[Mystik]

(02-04-2011 08:04 AM)americanInEurope Wrote:  

Seriously, go shopping and blend in. It'll get you laid.

Great advice and probably holds true for all high fashion cities such as Paris, Tokyo, Milan etc. The quality of the women you pull will go up considerable if you dress to or above the standards of the city.

[americanInEurope]

(02-06-2011 10:58 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

(02-05-2011 10:13 PM)americanInEurope Wrote:  

For sure, you would be very satisfied with an 8.5. But the greed sets in. At least it did with me. I'm like, how can this dorky nerdy looking J-guy get this hot fucking girl. Especially when she's staring at you from across the room, and you could never ever get it because she's obligated to serve Japan or something by only dating J-guys. I just don't get it.

Gyaru? hmm
this this and this . Especially the last pic, the race queens. those are especially off limits to gaijin. now the cool thing about Japan, is a lot of normal plane jane girls you can definitely smash and doll her up to be gyaru or race queen. it's like a blank sheet of paper. you can make it what you want. i've done this with a few girls. it's funny cause after me they always continue dressing hot like that because they never use to get the attention before.

I must have mad low standards then, because those girls all look pretty average to me. I've never been too impressed by Asian race queens, and the gyaru models aren't stirring up much excitement either. If they're at the top of the totem pole there then that's good news for me, cause I'll happily clean up everywhere else.

I'm getting the feeling that the girls J-Guys consider 10s and the J-Girls I'd prefer are different. Judging from what I've seen in their movies, modeling, and regular talk forums, there seems to be a big emphasis on height. Their 10's are usually the ones who are 5'7" and above. Did you notice this?

If I am right and our preferences are divergent, then everybody wins!

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if you're going for young Shibuya girls I'd model my fashion after Oswald Botaeng, Pharell Williams, Russel Simmons, Kanye, and Kid Cudi. if you're going for older Shinjuku types I'd go straight up nerdy like the softbank dude. Anything from "The Suit Company" is good. I use to hit this place religiously when I lived there. you can't go wrong suited up with some nice shoes and a nice bag in Shinjuku. MONEY. plus there are virtually NO other black guys around looking like that. You'd get INSTANT attraction.

This sounds promising!

I'll probably just get kind of a mix going. I'll be able to do Boateng, but I might be too conservative for Kanye/cudi type style. We'll see.

ok, you say that now. go there and see. they're so cute and demure, and dress sooo fucking hot. and just when you think she's gonna be that way in the bedroom, she jumps on top of you and turns into a porno star. you get the "maguro" every now and again, but what makes Japan great are those closet freaks. omfg lol. also i think part of the appeal is the purity of J-girls. some of them are sluts, but a lot of them are office lady's that work there asses off and haven't had sex in years, or maybe even not at all. there are a LOT of girls walking around tokyo like that. i regularly hear guys banging 25 - 30 year old virgins in japan. i love the bored office girl in the sexy business suit drinking at the coffee shop all by herself after work, or reading a magazine waiting for the train to the job-to-nowhere. you really do bring excitement to these girls lives. all that other stuff might be part of the appeal, that and extremely tight wet pussy lol.

Tall J-girls are a rarity so that's probably why. A lot of them have short legs.

Yeah Boateng is pretty much good in any scene. Dude has some seriously nice style. I'm gonna hit his shop next time I'm in London. Gotta save up for that tho.

[Vacancier Permanent]

AmericaninEurope,
I love your input about Japan and J girls. I've been wanting to go there for ever and it'll be very high on my list next time I come to Asia. I agree with you that style is important everywhere, but how would you say rolling in nice suits in Japan like a real G would fare with the ladies? I mean, I'm not the type of guy to dress like an eccentric as most guys do in Japan from the pics/films I've seen. Is rolling suited a winner approach or would blending in and dressing like the local guys fare better with the J honies? I'll be taking japanese classes as soon as I get home so that should at least allow me to say basic things when I do get there. Also, I know there is a huge brasilian and brasilian japanese community in Nippon. Any suggestions on how/best way to get into that crowd as I do speak fluent Brasileiro and would love to taste some japa (name given to Brasilian japanese in Brasil).
Arigato man!

