[Blackliter]

Well after the horrible experience last night I approached 2 girls in day game today and had success!

Approach 1
Talked with a chinese girl 5.5 for over an hour while waiting for office hours. I made small talk at first when there were 2 girls and they were friends. Then after the first one left, went at it. She was eager to give the number, but I didn't have a playerish or sexual vibe. Was more classmate-ish and could take her out.

Approach 2
Cute latina, 7.5. I get an IOI...well gotta do it now.
Me: "Hey are you graduating?" (she was dressed up)
Her: No haha, my friend is
Me: Oh nice. pause...What year are you?
Her: Junior!
conversation ends...I'm walking away to my car parked few feet away.

I'm out of gas...I go direct.
Me: Hey I think you're cute and I'd like to take you on a date. Put your number in me phone.
Her: Okay? (does it, I was kinda hesitant after she said it that way. I know...not supposed to need validation)
Me: Here I'll text you my name
Me: When are you leaving town?
Her: Right now actually... getting picked up
Me: Haha, I'll see you in the Fall then! (I walk)
after a bit
Her: I got it! (my name text)

Couple things
This was exact dialogue...would you change anything?

Also, I uh got a boner approaching the 2nd girl right after I switched to going direct and I was wearing gym shorts. How often does that happen to you guys? And is it bad/good if she notices? she didn't notice because i stood angled and hid with jacket a bit but im sure itll happen again

On that note, what if you get a boner when kissing and grinding on a girl? I feel like that'd happen to me. How do I play it off?

The whole don't think about it, or think of something disgusting doesn't work for me, btw.

[Travesty]

You should keep this all in your 100 approach thread.

Getting a boner with a girl when dancing and making out is great don't hide it. In fact put her hand on your boner if you get the chance.

I'd say approach 1 talking for an hour is too much unless you bounce for an instant date to cofee or a bar or one of your places. I'd say 30 min. max and either idate or cut it off and leave.

Second approach good job, running outta gas is just down to experience. Coulda talked about how she is gonna party to celebrate her friend's graduation maybe you could weasel your way to see her then or after she gets buzzed.

It is a great sign you were thinking sexually with #2. You are going in the right direction.

[kaotic]

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Also, I uh got a boner approaching the 2nd girl right after I switched to going direct and I was wearing gym shorts. How often does that happen to you guys? And is it bad/good if she notices? she didn't notice because i stood angled and hid with jacket a bit but im sure itll happen again

On that note, what if you get a boner when kissing and grinding on a girl? I feel like that'd happen to me. How do I play it off?

The whole don't think about it, or think of something disgusting doesn't work for me, btw.

If you're already making out with a girl and grinding on her then get a boner, you damn well better be moving her hand to handle that thing for you. EDIT:--DAMMIT TRAVESTY BEAT ME TO IT--The attraction is already there, the worse she'll do is move her hand back to your waist or face kissing you. Remember cool-calm-collective. Deep breaths if you start freaking out. Trust me - I was wild as shit when I got my first kiss and laid for the first time.

[Blackliter]

Gotcha, couldn't leave on approach 1..we were waiting for 2 hours in the same corridor... and couldn't really dip since it was the last day and had to see professor.

For boner, what about when doing an approach...or very early on? and how do I play it then specifically?

Edit: Yea meant semis...not full on.

OH and forgot.
I tried thinking sexually last night but I would lose track of what the girl was saying..this happened multiple times. I went off into dream mode once too haha and she was dumbfounded..don't think it came off sexually though then.

[Travesty]

During the day yeah hide it. I've gotten semis but not full on in day game so I don't have experience.

It could be tough at first to think sexually, soon enough it should sink into your subconcious. You need to train yourself to feel sexual and view girls as sexual when speaking to them.

The most productive first dates I've had is where I visualize how great it would be to bang them anyway I want then make that vision a reality. Self fulfilling prophecy.

You become confident, somewhat cocky, your excitement comes through in a stronger deeper presence the girls feel this.