There have been a fair few threads which already touched on this issue of flakiness and how it is absolutely unavoidable with young, attractive females.
Obviously being a blatant sign of disrespect, any girl that flakes on me more than twice I don't talk to again.
Previously I went cold, off-the radar and ignored any contact she would try to initiate. However, I'm getting over all this passive-aggressive bullshit, and wondered whether directly telling women WHY you will not see them would possibly change their behaviour, or at least reflect on why they blew their chance to be with you.
I don't give a fuck about said girl, BUT if it would help any future players out, I'd definitely consider letting her know straight-up.
Something along the lines of "Hey X you're a great girl, but I've got to be honest with you. I can't be with someone who doesn't keep their word and is flakey. It's a massive sign of disrespect. Take care."
What are your thoughts?
Obviously being a blatant sign of disrespect, any girl that flakes on me more than twice I don't talk to again.
Previously I went cold, off-the radar and ignored any contact she would try to initiate. However, I'm getting over all this passive-aggressive bullshit, and wondered whether directly telling women WHY you will not see them would possibly change their behaviour, or at least reflect on why they blew their chance to be with you.
I don't give a fuck about said girl, BUT if it would help any future players out, I'd definitely consider letting her know straight-up.
Something along the lines of "Hey X you're a great girl, but I've got to be honest with you. I can't be with someone who doesn't keep their word and is flakey. It's a massive sign of disrespect. Take care."
What are your thoughts?
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