[americanInEurope]

(02-07-2011 11:36 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

AmericaninEurope,
I love your input about Japan and J girls. I've been wanting to go there for ever and it'll be very high on my list next time I come to Asia. I agree with you that style is important everywhere, but how would you say rolling in nice suits in Japan like a real G would fare with the ladies? I mean, I'm not the type of guy to dress like an eccentric as most guys do in Japan from the pics/films I've seen. Is rolling suited a winner approach or would blending in and dressing like the local guys fare better with the J honies? I'll be taking japanese classes as soon as I get home so that should at least allow me to say basic things when I do get there. Also, I know there is a huge brasilian and brasilian japanese community in Nippon. Any suggestions on how/best way to get into that crowd as I do speak fluent Brasileiro and would love to taste some japa (name given to Brasilian japanese in Brasil).
Arigato man!

Hey bro. i try to tell it like i saw it. too many times we guys go someplace overseas, have a good time, and come back misinforming other guys about what happened, making them think the pussy is just going to be waiting for them at the airport or something. this shit takes time, especially in japan, where chicks REGULARLY deny themselves of what they want (good gaijin dick, happiness, adventure) just because they're too scared to go after it. the whole point of what i'm saying is to make it easier for them to talk to you.

it's really good that you wanna learn J and I recommend you take it very seriously. being able to speak Japanese can be a world of difference not just with girls, but with cool guys too. most J-guys don't speak english. if you have to speak english, speak VERY VERY slow to them. almost like you would a child. i know it sounds crazy, and at the time you'll feel like you're mocking them or something, but if you speak fast they won't understand and they'll walk away. most J-girls know english. they hear it all the time. but you have to speak slow, clear and concise (Hi how are you; you're cute; i like you; what's your job; you like music; are you hungry; can you cook; etc). smile A LOT. i repeat, smile a lot!! it makes them relax. be the super happy friendly guy. the more they relax with the 2nd grade english, the more they'll open up to you and will be comfortable with speaking more english with you, mistakes and all.

ok fashion. yeah man, you can't go wrong with a suit. even when it's hot outside, guys still roll with suits. craziest shit i've ever seen. in the states, if you see a guy on the train or the bus in a $1000 suit you'd think doesn't he have a private jet or limo or something he could be taking. but things are different in japan. everybody takes the train, so it won't be incongruent with looking money. don't act like a poser or something, but nothing gets a J-girls attention like a tall good looking suited up gaijin standing on the train looking at his phone, like a GQ model or something, when all of a sudden he turns to her and smiles. if she smiles back, GO IN. she wants to fuck you.

for streetwear, there are a few themes of style for guys in Japan that you should pay attention to: The urban, The Gaijin, The Rock Star, The Artist, The Playboy, The Standard, . I think the playboy is acceptable in all the "23-ku." If you're getting nowhere with that because you still look too "rough" for them, this I would say could also the standard. No matter what suit you pick, the most important things are the shoes and your bag. Take another cue from J-guys here. Shoes and bag are important. the suit company has all that stuff. that's why i like it. and have a handkerchief. If you're a black guy, try to look like Obama. It sounds weird, but try to soften your look a little bit. The hard rock, thug TuPac look is not gonna get you anything in tokyo. Maybe near a base, but not in tokyo. A black dude I use to know in tokyo would wear big fluffy sweaters, pink gloves and shit like that. other guys would tease him and call him gay, but the J-girls fucking loved that shit. they'd touch him and his clothes saying how cute and cuddly he looked, and eventually he'd be fucking them. I guess that's all that matters in the end. For black guys, think Oswald Boateng, Oswald Boateng, and Oswald Boateng. LOL. Perhaps also Russ Simmons for casual times. The point is you wanna go hard. average dressed black guys won't get their attention in tokyo. most J-girls really do like black guys who are dressed well and smile. even normal japanese girls who have never been with a brother before, or have only dated white gaijin before. i'm a realist when I say all Asian girls have a white boy fetish, but the quickest way to look like an equal in a J-girls eyes is to dress like this. takes all those years of mental programming and washes the slate clean. If you're a white guy, you don't really have to soften anything. just emulate the white models you see on the billboards everywhere, and try not to say anything stupid and don't be afraid to take the ass. so many white guys have the chick wanting him but are too scared to be aggressive. forget what you've learned back home or have seen in the movies. it's ok to be a little aggressive. for clubwear, the Pharrell/Kanye look kills em every time. I know this all sounds very crazy, and if you want to be true to yourself and dress the way you dress back home, then by all means do so. nobody's saying you have to blend in and change the way you dress. but realize you're gonna be going home every night alone, beating off. and don't say nobody told you what to expect. if you take the advice fashion seriously, you'll instantly see what I'm talking about as soon as you arrive in tokyo. the guys with the hot girls are fashionable, and the hordes of guys all huddled around each other looking at the girls are not.

