[edtf]

My girlfriend lives in the same dorm as me, 2 halls down. Today a very cute latina girl moved into the room right next to mine, and of course I go introduce myself. She offers her number and says that we should grab dinner sometime. Is it worth proceeding?

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Rest assured that, if you get found out, it won't be because your girlfriend saw you fucking the latina, but because the latina told her about it herself. Women love drama.

In other words, it's more a question whether you are cool with risking your current gf getting mad and leaving when she finds out than the question of technique how to hide it.

[Seth_Rose]

Can you break your situation down further?

1.) Did you choose to live in the same dorm as your gf, or did you start dating after you moved there?

2.) What' wrong with your gf? Why are you cheating on here and not just breaking up with her? Not trying to guilt trip you, it's an important question to ask yourself.

3.) All colleges in the US should be wrapping up the academic year within a month. Can you hold out that long and keep it on the DL?

[Rutting Elephant]

Dorms are dens of cockblocking and unnecessary drama.

[kinjutsu]

Also know if your gf does find out she will fuck a bunch of other dudes quickly and with great pride.
She will cause as much damage as possible to you if she finds out you cheated on her.

[Skye]

And this ^^^^ goes even for a "good girl" type because even if she doesn't want to just out and fuck other guys vindictively she will most likely have guy friends who, like vultures, are circling overhead waiting for their moment.

[kaotic]

Don't nut in the same hut.

Save yourself the drama look elsewhere. You're just waiting for a shitstorm to happen.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

I had a g/f during my early years in college. And although my situation doesn't fit yours because my g/f was living back in my town, I'll tell you what I did.

I waited to make my move until the very last night in the dorms with a girl who was flirting with me -- just before we all had to ship out the next day. That way, I figured, there could be no blowback, like the Dorm Girl insisting I break up with my g/f, or me having to be on the phone w/Girl #1 when Girl #2 was in my dorm room.

It worked. We messed around like I wanted, and everyone went home the next day. Girl #1 never found out and since she ended up dumping me bigtime a few years later, I harbor no guilt.

So my advice is if you want to cheat, wait until the very last second to do this. (And in your case, you'll have to make sure your girl is not in the vicinity.)

******

As an addendum, I want to explain how I made my move on Dorm Girl, because I think people can learn from it (hell, I'm surprised I was this smart at 18).

We were at a party and she was touching her bra in the back complaining about her bra not fitting right. She was really endowed, and this was her way of playing up her sexuality without directly doing it (a form of humblebragging).

I said something like "My god, that bra strap is like a foot wide, is that for real?" And reached to touch it (which she let me). I somehow unsnapped it. She said "You bastard" (or something) looked me in the eye and we were making out two seconds later.

The takeaway from this (as Roissy has said) is when women reference sex, they're usually down to mess around with you. Too many guys go Beta or White Knight, but you have to seize the moment. Women going on and on about their bra and touching it in front of you is a signal.

[edtf]

(04-21-2014 10:17 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Rest assured that, if you get found out, it won't be because your girlfriend saw you fucking the latina, but because the latina told her about it herself. Women love drama.

In other words, it's more a question whether you are cool with risking your current gf getting mad and leaving when she finds out than the question of technique how to hide it.

The thing is that its a dorm for international students and I am studying abroad, and GF doesn't speak any english, so its pretty impossible for them to communicate with each other. What i'm worried is because she randomly pops into my room from time to time to hang out and latina lives in the room right next to me so one day she or one of her friends is going to see me come out of that room and ask whats going on

[edtf]

(04-21-2014 10:37 AM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

Can you break your situation down further?

1.) Did you choose to live in the same dorm as your gf, or did you start dating after you moved there?

2.) What' wrong with your gf? Why are you cheating on here and not just breaking up with her? Not trying to guilt trip you, it's an important question to ask yourself.

3.) All colleges in the US should be wrapping up the academic year within a month. Can you hold out that long and keep it on the DL?

Hi seth,

1. I started to date her after I moved in, she came onto me with all the IOIs and I was like "fuck it, just do it"

2. She's very cute and takes good care of me, very traditional and good girl, but she doesn't really like sex, so I only get it about once or twice a week. If it weren't for that I wouldn't do it.

3. I'm leaving the country I am studying in in about a month, but most likely latina girl will go cold if I wait that long. I'm thinking that the logistics are way too fucked up for this.

[AneroidOcean]

(04-21-2014 08:55 PM)edtf Wrote:  

2. She's very cute and takes good care of me, very traditional and good girl, but she doesn't really like sex, so I only get it about once or twice a week. If it weren't for that I wouldn't do it.

3. I'm leaving the country I am studying in in about a month, but most likely latina girl will go cold if I wait that long. I'm thinking that the logistics are way too fucked up for this.

You need to talk to your gf. If she doesn't really like sex at your age in a dorm room, this is destined for failure. I'd at minimum put her on notice, but it doesn't seem like there's any future. Might as well have fun with the latina unless your gf suddenly decides to do an about face on the sex thing.

I'm not advising to shit where you eat, but maybe you shouldn't be with your gf.

[edtf]

(04-21-2014 11:27 AM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  

Dorms are dens of cockblocking and unnecessary drama.

I agree. After reading about the red pill, I have a new perception on social interactions and can see things for what they really are. Everything I've experienced so far has been talked about before on the forum.
My girl is very pretty and now I can see how many beta orbiters she has in the dorm as well as in class, that she sees as "just friends". I also realized how many of these betas started hating on me after they found out that I was dating her.

One dude asked to visit my room, and told me that he liked her for a very long time, and that I've only been here for about 2 weeks, and therefore should yield the girl to him. WTF?? Its his own lack of ballsiness, his own unwillingness to ask her out for drinks one-on-one that made him like this.

She told me of a guy in her class that chatted with her every day for about a month, and finally asked her out to dinner. During dinner, she brought along two friends without letting him know, and he paid for dinner for the two friends too. On her birthday he made a home-made meal for her and gave it to her in class. "Oh, he is such a good friend!", she says.

I shudder, because the old blue-pill me probably might have yielded to the first guy, because I would think "Oh, he's been here first, if I barge in its a dick move". The old blue-pill me would have done the same thing as the second dude, or not even approached at all because i'm only going to be here for a few months and its not worth a serious relationship, bla bla bla.

The old formula advocated on the forum has proved itself once again for me.
1. number
2. drinks
3. escalate
4. head back to my place

[OMYG]

As many others have said:
"Don't shit where you eat."

But if you're willing to take the risk always expect the worst case scenario and be prepared fot it.