Situation:
I'm working as a casino dealer and occasionally a model in Thailand. I'm in BKK area. Usually during the events I'm teaching them how to play casino games (not for the real money). After my working hours I'm often invited to parties.
My boss is a thai gay. The guy is intelligent, rich and he's hitting on me.
He sees that I'm drawing girls attention and knows that I have a girlfriend. Sometimes he'd approach a group of girls I'm talking with, and he'd compliment how handsome/nice/smart I am. Like my best wingman!
While talking with me, he's "innocently" touching my arm etc. That would be no big deal except it happened many times. I feel like he's practicing escalation ladder on me.
First time, I reacted with stone face/no emotion attitude and phrase:
"You're touching me all the time."
He said:
"Of course, that's my job, and you as a model have to get used to people touching you all the time."
Problem:
How to deal with his guy? He's my boss, I can't cross the line of being rude.
I'm working as a casino dealer and occasionally a model in Thailand. I'm in BKK area. Usually during the events I'm teaching them how to play casino games (not for the real money). After my working hours I'm often invited to parties.
My boss is a thai gay. The guy is intelligent, rich and he's hitting on me.
He sees that I'm drawing girls attention and knows that I have a girlfriend. Sometimes he'd approach a group of girls I'm talking with, and he'd compliment how handsome/nice/smart I am. Like my best wingman!
While talking with me, he's "innocently" touching my arm etc. That would be no big deal except it happened many times. I feel like he's practicing escalation ladder on me.
First time, I reacted with stone face/no emotion attitude and phrase:
"You're touching me all the time."
He said:
"Of course, that's my job, and you as a model have to get used to people touching you all the time."
Problem:
How to deal with his guy? He's my boss, I can't cross the line of being rude.