For some reason, all the Brazilians i've seen are all in Nagoya. There's a big 5 story monstrosity there called ID Cafe where they all hang out. It's better than any club in Tokyo. I pulled my first time there. But stuff closes earlier in Nagoya so it picks up around 11. Not like in tokyo where you don't hit a club until 1 lol.

And for all the guys that want more examples of J-girl beauty, just hit up cancam.tv. it's the number 1 girl fashion mag in japan and it's where all the Shibuya 109 cuties get their fashion sense

[zanetti]

cheers for all the nihon info americanineurope - awesome stuff!

you seem to know tokyo and japan inside out so would be great if I could run smth by you

i went to tokyo for a week last year; i checked out some of the clubs where those gyaru honeys hang out (e.g. club atom) and didn't really get anywhere. also checked out some of the places where the so-called "gaijin hunters" hang out in roppongi

in one of those places between roppongi and shibuya (i think it was alife) i got some pretty good traction and ended up making out with 6 girls within a 2 hour period (including a 4 way make-out - me and 3 girls) which was pretty awesome. however, none of them wanted to come home with me.

you said in your post guys should be aggressive; with all these girls i grabbed their booty and went for the make-out pretty soon. do you think this is too aggressive?? someone told me club make-outs are kinda frowned upon in japan and that you should postpone getting physical until you are home with them

any thoughts on this?

i'm white, tall and speak virtually no nihon by the by; i was dressed normally (jeans and nice shirt)

thanks dude!

[InternationalSwagger]

Bro...You are making me a believer about Tokyo and dropping PURE KNOWLEDGE on the travel game. The 1st time I went I was definitely more casual so I will make sure to take it up another notch when I go there next time. I have a friend moving there and I hae been putting him onto these posts. I have friends that swear by Tokyo and Japanese culture and these posts are just adding flame to the fire. My main thing is that I'm unable to visit fo extended amounts of time and can only take 5-7 days at a time so It's important for to try to establish some type of repoir before I get there. You have any suggestions on how this can be done?

[Aliblahba]

Solid info AIE. I was stationed in Oki back in the late 90's and getting laid was hard even back then. I remember black guys seemed to keep girls around more often. Nago was a sweet spot if you had a car and spoke some language. We used to go camping down the beach from the Air Force resort up there.

Roppongi was great back then and we could pull w/ jeans and a dress shirt. Digging around online and w/ what you wrote I would definitely go suited and booted. Have you ever been to Sopporo? Girls there look a little taller filled out. The Hokkaido Prefecture looks cool as hell anyways, and I was wondering how much harder the language is up that far north? Damn, it's been awhile since I had me a slice of j-twat and a proper bowl of raman. LOL.

