[zanetti]

Would be good to hear other people's experience on this

I've never gotten into a fight as a result of approaching girls but i know it does happen.

i know one commercial "pua" instructor was talking to a girl and then got smacked in the face by a pissed off boyfriend. this was in holland.

a cousin of mine got beaten up a while back by a group of guys outside of a club for hitting on one of their girls and had to spend time in hospital. this was in a rural town in germany.

anyone else? please also mention which country/city it took place and if it was one guy or more...

[playa_with_a_passport]

This is very common in NYC among short(5'7">) Black or Hispanic guetto folk who are with girls who are above their league. I never seen full down beat downs though. My favorite phrase in the club has always been "Who you here with?" The last thing I want is to get sucker punched and spill my Corona bottle.

[Tuthmosis]

An acquaintance (note I didn't say friend) of mine got cheap-shoted outside of an LA club trying to do a half-assed holler at chicks leaving the place. The guy punched first and asked questions second.

Having said that, I think most of these situations can be averted. You have to be down (and able) to fight, but you have to smart enough to know when to say, "no disrespect, man, I didn't know she was here with you," while keeping your alpha aura intact.

[speakeasy]

A simple, "my bad bro...didn't know she was taken" would diffuse a fight 9 times out of 10. Unless the dude was having a roid rage and just looking to get into a fight, I don't think it will come to blows if you simply apologize. Apologize in a confident way of course, not a frightened way. Most dudes aren't looking to get into fights, but talking to his girl in front of him and not apologizing for it is emasculating and disrespecting a another dude as a man WILL get you in a fight quick. If all else fails: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3K-mrlYG7Y

Also, don't start kino escalating on a girl until you're sure she's single. If her boyfriend comes out the bathroom and sees you with your hands on her, saying "my bad" might not work at that point.

[Giovonny]

On the flip side of this...

I have gotten laid as a result of getting into a fight!

Girls love to see men huff and puff and rip each others shirts off. I think it makes them wet if the guys are handsome.

I dont recommend this method, but you could try something like this.

get in great physical shape
go to a casual bar
stage a quick fight with a friend (its best if your friend is about to leave anyways)
throw a few punches and have your friend grab you and rip your shirt off
talk some shit as your friend walks out the back door
grab your drink with just your wife beater or no shirt on and just sit back down
if security comes over, tell them the guy went pyscho on you but play it off like no big deal
have an extra t shirt in the car in case they make you put one on
go back to partying
bring condoms
next time you switch and do it for your buddy

[rudebwoy]

Fighting is dumb period. How would you feel if someone hit you with a bottle and scarred your face, it would be GAME over. lol

I workout hard so that I DO NOT have to fight, to make the other person think twice about it.

In England it is common for people to get"bottled" at the pub during a fight.

[Johnny Orleans]

I've been in sooo many close calls. Sometimes I forget to peep the scene before I game and usually ends up in an argument. Dudes in my city for the most part are very possessive of their 6 because the quality out here is poo-poo.

[theIVth]

You just have to peep the scene and be aware. Thats why you cant just run up on every girl that you see because she might be there with her boyfriend or whatever. Try to get some eye contact or just survey a chick for a little while before you just run up on her.

If you've damn near gotten into fights because of approaching someones girl in a club, then your probably just a thirsty unaware and naive dude that probably deserved to be put in your place.

as an aside tho: dont make it a habit to take your girl with you to the club and to the bar all the time where you know there will be a lot of guys looking to pull. its only a matter of time before somebody will end up hollering at your girl while you are there.

[Moma]

(01-20-2011 08:56 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Fighting is dumb period. How would you feel if someone hit you with a bottle and scarred your face, it would be GAME over. lol

I workout hard so that I DO NOT have to fight, to make the other person think twice about it.

In England it is common for people to get"bottled" at the pub during a fight.

Yea, I remember when I went up to Luton for the weekend to hang out with a bredrin's bredrin.
The bredrin's bredrin glassed one breh in a pub event cos he was trying to get brave with his missus.

English people can be very wicked and cruel even for the lack of the firearms they carry, they can compensate with a lot of jagged objects..Stanley knives, bottles or when all else fails..the trusty head butt to the nose bridge

[subutai]

I would very rarely, if ever, go to a club if I had a monogamous girlfriend.

