[heartlessthrob]

A chicc who has guys in line to call her? Anyway to stop this and break her down into a little biitch. Lol sounds wrong but w/e

[thegmanifesto]

This is a negative pursuit.

Do things that are positive.

Thank me later.

[Veloce]

(01-30-2011 07:22 PM)heartlessthrob Wrote:  

A chicc who has guys in line to call her? Anyway to stop this and break her down into a little biitch. Lol sounds wrong but w/e

My last exclusive girlfriend had a long line after her (very good looking girl, half Colombian, half Costa Rican) when we first started seeing each other. I had to jump through hoops and practice the utmost restraint and discipline in attracting her, but I eventually got her to pursue an exclusive relationship with me. She made a horrible girlfriend because she's lived a life being the center of attention and never having to reciprocate or initiate anything. I dumped her and she cried. That's about it, nothing gratifying there.

There's nothing glamorous about the scenario you're describing. Girls that get a lot of attention are typically shitty in a relationship, and if you just wind up banging her and trying to "break her down into a little bitch" she'll just drop you and move onto the next suitor who won't do the same. At the end of the day, putting effort into something so mean-spirited and bitter will only hurt you and your dating karma

[BostonBMW]

Definitely don't play into that cycle of nonsense, keep yourself fresh by talking to girls that will actually vibe with you.

[King Solomon]

I disagree that its a negative pursuit. It can be fun and intriguing to get inside a chick's head. However, Thedude3737 does have a point. I have dated chicks like that. It's like trying to catch a minnow sometimes... they are right there, but slippery as shit and impossible to actually catch.

I think the problem is that if you really did break her down and own her, heart and soul... it would be fucked up for you to just turn around and laugh and drop her ass. If you tame her, will you keep her? Otherwise it is almost surely a harmful thing to do.

Is there any way to do that and leave her better off than when you found her?

Breaking down that chick would require a lot of head games, which, like I said, can be fascinating... but if it's a hoax you are running, skip it. Do not own her, if you know you will be a poor owner.

[Parlay44]

Breaking her down is not a one tine time. It's a constant process. Just when you think you have her figured out she'll change it up.
You have to constantly be on your toes to keep her in line and satisfied. It's just too much work. Your time and spirit are better spent
on women who actually want to be with you instead of women who need you to entertain them.

Sad thing about girls like this is that they usually end up alone. The wine bars are full of 40 somethings like them.

[joehoya]

Too much fucking effort for too little reward. At the end of the day (unless we are talking about this chick) she only has one pussy. Why go through that much effort and negativity for one piece of tail?

Doing that is operating from a position of scarcity. "She is the only/the hottest girl around, so I have to do whatever it takes to nail her." When you realize that there is an abundance of women to fuck, wasting extra effort going negative on the bitchy ones seems pointless. You just "next" her and move on. Remember, your time is the most valuable thing you have. Don't spend it foolishly.

[King Solomon]

It's not just about the 'piece of tail', all the time. Sometimes its fun to mess with their heads.

Fun for them, too, depending on how its done.

And it's not that hard at all. And really, if the challenge of bedding her is a little more intricate or tricky, it can make the payoff of success even sweeter. Shooting fish in a barrel is fun, but sometimes, hunting elk with a bow and arrow can be fun too.

Harder, yes. Lame? no...

See, it's not the having, its the getting. The hunt is every bit of fun that the actual sex is.

The tougher the hunt, the more grand the trophy.

[scorpio]

(04-05-2012 10:23 AM)King Solomon Wrote:  

I think the problem is that if you really did break her down and own her, heart and soul... it would be fucked up for you to just turn around and laugh and drop her ass. If you tame her, will you keep her? Otherwise it is almost surely a harmful thing to do.

This is good stuff.

I'd rather not do this, but I feel like that's just the hand I'm dealt.

[Giovonny]

(04-05-2012 10:23 AM)King Solomon Wrote:  

It can be fun and intriguing to get inside a chick's head.

I enjoy the challenge of trying to breakdown a chick psychologically. Especially, a chick who thinks she is special or smart. I like to expose her little weaknesses and make her feel like I am the only one who knows about it. Its our little secret. This is a great way to build some trust and also make myself the dominant one the relationship.

(04-05-2012 01:32 PM)King Solomon Wrote:  

Sometimes its fun for them, too, depending on how its done.

Yes. They enjoy learning about themselves and exploring their own weaknesses. We all do. It makes them feel vulnerable and its also a learning experience for them. It can be a little scary too, which is why it can be fun.