[Global Baller]

(02-04-2011 08:04 AM)americanInEurope Wrote:  

J-girls (and to a greater extent Asian girls) will maybe like black guys once they get to know them, but are instantly immediately attracted to that tall blonde white boy. Automatic attraction. They seriously don't have to do much to get attraction, and if they don't get the ass it's something they did to fuck it up. I've never EVER heard a J-girl say she didn't like white guys, but I've heard a few say they didn't like black guys, for whatever reason. Just go there and look at the billboards. You'll see white people on display more than Japanese. White guys are the standard. Not only because of of the Hollywood imports, but also because they generally believe white guys make better babies. And are rich. Pretty much all the positive stereotypes. In my 5 years in Japan, I find you'll go a lot farther being a boring predictable white guy than a dangerous black guy. In rare cases, like in hip hop clubs, black guys have kind of an edge, but that's about it.

Not surprising since most Asians (particularly, female) worship white people. The type of Asian females who are down with brothas are those who are R&B, hip-hop, reggae, jazz or blues heads.

[americanInEurope]

@Aliblahba

man don't get me started on the Ramen. omg and CoCo Ichibanya. Izakaya's. Chu-Hi stands. for me, the food is one of the main reasons I go to Japan twice a year. the food is just sooo damn good there. and ramen spots are everywhere. it'll surprise you. i was in tokyo last may and found one in roppongi of all places. best ramen i've ever had in my life. the sauce was kinda thick and hot, fresh pieces of meat in there, onions, some gyoza on the side and a Asahi super dry or something. and it's always the little hole in the wall places isn't it? i was in Oki from 2000 - 2002. i was young and just starting out then so i didn't smash a lot, but that's when I dated the hottest filipina of my life. not a bar girl. she was the daughter of a Navy guy there. the farthest north i've been is Niigata which isn't far from tokyo (which is the first time I saw snow covered mountains and like 30 inches of snow in japan. looked like bavaria). I think the foreigner novelty is more powerful the further you get from tokyo, and the people are nicer. they say Akita prefecture has the most beautiful girls in japan. and more down to earth. that's where you'll most likely find your pure country girl. but their english is non-existent in those places so bring your J-game. english teachers clean up around these towns.

@InternationSwagger

what's up bro? thanks for the shout out on twitter! when i moved to tokyo back in '07 i got laid my first week there. it was like my 6th day, and it's just because i had to work 5 of those days. so it's possible to get laid in your time frame. i would say set stuff up online, but the best online website I know (mixi.jp) is only available to peeps with a japanese cell phone. japancupid.com could be a soso place to set stuff up, but I see a lot of girls there looking exclusively for white dudes (zanetti you should hit this up). metropolis magazine has a classified section that's also pretty good (metropolis.jp). it's probably the second best dating place for foreigners. chicks on their are just looking for gaijin as it's an english only magazine. in the past you've seen mostly girls in their late 20's early 30's just looking for white guys, but lately i've been seeing more and more chicks looking for brothers too. also check out japan-guide.com classified section under friendships. all those i'd hit before I come. same rules apply and i know i don't have to tell you, but for all other dudes you need to look money on your photos. suit, vest, hat, scarf, clean, etc. and SMILE. you might want to sign up on the local PUA website there (japanlair.com/forums) and hit some of those kats up. they're there on the ground so they'd be able to give you a lot better intel than me. I've got shit already set up from 5 years living there, so I only game there now when I wanna hit something new. where is your boy moving to and what's his job? tell him to hit up the websites i suggested. he's gonna have a good time. i gotta go back after this "european vacation." as far as smashing shit on a limited time frame, check my comments below

