[jariel]

(03-10-2014 02:17 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  

A lot of guys get off on it because it strokes their ego.


You could definitely see this with op if you read the question he posits in the openining post.

Soup here reflect a more wise approach "it's the same thing" it doesn't matter

if you think of it she could be cheating on her bf with more than one guy, so op might not be as special as he thinks. Any dick will do.

Personally it's not a moral issue but i don't find the idea of fucking a woman who may have had her bf's cum in her mouth 1 to 24 hrs ago appealing to me. There's a lot a lot of drama that could be involved.

We all like to think we are the players, but girls play too. It's similar to the realization tucker Max had when he realized he too is a plate.

It's important to not let your ego cloud your judgement and think, how am I being used here?

[jariel]

(03-10-2014 02:11 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

This is a lot simpler than people are making it out to be.

If you prefer to go after girls that are "taken" whether married or otherwise, that reflects on you (there IS something going on with you that's negative, some trauma or something you haven't dealt with internally).

If you just pursue what you like and you end up fucking some girls that are "taken" whether you know it or not and you don't specifically make more effort to go after the ones that might be "taken" then you're fine.

Thank you for the mature perspective.

The reality is that the game never stops.

Some people like to think that just because a chick is in a relationship then she can't be attracted to another man. Some of those same people think that as soon as they have a chick, she is their property until they deem otherwise.

I didn't plan on getting with this girl, but through our interaction the chemistry was obvious and as two individuals, we liked each other.

She was open enough to put out there what she wanted me to have, and I decided to accept it.

This shit isn't about getting off because she's some guy's woman. I personally don't care about him, because he has nothing to do with how either one of us feels as it pertains to our interaction.

I understand that in this game most women have men in their lives in one capacity or another. Women are not like us, they don't really like to be alone, so even if they don't have a steady boyfriend, they probably have a fuck buddy and/or they speak regularly with guys who shower them with attention.

In this particular case, this girl had a boyfriend, she wasn't some married chick with kids.

You have to be careful in Miami, you fuck the wrong dude's chick, and you end up getting shot, her too.

I'm a seasoned vet and know how to play game, so I get in and get out rather quickly.

A lot of dudes will get there when they accept the fact they can't control women.

[Mage]

(03-09-2014 03:13 PM)jariel Wrote:  

As far as I'm concerned, if you're not married, you're single.

this contradicts

(03-09-2014 03:13 PM)jariel Wrote:  

I am in the process of taking another man's woman.

See you don't give clear details about the relationship of this women to her man. Were they married? Did they have kids? Were they exclusive or just dating? Was the man a decent alpha and she just had a weak moment or too much drinks? Or was he a lousy beta?

Whether your actions are moral or not depend on many circumstances. What makes me suspicious is that you want to talk about this case on forum. It reminds me on how women ask internet "relationship experts" on what to do if they have an "abusive husband" or if they "love their husband but are not in love with him" or if they "have this guy who has good sex with them and then this other guy who is not so good but is so caring and gives her money but they just cannot stop to sleep with both for both benefits" and similar to get social validation for the behavior they feel guilty about and rationalize their behavior into a "moral"" one to drop the feelings of guilt.

It's all fine of you live in society where fucking is a competitive sport and game between single men and women to play for fun and chills, but it's another thing if you fuck a committed women who had mutual plans to build or keep a stable family with her man, but got lonely and drunk while her man went to work abroad for several months and they happened to have an argument the evening before he left. Without this context it is impossible to judge anything except your motivations to stress this particular case.

[jariel]

(03-11-2014 02:46 AM)Mage Wrote:  

(03-09-2014 03:13 PM)jariel Wrote:  

As far as I'm concerned, if you're not married, you're single.

this contradicts

(03-09-2014 03:13 PM)jariel Wrote:  

I am in the process of taking another man's woman.

See you don't give clear details about the relationship of this women to her man. Were they married? Did they have kids? Were they exclusive or just dating? Was the man a decent alpha and she just had a weak moment or too much drinks? Or was he a lousy beta?

Whether your actions are moral or not depend on many circumstances. What makes me suspicious is that you want to talk about this case on forum. It reminds me on how women ask internet "relationship experts" on what to do if they have an "abusive husband" or if they "love their husband but are not in love with him" or if they "have this guy who has good sex with them and then this other guy who is not so good but is so caring and gives her money but they just cannot stop to sleep with both for both benefits" and similar to get social validation for the behavior they feel guilty about and rationalize their behavior into a "moral"" one to drop the feelings of guilt.

It's all fine of you live in society where fucking is a competitive sport and game between single men and women to play for fun and chills, but it's another thing if you fuck a committed women who had mutual plans to build or keep a stable family with her man, but got lonely and drunk while her man went to work abroad for several months and they happened to have an argument the evening before he left. Without this context it is impossible to judge anything except your motivations to stress this particular case.

If you had read my previous post, you would have seen that the girl is just dating a guy, she is not married, nor does she have children.

[Mage]

(03-11-2014 11:04 AM)jariel Wrote:  

If you had read my previous post, you would have seen that the girl is just dating a guy, she is not married, nor does she have children.

Ok, but this should be in OP not in some previous post