If you challenge them, correct them, and discipline them, they start to think of you as their "daddy". Then, her body is yours.

[King Solomon]

(04-05-2012 01:54 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-05-2012 10:23 AM)King Solomon Wrote:  

It can be fun and intriguing to get inside a chick's head.

I enjoy the challenge of trying to breakdown a chick psychologically. Especially, a chick who thinks she is special or smart. I like to expose her little weaknesses and make her feel like I am the only one who knows about it. Its our little secret. This is a great way to build some trust and also make myself the dominant one the relationship.

(04-05-2012 01:32 PM)King Solomon Wrote:  

Sometimes its fun for them, too, depending on how its done.

Yes. They enjoy learning about themselves and exploring their own weaknesses. We all do. It makes them feel vulnerable and its also a learning experience for them. It can be a little scary too, which is why it can be fun.

If you challenge them, correct them, and discipline them, they start to think of you as their "daddy". Then, her body is yours.

I can see we're gonna be friends.

That is very much the heart of my game.

[Giovonny]

For me, its basically a form of "daddy game".

You are a bad little girl. Everyone kisses your ass and tells you how special you are. I don't see you like that. I see your darkside. I will correct you when you need correcting and I will discipline you when you need disiplining. No one knows this except us. Everyone else can pretend that you are special, but you and I know the truth. You are a weak, insecure, little slut who needs guidance.

Something like that. I find her weakness and then I game her from there.

Roosh recently linked this post to his twitter. Its sort of related to "finding her fault"...

http://donlak.wordpress.com/2012/03/28/find-a-fault/

[Parlay44]

(04-05-2012 03:08 PM)King Solomon Wrote:  

(04-05-2012 01:54 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-05-2012 10:23 AM)King Solomon Wrote:  

It can be fun and intriguing to get inside a chick's head.

I enjoy the challenge of trying to breakdown a chick psychologically. Especially, a chick who thinks she is special or smart. I like to expose her little weaknesses and make her feel like I am the only one who knows about it. Its our little secret. This is a great way to build some trust and also make myself the dominant one the relationship.

(04-05-2012 01:32 PM)King Solomon Wrote:  

Sometimes its fun for them, too, depending on how its done.

Yes. They enjoy learning about themselves and exploring their own weaknesses. We all do. It makes them feel vulnerable and its also a learning experience for them. It can be a little scary too, which is why it can be fun.

If you challenge them, correct them, and discipline them, they start to think of you as their "daddy". Then, her body is yours.

I can see we're gonna be friends.

That is very much the heart of my game.

It's kind of like playing poker. Here's a quote from the movie Rounders that is very fitting.

Quote:

The rule is this: you spot a man's tell, you don't say a fucking word.

Once you have them figured out you don't tell them. You use that knowledge to your advantage.

[Stoic]

(04-05-2012 03:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

For me, its basically a form of "daddy game".

You are a bad little girl. Everyone kisses your ass and tells you how special you are. I don't see you like that. I see your darkside. I will correct you when you need correcting and I will discipline you when you need disiplining. No one knows this except us. Everyone else can pretend that you are special, but you and I know the truth. You are a weak, insecure, little slut who needs guidance.

Man, that's solid stuff. I can see myself saying this to a little 'tough' girl with the most deadpan expression on my face and her melting with every word. I gotta use this.

[Sushifan]

Why? What's wrong with a girl who is a slut? We love sluts!

Enough of the dweeby beta chimps who are mad that so many girls slut it up for the alphas.

[theIVth]

(01-30-2011 08:47 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

(01-30-2011 07:22 PM)heartlessthrob Wrote:  

A chicc who has guys in line to call her? Anyway to stop this and break her down into a little biitch. Lol sounds wrong but w/e

My last exclusive girlfriend had a long line after her (very good looking girl, half Colombian, half Costa Rican) when we first started seeing each other. I had to jump through hoops and practice the utmost restraint and discipline in attracting her, but I eventually got her to pursue an exclusive relationship with me. She made a horrible girlfriend because she's lived a life being the center of attention and never having to reciprocate or initiate anything. I dumped her and she cried. That's about it, nothing gratifying there.

There's nothing glamorous about the scenario you're describing. Girls that get a lot of attention are typically shitty in a relationship, and if you just wind up banging her and trying to "break her down into a little bitch" she'll just drop you and move onto the next suitor who won't do the same. At the end of the day, putting effort into something so mean-spirited and bitter will only hurt you and your dating karma

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