@zanetti

I'd recommend you also check out japanlair.com/forums. A lot of guys on their are going through the same thing that you described, and the site sacho "Genki" as well as other moderators will give you some good advice. ok club game. hmm, like you said club atom is mostly where american dudes hang out, and chicks that like american dudes. it's a nice spot tho. i've never pulled anything from there. Alife is also another gaijin hangout. down in the basement is where it's at. and they've got tables set up where you can bring the honey up (if you can pull her away from her friends) and isolate and game her more. J-girls aren't super "easy" i think. i think they're harder than the average girl until you crack the code, simply because the average western girl will cave in to sexual desire. J-girls repress that shit lol. but once you crack the code, the 6 and 7's get easy. but the 8,9 and 10's are still hard. your game has to be extra tight for them because they're hit on 100000000 times a day, so you've gotta incorporate negs, push/pull, jealousy, etc. i've only seen J-guys pull 9's and 10's for some ONS love. Might wanna check out "the Hub" next time you're there. it's a chain of English pubs in tokyo and they're always full of chicks who like gaijin. The one in Shibuya (next to TGIF's) is where I pulled my hottest J-girl. she was I think an 8.5 maybe 9. even my J-guy friend I work with, who only fucks the baddest girls, asked me for her number when I was leaving Japan lol. and I fucked her the first night. i don't wanna advertise these guys because i don't work for them, but the dudes at pickupasia could help you. i did a bootcamp with them back in 07 at Muse (another gaijin spot in Ropp.) and, following their instructions, i had a gyaru actually chasing me. she was hot too. I know I could have took her back to a hotel immediately but the instructors wanted me to keep going and not get distracted. these guys had us go HARD on the paint, getting in every set possible. but talking to them, they'll have you think there's no better way to get pussy in japan. and that's not true. any guy can learn this stuff by doing the research online and going out there with some PUA friends. and it takes time. bro you need to go there and not give a fuck. that's how the white guys i know do well. they go there and not give a fuck and just try to fuck as many girls as possible. being aggressive means grab a girls hand and isolate her. grab her hand and bring her into a cab. put her hand on your shit. J-girls are not pushovers. if they don't like it or you, they'll pull away quick. but they gotta play the shy coy roll because J-guys like that.

if i had to have a checklist for a guy quick on time in Japan, it'd be:

1) stay around Roppongi. yeah it's slummin but anything else will require more than a week of preperation.
2) get your logistics down FIRST. case the clubs in the area, see what's opened that night. talk to a cool african guy that's not trying to get you in his club, and ask him what's really jumpin tonight. kinda know your way around Roppongi a bit. it's not hard. it's pretty much just a crossing. but Roppongi has like no love hotels. try Ebisu, Shibuya, Aoyama or something within a cheap taxi ride away. if you don't know anything get the hotel done before you go out.
3) get your story straight. if she's in roppongi, she's looking for a foreigner and she speaks english. so she'll ask you what you're doing here. it's your call on this one. but it's best just to say you work for a company in tokyo.
4) if you're kissing girls and not fucking them, it's something you did wrong. are you isolating these girls? are you setting up the after hours plan in their mind ? (i wanna show you pictures of America. they're on my PC.) try to get it in her mind early that she's coming back to your place after the club to do/see something cool. i know a guy who use to just say "man I'm so tired. i just want to lay in an old Greek bathtub with some bubblebath. you wanna come too" and it was congruent, because the love hotel was a Greek themed hotel lol. and it worked. trust me, most chicks will go home with somebody. might as well be you.
5) if she's with a friend, get her friend to like you. game 101 bro. you know the deal. ask her if you can borrow her friend for a moment, then find a private spot and kiss her passionately. grab ass, titties, and if she doesn't stop you, pussy. J-girls are not above making out isolated at the club. what's looked down upon is making out on the street. that's a no no. you gotta feel out the situation. if she's not coming in close when you kiss, don't do what I just said lol. but if she's all over you, go for it! i'm a bit of a natural at this phase and above. it's getting to this point that i'm horrible at lol. but bro, if i'm at the point where I'm kissing a girl, she's locked in and coming back to my place 90% of the time. pack it up, that's a wrap. the ones that don't usually let me know the deal in the beginning (look i've gotta go to work tomorrow and i can't stay out long). even some of them I've banged.
6) you have to bounce the girl. recommend you guys get some coffee or food right after you've kissed her. in Roppongi you'll find Ramen, Coffee and cake shops all open right there. bounce them there, or if they're not feeling that, bounce them to another club (hey guys I know this great spot. let's go!). they'll usually say OK. be the fucking alpha male, don't be a pussy at this point. cause they'll be following you expecting you to come thru. when you get to the next venue, grab the girl, dance with her, kiss her more, etc.
7) usually, and this isn't always 100%, at this point the girl will be telling her friend to get lost cause she's about to get fucked by a caveman. you've pitched the picture idea or something like that to her, she's feeling that, and she knows what the deal is. walk her friend to the train station, say goodbye, and take your new hottie to the hotel. sometimes this part takes yet another bounce (coffee or food if the first bounce was a club). keep her out late and recommend for her safety she sleeps at your place until the first train leaves. or just say hey lemme show you something, and hop into a cab with her. J-girls are so easy at this point because you've proven yourself to them by convincing them to split with their friend and now they'll pretty much do whatever you say. if she still doesn't wanna go with you, chalk it up bro. you did everything you could. get an email and time bridge for the next day or something.

