I've had inklings about how schools are giving students the exact wrong message, but now I have confirmation. Below is an article about a group in Canada called the WiseGuyz and their method of teaching ninth-grade boys about sex. They send some hipsters to the classroom to deliver lessons about anatomy and diseases that are accompanied by sermons about gender identity, gay acceptance, and the new idea of masculinity.
The Talk
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I'm fortunate enough that the propaganda about sex that I was exposed to in high school didn't rise to this level. At worst, I was told I needed to respect girls. The kids who've gone through a class by the WiseGuyz will need a deprogrammer to rid them of these awful ideas that will turn them into pussies.
The Talk
This is just a sample:
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Then he unfolds himself from his chair and sketches a picture on a whiteboard at the front of the room: a figure shaped like a gingerbread man, with a smiley face, a heart, and a starburst at the crotch.
Abbott points to the head and explains that gender identity lies there (whether you define yourself as a man, a woman, or somewhere in between); the heart represents orientation (whom you’re attracted to); the starburst connotes sex (your physical characteristics); and the outline, the external shape, stands for gender expression (how you dress, talk, walk, and so on). These various aspects don’t line up the same way for everyone, he says.
A few boys nod, but the rest look baffled. Stafford Perry, another facilitator, speaks up. “It helps if you understand that for many people, gender is not just two possibilities but many,” he says. “Being a man or a woman exists on a scale, so it’s not either/or. You don’t have to be one or the other.”
A moment of silence as this sinks in.
I'm fortunate enough that the propaganda about sex that I was exposed to in high school didn't rise to this level. At worst, I was told I needed to respect girls. The kids who've gone through a class by the WiseGuyz will need a deprogrammer to rid them of these awful ideas that will turn them into pussies.