[anon]

Hey guys. I stumbled upon this site and it is just what I needed. Props to Roosh for a cool site. I have a lot of questions. Anyways I feel the need to tell my embarrassing stories so that maybe a few of you guys can help me out in my normal game.

I consider myself a late bloomer. By this I mean that I was always "that one super shy and nice guy" and still kinda am. I wanna break this. I'm only 18 and have been trying to learn how to pull chicks, but I'm still a bit clueless. I am very comfortable with approaching girls from other schools or that I don't already know.

First time I had the balls to ask a girl out was after I was talking to this cute girl for a while. At first we txted about school then just about normal convo stuff. I asked her to go to the movies with me, she said yeah, then made up an excuse as to why she didn't go. I realize now that I was being a pussy in my talk and txt game. I often have the problem of saying sorry for everything and just being the nice guy.

On to another story.

As embarrassing as this is, I had my first make out sesh in my senior year of high school at a house party. I was drunk so I was pretty much horrible too. I acted like I had done it before, hoping the alcohol was enough of an excuse, which it was. This chick got my number down after and added me on Facebook (which I accepted - mistake number 1?). She txted me a few days later but I didn't respond since she is probably about a 6. I didn't wanna see her again because I want to meet as many girls as possible. 2 of her friends who were all over me added me on Facebook also (which I accepted - mistake number 2?).

Lemme know.

[CJ]

Accepting a friend request from a girl you're not interested in banging is not a mistake, because it is irrelevant.

Your mistake was not texting her back. Look you don't want this 6 (probably a 4 then lol) so use her as practice. Text her whatever the hell you want, and see what she does and does not respond to, then tweak your text game from there.

As for her friends, again who cares. I'm not for adding girls I've banged or want to bang to my facebook because I don't want them knowing anything more about me, my friends or family than I tell them; in this case that does not seem like an issue.

[FretDancer]

On regards to the facebook "mistakes", CJ made some pretty good poins there.

Anyways, you're young an its good you finally decided to change things. Just keep practicing your game, get ahold of some game blogs out there which are fun to read and to learn. Also keep in mind that flakes always happen so don't be discouraged from that, just try to reduce your flake rate by practicing more and studying and analizing your approaches/interactions.

If you really want to get alot of girls then you need to approach constantly. If you're still at school try doing some approaches with indirect openers and hit it off from there, it will boost your confidence and prepare you to do some direct game (if you're interested on that).

[YoungGunner]

"I am very comfortable with approaching girls from other schools or that I don't already know. "

This is normal as you wouldn't normally see these chicks and they'd be curious about you. It's harder for girls that go to your school as you might see them every damn day. If you can get enough chicks from surrounding schools that's great, you know the saying don't sh#t where you eat, but if you really want chicks from your school don't let them know too much about you, it takes away the mystery like you said though in that case you weren't really gaming those chicks so it doesn't matter that you friended them of FB. Like FretDancer said you just gotta read up on game and practice and do lots of approaches to figure out what works in general, what works for you, your strengths, weaknesses, etc. Remember that game is a science and skill and at your age you have a lot of opportunities to improve and refine it.

[anon]

thanks a lot guys. wasn't really expecting that much help, but you guys have some damn good points

[FretDancer]

(01-10-2011 12:00 AM)anon Wrote:  

thanks a lot guys. wasn't really expecting that much help, but you guys have some damn good points

Also remember to keep us updated in your progress, share your experiences and other stories regarding your journey in Game. I always enjoy a good reading concering game regardless of its level.