by the way, all this needs to be done around 1 or 2am, or earlier. anything later than that and she's gonna get on the first train with her friend. and you need to be having fun the entire time. you need to be the party caveman who is taking them to the cool spots and kissing them whenever you want. that shit is hot.

[Vacancier Permanent]

Mega kudos for the super informative reply on style AIE! So Akita prefecture is the place to target hey? Good to know. Almost went to Japan in 07 to teach English with a company called Nova, but fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how one looks at things, they went down shortly after. Speaking of teaching english there, how do the girls react when a guy tells them they're teaching english in Japan? Do they look down on them? Or are teachers there respected? I'm not looking at teaching english there, but just out of curiosity. Btw, were you teaching english when you lived in Japan? However, I wouldn't mind enrolling in a school/college or uni in Japan to learn Japanese for 6-12 months. Are these visas easy to get for a Canadian? I'll check on that when I get home, but if you have any knowledge on that, would appreciate if you could share that too man.

I once heard that no matter how long a gaijin has been in Japan and how fluent he is in Japanese, he will never be fully accepted nor integrated into the Japanese society by the Japanese. Is that true or bs? What did you notice while you were living there?

Cheers man.

[nomis69]

Haha ... check out this Aussie dudes take,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Le4gBArK1oU

[zanetti]

AIE - this stuff is golden!! many thanks man it's much appreciated

i'll be hitting up japan again towards the end of the year (Osaka and some other place not decided yet) and can't wait to try all of this out

you're right about the food - i hit up this awesome shabu shabu place in roppongi and also had the best thai meal of my life there; there is smth very addictive about japanese culture

domo arigato gosaimasu

[americanInEurope]