What's the point?

To torture myself?

[Aliblahba]

Fighting over pussy you just met is a beta move. I've never met one worth fighting over anyway. If it wasn't for that thing between their legs they'd be chained up out back eating out of a hub cap like the rest of them.

[Moma]

(01-21-2011 12:53 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Fighting over pussy you just met is a beta move. I've never met one worth fighting over anyway. If it wasn't for that thing between their legs they'd be chained up out back eating out of a hub cap like the rest of them.

LMAOOOOO, dayummm!!!

[Moma]

(01-21-2011 11:16 AM)subutai Wrote:  

I would very rarely, if ever, go to a club if I had a monogamous girlfriend.

What's the point?

To torture myself?

I totally agree. I went to a club with a 'monogamous' girlfriend once..and it was torture. The women seem to be hotter and more flirtatious once you are hitched..

[Tuthmosis]

(01-21-2011 01:09 PM)Moma Wrote:  

I totally agree. I went to a club with a 'monogamous' girlfriend once..and it was torture. The women seem to be hotter and more flirtatious once you are hitched..

"Bringing sand to the beach," is a total amateur move that I never make. It's the reason that we get into beefs in the first place. The conflict is between gamers out to score some new action and amateurs that brought raw meat into a lion's den and then are surprised/outraged when the inevitable happens. It's part of the reason I avoid "hip" clubs and bars altogether.

[Duke Castile]

About a week ago I was at this club called Haze in Aria here in Vegas. I was at a table with some friends/girls wanting to "party" and rather than being escorted by the bouncer looking after us to the bathroom I just went myself. On the way back a girl approached me, I started chatting her up. Some dago comes up real fast and slaps my chest with his hand and says, "Hey bro she's spoken for", all while turning and smiling arrogantly at the girl. I grabbed him by the collar and yanked him to face me before open hand bitch slapping him across his punk ass face.

He just stood there in shock remembering how daddy used to treat him. A bouncer ran up and grabbed me yelling into his mike all out of breath. I actually had to tell him to calm down. All these other bouncers ran up to and I was calmly standing there when my guy at our table came and said "Let go of him he's coming with me".

I slapped a 20 in his hand and said my goodbyes (I kissed every girl at the table ) and made a hasty departure.

I can't take someone putting their hands on me.

[truedat]

Bringing a girl to a club happens. Sometime they want to dance and you want to have some fun, get them smashed etc. You have to train these bitches before you take them out though, especially if she is a 9+. Basically I let them know up front that last thing I would ever do is get into a fight over them unless someone just came up and punched/smacked them in the face. Make sure you sit her down and make the bitch look you in the eye when you do your training so she knows your serious.

The rule is this, If a guy is obviously hitting on her she need to tell them to fuck off in no uncertain terms (if they have a enough balls to come up on my girl they must be seriously drunk and dealt with bluntly). This way I can just stand there in amusement as she turns their alpha move into a beta tail between the legs with no risk to my body or integrity. Bitches need to know there is no way in hell you would ever fight over them, ever, and there is no way in hell you would ever allow her to turn you into some punk as bitch.

[bigbootyluvr]

(01-20-2011 08:47 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

On the flip side of this...

I have gotten laid as a result of getting into a fight!

Girls love to see men huff and puff and rip each others shirts off. I think it makes them wet if the guys are handsome.

I dont recommend this method, but you could try something like this.

get in great physical shape
go to a casual bar
stage a quick fight with a friend (its best if your friend is about to leave anyways)
throw a few punches and have your friend grab you and rip your shirt off
talk some shit as your friend walks out the back door
grab your drink with just your wife beater or no shirt on and just sit back down
if security comes over, tell them the guy went pyscho on you but play it off like no big deal
have an extra t shirt in the car in case they make you put one on
go back to partying
bring condoms
next time you switch and do it for your buddy

Quite possibly the dumbest shit i've ever read on the internet.

[FretDancer]

Well played Fisto. I wish pulling that off over here wouldn't be so dangerous, so many armed crazy people over here, its just better to stay out of trouble. Not worth dying for a girl like that.