKC nowadays. I still get messages and phone numbers, but it has lost its luster over the past couple years.

Got 3 numbers off the site over the past couple days. Girls are pretty cute, which is why I'm wondering why they're on there.

Have a date set with one on Sunday. We will see what happens.

[Mess O.]

(07-27-2017 07:33 AM)Remington Wrote:  

Girls are pretty cute, which is why I'm wondering why they're on there.

I know, seriously, what a crudball kind of feeling. Let us know how the dates go. I've been picking up some pretty serious momentum on Match.com

[Mess O.]

Collected 15 numbers from my 1st two weeks on Match.com - a date lined up for almost every day this week. Even did two in the same day on Sunday (shouldn't have). Legendary. Last night's was the best so far.

[Remington]

(07-27-2017 09:49 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  

Collected 15 numbers from my 1st two weeks on Match.com - a date lined up for almost every day this week. Even did two in the same day on Sunday (shouldn't have). Legendary. Last night's was the best so far.

Care to share details?

[Mess O.]

Of course. Tonight I should be able get down on it all . . .

[Valhalla]

Okc sucks

There's also tons of attention and messages you get when you open the account then it all fizzles within a week

Girls reply to you and talk and once you go for the close they disappear.

Most women on there have been there for years and are literally just attention whoring.

[Mess O.]

I'm putting together a datasheet for Match.com - maybe the timing's right for something worth a damn. And yeah, truly, OKC has finally faded on out.

I just used the search to turn up a datasheet by Baphomet (which I had posted on, and forgotten about), so I'm going through it again now. The intended age range is for 40+ men, a few years ahead of me, but I'm sure it'll be useful . . .

[Remington]

Was out on a date with a girl on Saturday. We hit up my hometown and bounced around to different venues for drinks and food.

Overall good time. She definitely talked about 75% of the time which made things easy because we had a little bit of a drive to and from where we met up. We ended going back to her apartment. She was pretty drunk and I was sober since I have a higher tolerance. Had to drive back home so I didn't feel like sticking around at her apartment while she talked about her dog. Will hang out with her again, hopefully she won't get as drunk next time. Didn't end up banging her because she was pretty gone. Next time.

I got back to my apartment around 11pm. Was texting an OKC lead who was at a bar a few miles from my apartment. I told her that she should come hang out. Haven't met her in person so I was doubting she would agree.

Well, she agreed, and showed up to my apt about 1am. I was in the middle of watching a movie I really liked so she just sat next to me until it was over. As soon as the credits started to roll, she put her hand on my dick and I took her to my room.

She was maybe in my apartment for 25 minutes before we banged. Think that's a new record for me. Would have been quicker but I was way too into the movie I was watching.

After we got cleaned up, she left and I stayed up until around 5am, which I'm deeply regretting because my sleep schedule is all screwed up.

[chitown72]

(07-31-2017 09:32 AM)Remington Wrote:  

We ended going back to her apartment. She was pretty drunk and I was sober since I have a higher tolerance. Will hang out with her again, hopefully she won't get as drunk next time. Didn't end up banging her because she was pretty gone. Next time.

I got back to my apartment around 11pm. Was texting an OKC lead who was at a bar a few miles from my apartment. I told her that she should come hang out. Haven't met her in person so I was doubting she would agree.

Well, she agreed, and showed up to my apt about 1am. I was in the middle of watching a movie I really liked so she just sat next to me until it was over. As soon as the credits started to roll, she put her hand on my dick and I took her to my room.

She was maybe in my apartment for 25 minutes before we banged. Think that's a new record for me. Would have been quicker but I was way too into the movie I was watching.

After we got cleaned up, she left and I stayed up until around 5am, which I'm deeply regretting because my sleep schedule is all screwed up.

I don't understand how you can be at her place and her drunk and not do the deed. I made that mistake once and never got another date. I'm pretty sure she was expecting the bang. You sure she won't view you as beta now? Let us know if she does go out with you again.

At least you were able to salvage the night. Good going man!