@ Vacancier Permanent

Hey bro. no i was a contractor working for the US Gov't there. possibly the best gig you can get there. I paid no taxes, had the protection of the US Gov't, got paid REALLY well, had access to America food and goods whenever I needed it, American post, apartment paid for, etc. I think anybody else who lived in that situation would have stayed forever, but I'm never satisfied. All I could think about when I was there was hot white euro girls lol. man you dodged a bullet! I knew some guys that worked for NOVA when it went under, running around unemployed trying to do whatever they could to stay in Japan. needless to say gaming was difficult for them. it was sad. I think english teachers are super saturated in tokyo. and they don't really get paid much. maybe like $50k a year or something, which is nothing in tokyo. I know contractors look down on them, but ordinary Japanese don't. it's a good way to meet lots of Japanese people, learn the language, and get access to non-club girls. like in game, when you're telling a person about your job you have to make it sound interesting. my english teacher buddy use to work for Berlitz, which is like the biggest teaching school in Japan. and he use to just say I work for the biggest teaching company in tokyo (or the world) and that got a lot of "wow"s. find something interesting about your company and use it in your pitch. i don't think they demand the respect as say an American salaryman or an IT guy, but usually they are very resourceful and can speak really good J. and they all wear suits. all of them. not sure if this is a requirement or if they want to hide the fact that they don't make that much. my american co-worker just got accepted for a school visa at a university in tokyo for his masters. he had to do a little bit of work. i think he even had to take the JLPT. again, tokyo is saturated with horny western guys trying to come there, so now the J-gov't is making sure everyone that comes there speaks a little J i think. if you were an american I'd say take the gov't contracting route, cause it's a lot easier. regarding the people not truly accepting you, I'd say that's pretty spot on. in the 5 or so years i've been in Japan i've NEVER been invited to a friends house. i've been to my girlfriends house, but never her parents or family, or never a guy friends house. and last time I was there I got pretty close to a J-guy. we use to hang out all the time and drink. i don't know maybe if I pushed the issue he'd let me over, but he'd be really uncomfortable and embarrassed I think. Japanese who have traveled abroad will be a little more open, but most of them will not. even after years of friendship. basically because you're not Japanese. it's going to take about 100 years or so before that changes. being a gaijin in Japan is like being black anywhere (besides africa). no matter where you go, you will be noticed. and you will be expected to live up to the stereotype that people you meet have of you. if you don't, some people will get disappointed, and some people will get downright angry with you lol. good days, bad days, days you just wanna be left alone, days you wanna blend in, days you don't wanna be the center of attention, days you wanna be the center of attention, whatever, you will always be the big gaijin freak everywhere you go, and people act accordingly. you will no longer be just a normal guy. it helps being in tokyo depending on where you are, and speaking J helps this a lot, dressing like a GQ model helps this a lot, smiling helps a lot. but everything is viewed through the lens of being different. so when they want to invite you over, it's not a normal guy coming over. it's supergaijun. and asian people in general pretty much keep to themselves for whatever reason. they are extremely embarrassed and almost insecure people when it comes to letting non-asians into their lives. because the mask is off at that point. I hope you get what I mean. but like 80% of the peeps i know black/white married to Japanese, their parents love them. they try to get along with them with limited english. they are proud of their biracial grandkids or whatever. they're very progressive once you get in there. so if you prove to them you're in it for the long haul, they'll respect you. i think the same goes anywhere. it's def. like that in Europe.

@nomis69

this dude be speakin the truf lol. no but really guys like him and me are just trying to prepare you guys for the long road you'll have ahead of you BEFORE you get there. because the first year in Japan is so hard. it's best if you know what to expect. what he said about guys confusing a J-girl smiling and being nice to him as a sign she likes him is very true. ANYBODY can get a J-girls number. ANYBODY. just saying "hey you're cute, and i'm in a hurry, so can i call you sometime" will get you numbers 90% of the time. so naturally that number/email don't mean shit, because she's NOT GOING TO ANSWER YOU. J-girls have an awesome screening process and it's harsh and real. there are things you can do to reduce the chances you'll get screened but nothing is full proof. the good thing is, I've noticed that when you DO get a first date with her, she usually puts out. J-girls are very sexually liberated and don't try to hold the pussy hostage. they wanna give it to you. after a while you'll start to notice more and more girls are getting into you, your dates are going to the bedroom stage a lot more, your numbers are not getting screened anymore, and pretty soon you'll have 5 or so girls that wanna come over your apartment every week just to watch movies and fuck. it kinda creeps in. i kinda disagree with him that girls won't mess with you if you don't have a lot of time there. I think he's kinda talking about the older girls looking to settle down, or the young girls tired of getting fucked by guys that keep leaving them. there are equally just as many girls new to scene that won't even ask you how long you'll stay here. they don't know what to expect, and they are just along for the ride. the most they'll ask is what you do here in tokyo, and usually just say you're working here. IDK that's just been my opinion. could be that because i've always had a job and an apartment in tokyo or yokohama that the girls always just assumed I'd be there forever so that's why I that was never a problem for me.

the guy does make a very good point in that, if you guys plan on screwing girls over in japan, please don't. get a hooker or something like that, because the last thing we need is more shit giving us a bad reputation. especially us black guys.

[Global Baller]

I hate to post this. Brothas need to peep this in particular. I'm not 100% sure the service member was Black, cause there's no pic of him.

http://www.blacktokyo.com/?p=6805

[BernieGreiner]

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