Quote: (10-28-2014 03:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
Thanks Gio,
Interesting, you seem to be more colorful in your texts. Use their name and question marks.
I like to use their name, I think it helps to personalize things.
Question marks? I've never heard anyone recommend not using them! I seriously doubt that using or not using question marks will be the deciding factor in whether or not a girls has sex with you. What you say before the question mark is what matters!
Quote: (10-28-2014 03:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
Kind of goes against' the other school of thought that says use as few words as possible, be ultra aloof in texts
I don't believe in any "school of thought".
I believe that Game is alive. Its morphs and evolves continuously due to societal and cultural pressures. What didn't work today may work tomorrow.
It's important that we don't limit ourselves with strict rules. The only rule is do what works.
The female will often lead herself into the bedroom. She will make herself available to us in certain ways, we just have to read her cues and "lead" her accordingly. We can also observe emotional pathways that she seems to be respond to. If texting allows us access to a girls heart and mind, we would be foolish not to pursue that opportunity.
Texting is now an emotional medium.
I used to avoid text conversations. Now, that concept seems boring. If she is opening up to me over text, why would I stop that momentum? I will take that momentum as far as I can and while I'm doing it, in the back of my mind, I am always guiding the interaction towards a physical meet up.
There are no rules.
The only rule is use whatever tool will get the job done!
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-24502-...#pid756380
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Your text game is a reflection of your personality.
If your text game is dry and boring, she will often assume that your personality is dry and boring.
If you are pushy, aggressive, and lacking in social awareness, she will often assume that your personality is pushy, aggressive, and lacking in social awareness.
Trying to set up a date before establishing a certain degree of comfort and rapport shows a lack of social awareness.
Just because a girl gives you her number does not mean that she is ready to go on a date with you. You first have to display a bit a value to her by making her laugh, texting her something interesting, teaching her something, engaging her emotions, etc. Doing this lets her know that you have some value to offer and it also builds comfort and rapport.
I recommend that guys have at least one text dialogue with a girl after getting her number and
BEFORE trying to set up the logistics for a date.
Don't ask for a date before building a bit of comfort!
Simply getting a girls number does not establish enough comfort.
Setting up logistics is logical. Vaginas do not often operate on logic, they operate on emotions and feelings.. Thus, building comfort and establishing an emotional connection is essential to setting the date. Without comfort and some sort of emotional bond, it's hard to get a date.
Don't be in a rush to set the date, be in a rush to make her laugh and tickle her emotions. Once you've done that, setting the date will be much easier.
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It was 2007 (I think) when Roosh wrote--
"texting should be used for logistics only".
I believe that times had changed since then. Texting has literally replaced talking, in many cases. Texting and all other forms of electronic communication have become more personal and emotionally expressive.. If we are boring over social media and text, people will assume that we are boring in person.
I think it is to our advantage try and have an entertaining, fun, emotionally engaging text chat
before trying to set a date.
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This thread was started by Roosh last year:
Quote: (06-03-2013 01:13 PM)Roosh Wrote:
You already know mine. I keep it simple and mostly about logistics. No jokes, stories, and sparing use of smiley faces.
I'm curious what you guys do.
It seems that he was exploring other strategies.
I believe that text game has evolved. it's now necessary and helpful to use text for more than just logistical set up. Send pictures, video, memes, etc. Anything that will help you create rapport with the girl.
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-24502-...#pid854011