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

(07-31-2017 12:00 PM)chitown72 Wrote:  

(07-31-2017 09:32 AM)Remington Wrote:  

We ended going back to her apartment. She was pretty drunk and I was sober since I have a higher tolerance. Will hang out with her again, hopefully she won't get as drunk next time. Didn't end up banging her because she was pretty gone. Next time.

I got back to my apartment around 11pm. Was texting an OKC lead who was at a bar a few miles from my apartment. I told her that she should come hang out. Haven't met her in person so I was doubting she would agree.

Well, she agreed, and showed up to my apt about 1am. I was in the middle of watching a movie I really liked so she just sat next to me until it was over. As soon as the credits started to roll, she put her hand on my dick and I took her to my room.

She was maybe in my apartment for 25 minutes before we banged. Think that's a new record for me. Would have been quicker but I was way too into the movie I was watching.

After we got cleaned up, she left and I stayed up until around 5am, which I'm deeply regretting because my sleep schedule is all screwed up.

I don't understand how you can be at her place and her drunk and not do the deed. I made that mistake once and never got another date. I'm pretty sure she was expecting the bang. You sure she won't view you as beta now? Let us know if she does go out with you again.

At least you were able to salvage the night. Good going man!

Been in that situation a few times before

A sloppy drunk chick is RARELY ever worth the headache even if it is a layup. Most times, if she "pretty gone" she won't be giving her best performance which lessens my enjoyment. Waaaay past getting notches for the sake of ego. Let's face it, if it's not going to be pleasurable. What's the point?

The bigger elephant in the room, is a rape allegation if she feels 'taken advantage of' when her head clears

Ain't worth it G

[Remington]

I didn't want to bang her while she was drunk because that would fuck with my moral compass. Wouldn't feel right to me.

We are also hanging out next weekend. She's been blowing up my phone saying how much fun she had and how soon she can see me, etc.

I'm not worried about losing the bang it wouldn't bother me. If it happens, cool. If it doesn't, I have a plenty of options on standby that will be willing to come to me.

Edit: MDP - Definitely past the point of getting notches for ego sake. Also didn't want to deal with her since I wasn't drunk myself.

[chitown72]

(07-31-2017 12:17 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Been in that situation a few times before

A sloppy drunk chick is RARELY ever worth the headache even if it is a layup. Most times, if she "pretty gone" she won't be giving her best performance which lessens my enjoyment. Waaaay past getting notches for the sake of ego. Let's face it, if it's not going to be pleasurable. What's the point?

The bigger elephant in the room, is a rape allegation if she feels 'taken advantage of' when her head clears

Ain't worth it G

I guess your drunk and my drunk maybe different. I've had drunk girls that performed better than sober girls(aka starfish). But that rape allegation definitely is something to look out for.

[VforVlad]

It's been a while since I came to this forum or this thread. Haven't really had much success on okcupid but things picked up for me on POF.

But I noticed they just removed the 'viewers list' on okcupid. Nobody can see who viewed who anymore apparently. I wonder why they did that? And I wonder whether it has something to do with what I noticed. Girls barely view me back.

Hell even my two Chad Thundercock fake profiles didn't get a lot of hits. Since they removed it, Chad got several messages as that is the only way to get his attention.

Is this a good change by okcupid to encourage more activity and messaging?

[soup]

Okcupid used to be a wild west of poon, but now it's a nanny state that will ban or shadow ban you if you make any overt sexual overtures. OkCastrate.

[VforVlad]

(08-09-2017 05:26 PM)soup Wrote:  

Okcupid used to be a wild west of poon, but now it's a nanny state that will ban or shadow ban you if you make any overt sexual overtures. OkCastrate.

"shadow ban". It's funny you mentioned that because I didn't think of it.

I ran with this short, sarcastic summary "I'm an immigrant but i'm the good kind of immigrant that Trump would approve of....as in the white kind. Questions, just ask"

It's open to interpretation. Used to get a mixture of responses from supposed Conservative chicks thinking I'm a liberal and was being snarky writing me a long response how Trump isn't against non-whites but only illegal immigration, to "haha"s and "I LOL'd hard after reading that". But the views have gone down drastically. They don't even view me back after I initiate. Could it be a shadow ban for using the word Trump.

