[conservative]

I have recently moved from home to a touristic place which has lots of potential. I rented a nice, furnished apartment in a nice place. I have enough money and was working hard and my plan was to take some time and play game and get some ass to bed.

Now the problem, 5 days after moving in I lost all my sexual drive. I used to masturbate almost daily and watch hot movies but now has no sexual drive, no longer feel the need to masturbate or look at women. This made my urge to start any discussion with any women to an all time low.

Any ideas? Is this a transitional thing?

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Could be jet lag?

[conservative]

(04-14-2014 11:57 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Could be jet lag?

Don't think so. I moved with car. And I did lots of Jet Lags and they didn't affect my sex drive. (The airport drives your sex drive high, or so was my experience).

[berserk]

When was the last time you got laid?

I've had periods where I thought my sex drive had declined, but as soon as I got a lay, I had an instant spike in sex drive. Success begets success. It is possible to live without sex and if you have other concerns in your life, moving is definitely stressful, or you are slightly depressed, then I think libido can shut down somewhat. When and if I get to that point, I know that I have spending too much time in my head and go out and force a bang even with a less attractive girl. It's a kind of jump start and then I am usually wired up afterwards to get into a good rythm.

[Texas_Tryhard]

You need to start working out man. Hit the gym hard, don't beat off no matter whay, get a decent amount of sleep.

Place yourself in areas with hot women. Beaches, etc.

Your testosterone WILL shoot up. And you'll be back on track.

[Travesty]

You may be putting too much pressure on yourself to have great success off the bat in this nice new environment.

I'd go out and bang an easy 6 whether you want to or not to get the party started if crushing ass is your true goal.

[Giovonny]

Your body, mind, and cock are adjusting to the new enviroment.

If you don"t want girls, forget about them. Focus on yourself

Do what this guy says:

(04-15-2014 04:24 PM)Texas_Tryhard Wrote:  

You need to start working out man. Hit the gym hard, don't beat off no matter whay, get a decent amount of sleep.

Place yourself in areas with hot women. Beaches, etc.

Your testosterone WILL shoot up. And you'll be back on track.

I really like his suggestions to workout a lot, don't touch yourself, and sleep well.

Take care of yourself -- Set up your new apartment, find the cool places to eat and shop in your neighborhood, get yur wardrobe together, get your finances together, etc.

Dress well, when you least expect it, you will see a beautiful, sexy girl and the fire in your ass will light up!

[iknowexactly]

In my experience any stress significantly above your baseline will reduce your sex drive.

When stress gets beyond a certain level there's a "vicious cycle"-- for instance in my life when I'm too tired to exercise, that lack makes everything even worse. Enough sleep is even more important than exercise for me I believe.

As the old guy around here I noticed this very clearly several times in life. Even around 40, when I was working my way through grad school ( both classes as well as a graveyard shift job), when basically every waking hour of my week was either work or study I saw my sex drive drop to almost zero.

Now in my late fifties, it's kind of low UNLESS everything is pretty stable--money, available 6+ girl, stay in one place at least a few weeks, good climate, no bureaucratic problems...

Here's a "stress ladder" listing with a something like a well publicized hierarchy of stressors,
I don't know it's the original research list but seems somewhat close.

http://www.stresstips.com/lifeevents.htm

[Captain Gh]

(04-15-2014 06:25 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Your body, mind, and cock are adjusting to the new enviroment.

If you don"t want girls, forget about them. Focus on yourself

Do what this guy says:

(04-15-2014 04:24 PM)Texas_Tryhard Wrote:  

You need to start working out man. Hit the gym hard, don't beat off no matter whay, get a decent amount of sleep.

Place yourself in areas with hot women. Beaches, etc.

Your testosterone WILL shoot up. And you'll be back on track.

I really like his suggestions to workout a lot, don't touch yourself, and sleep well.

Take care of yourself -- Set up your new apartment, find the cool places to eat and shop in your neighborhood, get yur wardrobe together, get your finances together, etc.

Dress well, when you least expect it, you will see a beautiful, sexy girl and the fire in your ass will light up!

Yeah both these guys have the right solution: focus on yourself!! Also take this time to focus on your inner game since you'll be in a new environment. Your mind need to be prepared for possible failures before the eventual success.

[funkyzeit]

It's stress brah. Get some physical activity and start planning everything, moving can be chaotic if you haven't prepared properly.

[Bilboswaggins]

Maybe you're still at your old home in your mind, especially if you had great friends and family back there. Feeling isolated and alone,

perhaps? Whatever the case, working out, eating healthy foods and following the nofap protocol are the cornerstones of any players

lifestyle. Going out and meeting new people despite the drive is also necessary, sometimes the people around you will kick you into the

right mood, not the other way around.

[conservative]

hey guys, sorry for the late answer. There is some truth in every answer here. I think I was too stressed and had high expectations of the place. I moved in a rush (decision made in a couple days), so I think I was adjusting. Today, I think I got back to normal again seeking woman, sex, fap...

But from the financial side, I think I made lots of math wrong about the true costs of living alone (and moving in a hurry). I'll be going to an event this week to seek pussy. I'll be doing that weekly, but will not do any other game since I need to focus much more on the $$$ to adjust for the new situation.

Sure anything that comes by hazard on my way will be taken.

[conservative]

(04-15-2014 06:10 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

You may be putting too much pressure on yourself to have great success off the bat in this nice new environment.

I'd go out and bang an easy 6 whether you want to or not to get the party started if crushing ass is your true goal.

True. I got two 6s approaching me on the car easy but I denied. I'm not sure why I'm holding high standards for myself even I'm not a player.

I think I'll force myself the next time and accept 6+.

[bike0369]

Also, lack of sleep = low sex drive

[Cobra]

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