[JayTx]

Ok guys first off I'm no expert I'll leave that to others with more experience with women.
For you young guys live and be free. Don't let a women drag you into a relationship in your college years or even in your 30's or hell into yours 40's if you don't want it. There will be plenty of time after you've established yourself for all of that. If you do find yourself in a relationship and wish to be in a long term relationship, my opinion is go head and make sure she has no issue sharing you with other women! Screwing the same women long enough gets old.... I know some guys are thinking, "no shit", but we need to remember some younger guys are still trying to figure all this out.

[simonafc]

no offence, but thats kind of like ranting.

alot of people can figure it out for themselves, they have to really go through it to understand.
this is just based on experience, you have to make the girls understand you have options for them to let you see other woman.

cheers.

[JayTx]

Nah this wasn't a rant just something for guys to think about before deciding to stick with one woman for a while. Might be useless to a lot of folks but maybe not for a few. Guess I could have picked a better thread title.

[simonafc]

(04-30-2014 04:52 PM)JayTx Wrote:  

Nah this wasn't a rant just something for guys to think about before deciding to stick with one woman for a while. Might be useless to a lot of folks but maybe not for a few. Guess I could have picked a better thread title.

i agree its something to think about. But its better for people to feel the emotion, so they know how to handle it next time.

People learn best from experiance or else they question it.

i do agree that it is a good topic to consider, but nobody really listens if they dont understand it from a diffrent viewpoint.

[Walderschmidt]

Some basics from me, of the top of my head.

1) Figure out what you really want - go for it. If you really want a relationship, go for it. Just don't say some of us haven't warned you.

2) If you want get bitches - approach, approach, approach. You miss every shot you don't take. Even if step up to a girl and say something retarded, you're still ahead of 90% of the rest of guys because they don't say shit. Again, if you don't step to the plate, you'll never get to bat.

3) Don't do dinner dates. Don't do dates. Do something you want to do and invite her along. I love to go Kayaking and ice skating. If I don't like the girl then I have fun anyways because I do something I want to do.

4) Don't apologize or say sorry. I'm serious. If you fuck up, take responsibility if you must and then its case closed.

5) If a girl is comfortable enough to be in a room alone with you, with no one watching, she's probably okay with kissing/sleeping with you. Go for it.

Wald

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[funkyzeit]

Just don't go bitter, or if you are in your bitter phase try to get to the I-don't-care phase.

the more women you meet, the more you get relaxed around them. You see they are human, you stop pedestalizing them, you stop caring about or being affected by their shit, you get them into bed. It may look like you're going to become a cold shell of a man but you won't, you'll just learn to enjoy your life on your terms and be above more people in most ways.