[Remington]

(08-09-2017 05:26 PM)soup Wrote:  

Okcupid used to be a wild west of poon, but now it's a nanny state that will ban or shadow ban you if you make any overt sexual overtures. OkCastrate.

A couple years ago, OKC used to be a pretty decent site. It has now devolved to more fatties and bots. During that same time, Tinder used to have much more attractive women, now it is pretty much the equivalent of what OKC was a couple years ago regarding quality.

Bumble has been where it's at in my area, pretty much the quality that Tinder was showing a couple years ago. Wonder what dating site will be the next high quality app.

[Player_1337]

(08-10-2017 09:10 AM)Remington Wrote:  

(08-09-2017 05:26 PM)soup Wrote:  

Okcupid used to be a wild west of poon, but now it's a nanny state that will ban or shadow ban you if you make any overt sexual overtures. OkCastrate.

A couple years ago, OKC used to be a pretty decent site. It has now devolved to more fatties and bots. During that same time, Tinder used to have much more attractive women, now it is pretty much the equivalent of what OKC was a couple years ago regarding quality.

Bumble has been where it's at in my area, pretty much the quality that Tinder was showing a couple years ago. Wonder what dating site will be the next high quality app.

In terms of mainstream apps- Bumble appears to have the best overall quality talent.

[eradicator]

Bumble is considered a mainstream app? I might have to give it a shot, but I thought the woman has to send the first message on there after you match, which makes it a really stupid app.

[DimeBait]

I haven't had a message or even a view on OKC for nearly 6 months. They just recently changed their settings where views aren't even logged anymore. Just writing this, I think I'm going to delete it and fux with Tinder instead. I've had shitty shitty shitty luck on all dating platforms. I don't rely on them, but I keep my hook in the water.
It's to the point now, even when a bish does contact me, I'm a sarcastic dick because 99% of the time it doesn't lead anywhere, they flake or ghost after going back n forth.

[Remington]

DB, what does your profile entail? What do your pictures look like?

[DimeBait]

(08-11-2017 11:55 AM)Remington Wrote:  

DB, what does your profile entail? What do your pictures look like?

I recently changed my pics and have gotten a decent amount of attention on Coffee Meets Bagel and Bumble.

. . . but I absolutely loathe the small talk so I usually shoot for a phone call and chix tend to ghost. It's been my way of weeding out attention seekers.
I simply reply, "lets cut to the chase, call me" and give my google voice number.

OKC - I don't message women first, I just wait till something bites, but have literally had nothing but a few fatties here n there.

[Remington]

Well that's why you're not being successful on OKC. Since women can be messaged without matching, they are going to weed out people much easier.

When you reply with the "call me" message, women aren't going to want to do that because most of them lack actual telephone conversation skills. They only want to text.

I'll message women on OKC until I feel like I've built up enough of a connection to where getting their phone numbers in their mind is the rational next step.

Then that's when I set the date.

The rapport building can take place over a couple messages or 20. The only time I message women on OKC is if I'm sitting on my toilet or bored on my couch. If you put in a minimal effort, you should see results.

But, at least Bumble and that app I've never heard of is working. How's your conversion rate?

[eradicator]

I don't really bother with their phone number. I just talk to them a bit, try to get like 5 or 10 conversations going on at once and ask all of them out at once and a couple of them usually say yes. I think Sunday is still the best night to do this.

I don't bother with the screening them on the phone. They are all dtf or they would not even be on there in the first place, that is the point. I try to run the first date bang recipe, or at a minimum get them to a second location and get a makeout, assuming that they are passing the boner test. This is in New York. Last year I was still in Los Angeles, I had to work a thousand times harder it seemed to just get any sort of response, same pix and profile.

Some of them give the phone number without asking, some don't and still show up and bang. Do day game and approach like crazy. Its fine to get bangs on okc or wherever but I sure as hell wouldn't want to rely on it, a LOT of these girls are heavier in real life and just use old photos. When that happens, just walk away when you meet them, you don't owe them anything, especially when they lied about something as important as their weight.