[Incognito]

(03-24-2014 03:55 PM)True Killa Wrote:  

Like I said, she will be buying me food from now on as a consolation prize

Are you satisfied with this result? I don't want to insult you but you lost your dignity by accepting HER demands.

But then again, I am no superplayer so maybe what you did, was the right way. I just don't know, it doesn't feel good to accept a girl's demands.

[AneroidOcean]

(03-24-2014 03:55 PM)True Killa Wrote:  

Like I said, she will be buying me food from now on as a consolation prize

There you go, stock up on food, learn from your mistakes.

The guys telling you to kick her out or give her an ultimatum are pretty fucked up. You offered to host her for free. Fulfill your short obligation and learn from your really bad assumption. She hasn't done anything to deserve shaming or throwing her out on the street.

[True Killa]

It wasn't her demand, but I just hinted to her that she should be grateful and take care of my meals, and she did.

I don't know if it was an unreasonable assumption: Girl willing to travel to me by herself = willing to bang. It seems like an ingenuous idea at first to get her over, take her out for some fun, escalate, and bang. But for some reason with this particular girl I just can't get through with my escalation.

[AneroidOcean]

(03-26-2014 04:45 AM)True Killa Wrote:  

It wasn't her demand, but I just hinted to her that she should be grateful and take care of my meals, and she did.

I don't know if it was an unreasonable assumption: Girl willing to travel to me by herself = willing to bang. It seems like an ingenuous idea at first to get her over, take her out for some fun, escalate, and bang. But for some reason with this particular girl I just can't get through with my escalation.

You don't state ANYTHING about building attraction with her, flirting with her, or really much of anything prior to her arriving. You assume that she would likely be interested in a bang based on what? Your offer to host her?

Come on. MAJOR male hamster going on here. Note the sections I highlight in bold below:

(03-23-2014 07:44 AM)True Killa Wrote:  

Here's a full story. I met her online and invited over to visit me in the States and I promise her an offer to stay. She asked me what we were going to do and I told her that I got her trip planned out. She told me she just wants to visit the city I live in to get over losing her bf and shopping for her friends, I ignore it since I thought she's going to live with me and I can convert it into a bang.

Fast-forward, she's true to her words. What should I do with her?

Again, come on.

At this point in the thread you've already resolved it, but if you think "I don't know if it was an unreasonable assumption" after this whole thread, you're just deluding yourself and you're just going to get into the same situation again.

Learn from your mistakes or you will continue to repeat them.

[PoosyWrecker]

(03-24-2014 03:55 PM)True Killa Wrote:  

Like I said, she will be buying me food from now on as a consolation prize

If you need consolation you should go get a hooker.

[kaotic]

what....the....fuck man !

[Vacancier Permanent]

Have you had any success with this approach before?
Did you escalate and build rapport with her by video chatting, teasing her, building sexual tension etc?

[Parlay44]

I'd try to liquor her up. Fuck she's staying at your place and laying in your bed.

You met her online so you should have no problem telling her to get lost. Your time is valuable. It's not like you have any mutual friends so you don't owe her anything.

It's actually pretty ballsy for her to "friend" some guy online and expect a 4 day guided tour without some kind of reciprocity.

Go for broke then tell her to kick rocks.

[slotek]

This stuff happens anyone who said it hasn't happened is either one lying or two not pulling regularly. If she wasn't in a totally different country the kick out wouldn't be that bad an option , but don't listen to these guys saying get drunk name go full kino if you ain't even getting a cheap feel or kiss you definitely ain't fucking....

[RougeNoir]

This has happened to me a couple times with the same girl. I was able to take her on a date and then to my house twice with easy lines. I have to use the restroom or let's watch a movie were the moves respectively. The thing is she does not drink so there was no real way to loosen her up. She was frigid but came through to my place twice. I thought well this is going to be easy. Lo and behold, I couldn't even get a kiss even after hardcore caveman attempts, twice. It happens and it sucks. Next.

[JosephdeMaistre]

I second the fuck the shit out of another girl suggestion. Make this girl regret using you as a bed and breakfast.

[AneroidOcean]

(04-04-2014 06:13 PM)JosephdeMaistre Wrote:  

I second the fuck the shit out of another girl suggestion. Make this girl regret using you as a bed and breakfast.

No. Just, no. Guys, go out and find a girl to be your slut. Go out and find a wife. Go out and do whatever the fuck it is you desire.

Do NOT try to get "revenge" on a girl who TOLD you she just wanted to visit the area to shop for her friends and get out of town to get over her ex. Then, in person she reiterated the same thing, then offered to and DID (by all accounts of the OP) follow through on paying for OP's food as a thanks for him hosting her.

Focus on POSITIVE things that are going to IMPROVE your life. When you act like a butthurt LOSER you will BECOME a butthurt loser. By trying to get "revenge" on her, you are looking for instant gratification in a situation where YOU fucked up. Instead of trying to fuck her over, stop fucking yourself over and move FORWARDS, not BACKWARDS.

[Eddie Winslow]

(04-08-2014 08:39 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

Do NOT try to get "revenge" on a girl who TOLD you she just wanted to visit the area to shop for her friends and get out of town to get over her ex.

Thank you my man.

Anyone who is told this OP to be a dick to this girl, who did NOTHING wrong, should be straight up banned from this forum. If you donated to a charity, do you get pissed and demand your money back if they don't send someone to your house to blow you?

If you invite a vulnerable girl (unfamiliar to the area, broke, etc.) to visit you for free from another country out of the "kindness of your heart," and then get pissed if she doesn't happen to be a prostitute, that is YOUR fault. I assure you I am not a 'white knight' (the most abused term in the manosphere) - this is a matter of common human courtesy. If you want to get laid, get off the fucking internet and go approach these girls in real life. Goddammit.

Don't mean to be too harsh with the rant OP - I think you've learned your lesson, I obviously feel very strongly about this. This is more for anyone who is telling you to punish this chick in the slightest. I also understand the troll level is high, and none of these clowns would have the heart to kick a completely innocent girl to the curb like that if the push came to shove.

[casio]

Yeah, the whole revenge arc seems unnecessary.

She doesn't have an obligation to bang you - blame it on your bad game and the stupidity of promising stuff based on high expectations.

[Built to Fade]

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